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They Wanted to Preach to the Choir

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Lake Homes Realty

 

Something happened outside of real estate recently that struck me as applicable to not only our efforts to help sell real estate but also real estate industry discussions, such as those at association meetings and ActiveRain.

I serve on a leadership council for a state-wide business organization. In a recent meeting, one of the members suggested that to spread the word on an issue of concern, one of us should spend time with a specific talk show host that is known to have views common with this organization.

Hmmmm.

Young Choir SingingI may have been overly direct but I commented that while it might make us feel better, most of the audience likely already felt the same as our council. We would not be spreading our message, just getting “amens” from those who already share our view.

I further suggested that while this action may make our group feel endorsed, it did little to share the view and information with people that might be interested or needing to learn more.

To share the view, we had to take the issue and information to those outside our safe group of already informed, similar thinking people.

Growing up in rural Bear Creek, Alabama, this sharing an opinion with people that already accept it was often explained as “preaching to the choir.” There is nothing inherently wrong in this action, just don’t expect it to produce much in the way of new results.

We cannot spread a message or idea by keeping it to ourselves or within a small group. Is there risk in leaving the comfort and support of those that share our view? Sure, at least some risk if you struggle with rejection, questions, or have built your self-esteem on always being right.

If you want your listings to move better, really drive new marketing ideas, provide genuinely remarkable service, or grow your business, you’ll have to let your ideas venture out into the world. You cannot help your clients if all you do is the same as everyone else.

The choir of your business and life probably already “gets it”, but with that alone you’ll not see much develop or grow. Just like birds and children, your ideas need to leave the nest to really grow.

 
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Glenn S. Phillips is the CEO of Lake Homes Realty, the multi-state, full-service, lake-focused real estate brokerage powered by LakeHomes.com.

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Comments (13)

Edward & Celia Maddox
The Celtic Connection Realty - Queen Creek, AZ
EXPERIENCE & INTEGRITY - WE TAKE THE HIGH ROAD

Some good thoughts.  Thanks for sharing on Active Rain and Good Luck,

Apr 16, 2012 01:31 AM
Brian Park
Danville, CA

I'm not Catholic, but a Catholic Bishop friend of mine told me when I asked him why he did something he did, he said "I walk among my enemies because they are the ones that need conversion, my friends already believe."

Apr 16, 2012 02:30 AM
Glenn S. Phillips
Lake Homes Realty - Birmingham, AL
CEO, Lake Homes Realty / LakeHomes.com

Brian, I'm not Catholic either but I've often thought of missionaries as I wrote this. Good Add! G

Apr 16, 2012 03:17 AM
Margaret Goss
@Properties - Winnetka, IL
Chicago's North Shore & Winnetka Real Estate

Like thinking outside the box or contemplating the fork in the road, going outside our comfort zone is, well, uncomfortable.  How often have we asked ourselves "I gotta get out of this rut."  Great food for thought on a Monday morning. 

Apr 16, 2012 03:33 AM
Bill Gillhespy
16 Sunview Blvd - Fort Myers Beach, FL
Fort Myers Beach Realtor, Fort Myers Beach Agent - Homes & Condos

Hi Glenn,  You're preacching to the ....  Oops, got carried away there for a moment !  Very well said and so important for agents to consider.

Apr 16, 2012 03:36 AM
Maria Morton
Platinum Realty - Kansas City, MO
Kansas City Real Estate 816-560-3758

Glenn, you are so right! Stepping outside of our comfort zone is what it takes to make true change in business or in life.

 

Apr 16, 2012 08:17 AM
Karen Fiddler, Broker/Owner
Karen Parsons-Fiddler, Broker 949-510-2395 - Mission Viejo, CA
Orange County & Lake Arrowhead, CA (949)510-2395

I always wonder why the tv news shows which allow debate are so frowned upon....get various ideas out there and let the public decide what makes sense.

Apr 16, 2012 09:14 AM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

Would it be appropriate to say, "Amen," Glenn.  You are so right.  People who agree with you are already supporters, it sounds like you're looking for converts.  

Apr 16, 2012 11:23 AM
Pamela Seley
West Coast Realty Division - Murrieta, CA
Residential Real Estate Agent serving SW RivCo CA

Takes knowledge and courage to speak with those who disagree with us. I agree if we don't venture out we will never learn others' viewpoints and if our ideas are good ones. Thanks for your post today,

Apr 16, 2012 04:13 PM
Phil Leng
Retired - Kirkland, WA
Phil Leng - Retired

Hi Glenn,

Preaching to the choir.

A great visual that makes the point very well.

Phil

Apr 16, 2012 07:48 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Everyone has at least 2 cents to invest in just about anything...However, I value my time at more than 2 cents...Moving with a purpose is what people find attractive...Now, to find a purpose is all that remains..good thought post

Apr 17, 2012 12:05 AM
Rich Gaasenbeek
IXACT Contact Real Estate CRM - Toronto, ON
Real Estate CRM & Marketing Made Easy!

Glenn, while you're correct in saying that it's important to get your messages out there to shose who may not share your viewpoints, I think it's also important to "mobilize" your supporters in the sense of getting them rallied up to spread the messages you support. Maybe the member in your organization who put out the suggestion had a different, more useful strategy in mind than you think. Or maybe she didn't realize that most of the talk show host's audience shared the organization's viewpoints. Just another perspective :)

Apr 17, 2012 12:14 AM
Glenn S. Phillips
Lake Homes Realty - Birmingham, AL
CEO, Lake Homes Realty / LakeHomes.com

Bill, believe it or not, I considered that my post on AR was, to an extent, preaching to the choir.  I see many AR posts that get a lot of "amens" and encouragement. Those are good things too. The heated discussions are often the most interesting to me, as that is my chance to really learn multiple perspectives in real estate. G

Richie, Ah, the need for a good purpose. Too many never find a good purpose, or even consider that as a goal. Like that you're thinking about it. Most successful people do. G

Rich, that is a great point and in many situations is right on target. In this case, the goal was to "spread the word" so I thought it needed new ears. Rallying the troops is important too and in that case, it never hurts to get the choir "fired up!"  Good stuff! G

Apr 17, 2012 02:10 AM