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Have you ever been to jail???

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Real Estate Agent with Prudential Verani Realty

I'll preface this post by saying that I didn't commit a crime or anything like that. I chose to go to jail tonight with a few of my closest friends. We sing in an ensemble called "Vox Jubilante" and we do things differently from your average singing group.

We like to go where others don't even think about going. We went to the VA Hospital in Manchester, NH last month to welcome home some of the soldiers from Iraq. Check out my blog from that visit.

But this was different......we went to jail. Why you ask? Well remember Jesus said "I was in prison and you visited me"?

I wanted to have pictures but we were not allowed to have a camera there. We were asked to come with no cell phones, no pocketbooks, just our license or photo ID. We checked in and were lead down a hall into a room where we could deposit our coats then into a tiny chapel big enough for about 30 chairs, a makeshift altar, some banners on the concrete block wall, a cross and a beautiful piano.

Seemed odd that with the little space they were given for this chapel there in the front of these 30 chairs in a space about 16 x 8 sat this piano?

We were told that the men that were coming to this chapel were from all walks of life and in the jail for various crimes some carrying heavy sentences and others for short sentences. They had one thing in common, besides being in jail, they decided, on their own, to sign up to attend this concert (if you want to call it that).

We warmed up and then it was time for the prisoners to come in. We began to sing a song while they filed in called "There is a River". It seemed right to do this as these men came in and sat down. It seemed to set the mood and keep us focused. It is uncomfortable going to jail whether you are an inmate or "just visiting".

As we went through our program there were all kinds of things going on all around. We could hear doors opening and closing loudly - not wooden doors but steel doors. I was thinking when singing "how awful to endure this noise day in and day out".

Several guards hovered just outside the chapel doors keeping watch. Can you imagine that everything you do, every move you make is being watched?

We kept singing and some of these men who at first were joking and making fun began to change right before our eyes. There were some who began to sing along, some smiled, some were solemn and a few were visibly moved to the point of tears

The piano - the music - it changes you - it has an effect - music is a powerful medium.

When we ended with a song called "Everybody Hurts" each pair of eyes were focused on us and I could see  each man listening, knowing that for the rest of today and tomorrow and for however long they are there they will endure that awful sound of steel doors slamming.......

I hope we gave some hope to them. I hope they feel a little less alone now then when they filed into that chapel. I hope the songs go with them.

I pray the music makes a difference. Perhaps that is why the piano is there, in that chapel, at the Rockingham County Jail.

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Monika McGillicuddy
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Verani Realty - Hampstead, NH
Southern NH & the Seacoast Area

You gave me goosebumps Judy. Especially singing Everybody hurts...I know no matter what crimes they committed they are human.

 

Nov 20, 2007 01:00 PM
Lisa Hill
Florida Property Experts - Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Beach Real Estate
God created us to worship. When we tap into that power, it can change hearts and lives =)
Nov 20, 2007 01:07 PM
Jay McGillicuddy
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Verani Realty - Exeter, NH
Real Estate Broker
Judy, very nicely done and I am sure they enjoyed your visit. I am sure their Thanksgiving will be much brighter.
Nov 20, 2007 01:08 PM
Judy Tuscano
Prudential Verani Realty - Nottingham, NH
NH Real Estate Professional

Jay -I hope it makes a difference.

Lisa - Thank you for your comments. The power of God does make the difference - I hope they can find that for themselves.

Moni - As I re read what I wrote I was crying. These men are hurting and human. Thank you for your tender heart.

Linda - I do count myself priveledged and we are hoping to return there on a regular basis. After all each man there needs a touch from a God that loved them enough to die for them.

Nov 20, 2007 01:17 PM
Hugh Krone
Weichert Referral Associates - Hamburg, NJ
Realtor, Sussex County NJ
Judy, God Bless you It is important to bring the good word where it is needed Happy Thanksgiving
Nov 21, 2007 12:34 AM
Judy Tuscano
Prudential Verani Realty - Nottingham, NH
NH Real Estate Professional

Anna - Thank you for commenting and for the blessing.

Hugh - Thank you too for the blessing - I am blessed and happy to bless others less fortunate. Happy Thanksgiving

Nov 21, 2007 12:44 AM
Judy Tuscano
Prudential Verani Realty - Nottingham, NH
NH Real Estate Professional
Anna - What is Full Circle Events? Are you now a wedding planner? It would be right up your alley.
Nov 21, 2007 01:02 AM
Marchel Peterson
Results Realty - Spring, TX
Spring TX Real Estate E-Pro
Judy, when I was younger I visited a jail for some kind of field trip, my bachelors is in social work and I will never forget that door clanging shut.  That is wonderful that you brought the song with the word to the jail.
Nov 21, 2007 11:46 AM
Judy Tuscano
Prudential Verani Realty - Nottingham, NH
NH Real Estate Professional

Marchel - I was an unforgetable sound and i cannot imagine what it does to the phyche of the prisinors. I pray that the music we brought will ring in their minds and hearts for a long time. Thank you for your comments. Happy Thanksgiving.

Nov 21, 2007 01:24 PM
Kelly Niro, SRES
Crossroads Realty - Barnegat, NJ

WOW!  WOW!  WOW!!!!!

I have the chills, my hairs on standing up on my arms, you brought tears to my eyes and I felt my heart beat faster with every paragraph I read!  WOW!  You did make a difference for each and every inmate that sat in the chapel to hear you sing.  What a wonderful inspiration you are and I am so glad I read your post.  You touched me and I was not blessed to hear you sing.  Thank you for writing this post and my 13 year old son read and it gave him goosebumps!  You touched us both, THANK YOU!

Kelly

Dec 01, 2007 01:04 PM
Judy Tuscano
Prudential Verani Realty - Nottingham, NH
NH Real Estate Professional
Kelly - Thank you for the kind words. I must give glory to God for it is He that is my inspiration - you and your son have experienced a touch from the Holy Spirit. Thank you for stopping by and I welcome you to come again. OH BTW, Vox Jubilante has been asked to return to the jail for 2 performances in December
Dec 03, 2007 02:30 AM
Joseph Lang
Pillar To Post Professional Home Inspection - Rancho Cucamonga, CA
Home Inspector, Southern California
Beautiful, beautiful story!  Thanks for sharing, and more importantly, to give of your time in such a special way.  God bless you and all of the men (inmates and personnel) at the Rickingham County Jail.
Dec 03, 2007 03:06 AM
Robert L. Brown
www.mrbrownsellsgr.com - Grand Rapids, MI
Grand Rapids Real Estate Bellabay Realty, West Mic
Great post and from the response those men needed to hear you. You never know where God will lead you.
Dec 03, 2007 05:30 AM
Judy Tuscano
Prudential Verani Realty - Nottingham, NH
NH Real Estate Professional

Joseph - Thaks for stopping by and for your kind comments. I am blessed.

Robert - God does know, far better than we, where we are needed most.

Dec 03, 2007 09:37 AM