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Heroes, Mentors, Role Models, etc.

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Real Estate Agent with Integrity Real Estate

Earlier today, Ardell DellaLoggia encouraged "Active Rain" readers to share examples of their role models in her article, "The Russian Tea Room-NYC.  I responded positively to the idea, but admittedly needed a little time to draft a proper tribute.  I was fortunate to have exposure to a number of exemplary figures while I was learning the title business many years ago. 

I believe that the credibility of the every industry has been crafted through the motives and actions of human giants.  These dedicated professionals were, and are, directly responsible for the creation of lofty benchmarks for behavioral and ethical standards.  The heroes of the title industry, past and present, did not earn their reputations because they were skilled settlement officers or marketing experts. [Though they probably were] The legends of the title industry earned their status due to their skills as title examiners paired with an intense passion to act with integrity and compassion.  Their calling, first and foremost, was to make a contribution through service to others.  Not only do I admire the things these people did, I also admire the fact they did not participate in certain types of activities.  Their acts, I believe, are bigger than the industry itself! 

In the early 1990's, I once had the great pleasure of hearing Oscar Beasley speak about the title issues of the day.  It was before there was even a continuing education requirement in the state of Maryland.  Lectures were attended for the sake of gaining knowledge.  Somehow underwriting seminars seemed to be more meaning and substantive before there was a requirement to attend them.  Oscars' presentation was one I have not forgotten.  The man was clearly a consummate professional and had a firm grasp on the dynamics of the title industry.  He spoke like an expert.  He dressed liked an expert.  His overall demeanor was that of an expert.  He was an expert.  I recall him saying "he was unable to give a good definition of notice, but he knew notice when he saw it."  That line has stayed with me since.  Oscar Beasley was claims council for American Title in Santa Ana, CA and considered by many at the time to be the  best legal mind in the business.  He is now deceased.

Ardell was right; we need heroes; and it does us good to talk about them!

Gena Riede
Riede Real Estate, Lic. 01310792 - Sacramento, CA
Real Estate Broker - Sacramento CA Real Estate (916) 417-2699
Ed, You are right...it is good to reflect on good role models. I hope that you help others in your quest and I have posted you on my newest blog here on AR as well as on SacramentoRealEstateVoice in order to give you a voice to help others. Welcome to Active Rain.
Jan 01, 2007 11:28 AM
Monika McGillicuddy
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Verani Realty - Hampstead, NH
Southern NH & the Seacoast Area

Ed,

I'm Jay's better half<gg>...we're married and work together as a team. The poor guy!!!

Monika

 

Jan 01, 2007 11:30 AM
Monika McGillicuddy
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Verani Realty - Hampstead, NH
Southern NH & the Seacoast Area
Oh and Welcome to AR !!!
Jan 01, 2007 11:31 AM
Kaushik Sirkar
Call Realty, Inc. - Chandler, AZ
Good role models are worth their weight in gold!  Multiple ones are hard to come by in a lifetime....
Jan 01, 2007 11:36 AM
Jeff Turner
RealSatisfied - Santa Clarita, CA
Ed, thank you for sharing. I wrote this post yesterday about one of my role models, my grandmother
Jan 01, 2007 11:40 AM
Ed Rybczynski
Integrity Real Estate - Havre de Grace, MD
Your Source for Local Real Estate

Kaushik

Thank you for commenting; it's greatly appreciated.

 Ed Ryb

Jan 01, 2007 11:48 AM
Ed Rybczynski
Integrity Real Estate - Havre de Grace, MD
Your Source for Local Real Estate

Jeff

I read your post yesterday and missed the fact it was a tribute to your grandmother.  I love the metaphor about 85 years of knowledge in a tomato garden.  Thank you for commenting on the human element.  I have a post featured on Flipping Frenzy that expresses many of my views on the human condition vs technology.  Please take a minute to read it and share your comments if you can.  I'd be interested to hear your perspective.

Ed Ryb

Jan 01, 2007 11:52 AM
Monika McGillicuddy
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Verani Realty - Hampstead, NH
Southern NH & the Seacoast Area

I must be naive Ed...I just read your flipping Frenzy and left a comment. Pretty distressing.

 

Jan 01, 2007 01:35 PM
John Occhi
AZ Veteran Notary Services - Marana, AZ
Mobile Notary Public/Certified Loan Signing Agent

Ed,

Great tribuet - you can definately make a guy feel all warm and fuzzy inside.

Great Job !

Have a Blessed Day,

John Occhi, Hemet REALTOR
www.JohnOcchi.com

Jan 01, 2007 01:39 PM
Nima Rezvan CT Lender CT Senior Mortgage Broker
Nima Rezvan Prosper First Funding Corporation NMLS#110681 - Fairfield, CT
First Time Home Buyer Expert - CT FHA Loans - FHA
Ed, I am with Scott G on this one.  I definitely give credit to my father.  If it wasn't for him, I wouldn't be in the mortgage business that I have come to fall in love with.  I refuse to do anything else, ever again.  Thanks Dad!  Nice blog!  Happy New Year!
Jan 01, 2007 02:53 PM
ARDELL DellaLoggia
Better Properties Seattle - Kirkland, WA

Ed,

I'm really glad that Turner got turned over to my blog by seeing his "mug" and mentioned this post.  There are many truly great people out there that deserve a few words from us now and then.  I have so many I could write about one a day until I die.  We are all very lucky to have met them, one and all.

Jan 01, 2007 03:19 PM
Renée Donohue~Home Photography
Savvy Home Pix - Allegan, MI
Western Michigan Real Estate Photographer
Ed:  thank you for sharing your story!  Role models form who we are and it is great to see where others come from!
Jan 01, 2007 03:26 PM
Jeff Turner
RealSatisfied - Santa Clarita, CA

Ed, I've bookmarked this so I can go back and read your posts on flipping frenz. It looks like there are five there. I will give them all a read and come back with some comments! Thanks...

Jan 01, 2007 05:35 PM
Kristal Kraft
Novella Real Estate - Denver, CO
Selling Metro Denver Real Estate - 303-589-2022

Ed your story is most compelling.  Congrats to you for turning things around and coming out to make a difference.  We need more crusaders like you in the industry.  Glad to welcome you to Active Rain.  I hope you post often.

kk

Jan 01, 2007 09:54 PM
Joeann Fossland
Advantage Solutions Group - Tucson, AZ
Master Certified Coach to Motivated Agents
Role Models can inspire! THanks for your thoughts! If you know of any women you'd like to honor, there is a great site, www.inspiringwomen.com that allows you to nominate an inspiring woman and make a $10 donation to CARE! Here's to a great 2007!!!
Jan 01, 2007 11:17 PM
Suzanne Marriott
Keller Williams Arizona Realty - Anthem, AZ
Associate Broker, CLHMS, e-PRO
Great post and great website / blogsite!  Tony just ordered the DVD - looking forward to checking it out completely!
Jan 02, 2007 01:30 AM
Teri Isner
Keller Williams Realty at the Lakes - Orlando, FL
GRI, CRS, CIPS
Passion is the key word every mentor or role model we have followed has had it! 
Jan 02, 2007 02:33 AM
joanne Douglas
Terrie O'Connor Realtors - Ridgewood, NJ
Wonderful post.  Thanks for taking the time to share it with us.  And...

Welcome to the puddle! 
Jan 02, 2007 02:44 AM
Kathy Vaughan
Ryan Taylor Homes - Annandale, VA

Heroes in real estate? I'll give you "role models," but I honestly can't think of heroics that I would want to emulate.

This is a sales business, not a calling. Some of us are good at it and some of us are not. But, as a broker and coach, I would discourage agents from making more of it than it is. It's a job. I'm not Tarzan or Superman or Henry Kissinger.

Jan 02, 2007 06:20 AM
ARDELL DellaLoggia
Better Properties Seattle - Kirkland, WA

Ed,

I had NO IDEA until Dustin at RCG just posted about you.  Unbelievable stuff.  You are definitely going on my next questionnaire that says "if you could have lunch with anyone...who would it be?"

Jan 05, 2007 02:27 PM