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Good Things Happen in the Rain!

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Grants Pass, OR 199909023

Ellie in the RainGood Things Happen in the Rain.  I've been on the receiving end of giving for many of my childhood years.  Having been raised by a disabled single mother with Multiple Sclerosis, it didn't leave us with many options, except that of welfare and church donations.  I'll never forget waiting in long lines for government hand-outs of cheese and butter.  It left a distinct impression in my mind, and one that I didn't like much.

It wasn't easy being the welfare kid on the block.  I hated hand-outs and how they made me feel about myself.  Because of that, I was determined to work hard and make enough money so I would never have to rely on public assistance again.  Having been there and done that, I knew a little something about charity and how important it is to help those less fortunate.  

I've had the wonderful experience in giving to many charitable causes throughout my adult life.  Since there are so many worthwhile organizations vying for donations, I established a personal criteria for which charities I would donate to.  Any organization that supplied basic human needs (i.e. food, water, clothing, shelter) had the highest priority in my mind.  Mostly because it was these items that supplied my greatest need as a child.  Once the basic human needs are met, then I look for other opportunities to support children and their emotional well being. 

I've always been a huge advocate of sending kids to camp, paying for sports teams equipment and uniforms and also donating funds for the advancement of music and art in schools.  I believe these programs are extremely helpful to the psychological development of a child.  I have a heart for children and especially those with less fortunate circumstances.  Which leads me to a follow-up to one of my previous posts... This Biz is for the Bears.

Two weeks ago, my grand-daughter turned 3 years old.  In lieu of birthday gifts, we asked each guest to consider donating to a charity for needy children called, My Stuff Bags.  Here's a pic of my sweet grand-daughter Ellie delivering bags full of blankets and stuffed animals collected from her birthday party.  While she may not fully understand the value of giving gifts to needy children, she will at least know that she participated in something good.  It was a rainy day in LA that day... but it provided a great photo op of my Ellie holding her little umbrella.  And it just goes to show ya... Good things happen in the rain!

Ellie and her donations

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Mel Peterson

 Melinda Peterson, ABR, CRS

 Oregon Principal Broker

 Real Estate Cafe LLC

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John McCormack, CRS
Albuquerque Homes Realty - Albuquerque, NM
Honesty, Integrity, Results, Experienced. HIRE Me!

Ellie is learning an awesome lesson.  One that will take her far and to good places in life.  Good for you for being such a positive role in Ellie's life.

Jan 29, 2012 06:27 AM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

Mel-icious or Meladocious~As always you deliver a powerful message with a sweet voice. Your grand is learning some incredibly valuable life lessons early on. What you have done is taken lemons from your early upbringing and made them into lemonade. And in knowing you, you never looked at it in a sour manner, no matter what life handed you at the time and it has only served to make you this most incredible big heart on long legs that we now know and love!

Jan 29, 2012 06:29 AM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

Mel - thank you for sharing your personal story.  It's stories like these that make us grateful every day for the little things in life.  I, too, had a story but not of needing comforts, but needing comforting parents.  I don't dwell on this any longer as they are all long gone.  I choose instead, like you, to focus on the benefits of realizing what is most important in life.  Bless you for your charitable donations to those in need! 

Jan 29, 2012 06:34 AM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

And, you'r granddaughter is so precious!  Congrats on the birthday party lesson for her!

Jan 29, 2012 06:34 AM
Jordon Wheeler
The Jordon Wheeler Group - Fairburn, GA
J W Group Real Estate Sales and Service

Hi Mel,

Beautiful post on the power of giving  Ellie is blessed to have a super grand mother!  Best of success to you this year!

Jan 29, 2012 06:36 AM
Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

John ~ Ellie is learning a most valuable lesson... which is priceless!

Gayle-O-Rama ~ I love the cute names you ascribe to me... you're hilarious!  I tried selling lemonade when I was a kid... it was a failure.  I took up collecting bottles, which proved to me much more lucrative!  You do what you gotta do to survive ;)))  Luv ya kiddo!

Jan ~ I can hear the lingering pain my friend... and it is truly something we never fully get over.  I have a boat load of not-so-pleasant childhood memories that I set sailing a long time ago.  But, just when you least expect it, you find a message in a bottle landing ashore.  It's those messages that provide life's greatest lessons... and it sounds like you too, are a survivor Jan!  It's good to know you in the rain sweetie!

Jordan ~ Thank you kindly... I feel pretty lucky to be her grandma. 

Jan 29, 2012 06:44 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Mel- you are giving your granddaughter, Ellie, a gift that will stay with her forever, she will not outgrow and she will also want to give away to others.  Can't buy that with a Visa card!

Jan 29, 2012 07:00 AM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Mel, we all have to take care of one another and too often many fall through the cracks. Thanks for some more wonderful background on your own story.

Jan 29, 2012 07:09 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

What a lucky little girl to learn the real value of giving back.  I am inspired.

Jan 29, 2012 07:12 AM
Brian L. Sirota, Esq.
Bristar Realty (Realtor/Attorney) - Orange, CA
For Solutions: (714) 501-7660

Melinda, this is the cutest photo op in history herstory.    The poster child of Activerain has arrived!

To pass a sense of benevolence to the next generation is to provide a salve to the world.   

You're magnetic, magnificent, magnanimous.....in the rain!

Brian 

Jan 29, 2012 07:14 AM
Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

So true Kathy... and I love... 'you can't buy that with a Visa card' :)))

There are so many children who 'fall through the cracks' Gary... I was one of the lucky ones ;)

I'm glad my little Ellie inspired you today Paula!

So cute Brian!  I think you already know that my sweet little Ellie Bear is a poster child for all things good in my world.  Your other adjectives brought a smile to GG's face too!

Jan 29, 2012 07:37 AM
Laura S. Baker
First Weber Inc - Lake Mills, WI
Realtor (920) 728-4118, First Weber Inc

Oh Mel, have I been away that long?  She has grown so much since I last saw a photo of her!  What a wonderful lesson to learn even if she only minutely understands. 

Jan 29, 2012 08:09 AM
Cynthia Larsen
Cotati, CA
Independent Broker In Sonoma County, CA

What t cutie ... my granddaughter just turned 9 a week ago. Looks like I'm 6 years ahead of you :)  What a wonderful way to give back, you are teaching Ellie some valuable lessons.

Jan 29, 2012 10:10 AM
Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

Yeah Laura... where have you been GF?  Too busy selling real estate... which is a good problem to have!  My little Ellie is growing up way too fast!

Aren't they precious Cynthia!  I didn't know you were a G'ma too!  A very young looking one too!

Jan 29, 2012 10:20 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Mel, What a great idea.  Ellie will grow up understanding giving and know who Grandma Mel is.  What a wonderful lesson for any child - how blessed are those that receive and super blessed are those that give. 

Jan 29, 2012 10:53 AM
Florida Tolbert Team Keller Williams Advantage
Keller Williams Advantage III Realty in Lake Nona - Orlando, FL
Keller Williams Land Luxury Division Specialist

I know entirely too personally where you are coming from.  The roots of your raising run very deep and when you start with nothing, and finally have something, all you want to do is give it back to others that start out in the same place in life or even have just fallen down and need a hand up.

This is probably one of the greatest reasons I love Keller Wllliams.  We are all about God first, then family, then everything else. 

From donating from every deal to our peraonal charity, KW Cares that helps agents and their families in need to community service thousands of hours per year, to teaching, to mentoring, we are a company that shows how to care.

And when you consider our company profit shares 42% of all profits right back to the very agents that earned them, it is easy to see that the charity starts at the top and goes from there.

Jan 29, 2012 03:19 PM
Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

I think so Kathleen... I'm glad you do too!

Sounds like you've been there Kevin!  I'm glad you're real happy at KW.  I know many fine agents who love working for them.  Good for you!

Jan 31, 2012 04:34 AM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

How did I miss this one?  Wonderful lesson for your precious Ellie. Brian's adjectives describe you perfectly.

Feb 07, 2012 08:21 AM
Loreena and Michael Yeo
3:16 team REALTY ~ Locally-owned Prosper TX Real Estate Co. - Prosper, TX
Real Estate Agents

It's nice to ready your sweet little story. Brought a smile to my face.

Sep 15, 2013 08:42 PM