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Ruthie in the Sky with Diamonds!

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Grants Pass, OR 199909023

Ruthie in the Sky with Diamonds - Ruth RadarRuthie in the Sky with Diamonds!  Our paths crossed in the virtual world a few years ago.  I was searching keywords for Grants Pass Oregon when I stumbled upon a most interesting blog.  After reading a few lines, I knew I had to do something.  

Ruthie is a 55 yr old professional hitchhiker.  She's traveled around North America for over 18 years hitching rides from strangers.  She's an educated soul and she writes with heartfelt imagination, drawing you into her world of fascinating faces and places.  I was touched by her honest mutterings.

Ruthie's travels led her through Grants Pass, but not without incident.  She was turned away by a local women's shelter because she didn't meet the 'criteria' for a warm meal and bed.  When I read this, my heart sunk.  How could anyone turn away another human being in the freezing cold?  It was still winter in Southern Oregon and night-time temps were in the 40's.  The thought of Ruthie sleeping under a bridge for shelter sickened me.  I wrote to her and asked if I could help.  She called with delight, and on that day two strangers became friends.

Sometimes, people come into our lives for a reason.  Ruthie doesn't know this, but it was her writing style that intrigued me and helped me discover my own.  I'm drawn to raw and real utterances.  After reading Ruthie's blog, I found my voice, and in some ways, I emulated her style in my own blog, thus the pen name... The Naked Blogger.  I'm grateful for having had the opportunity to make a small contribution to Ruthie's life.  I wonder if she knows that she's made a significant difference in mine?! 

'Embrace good people, flip-off bad people, help innocent people and consider forgiving other people.  And never take anything too hard unless it leaves you smiling when you're done.'
-Ruthie Rader

The 'Spring Bear' drawing is a Ruthie creation.  You can check out her blog at Ruthie in the Sky with Diamonds!

Posted by

Mel Peterson

 Melinda Peterson, ABR, CRS

 Oregon Principal Broker

 Real Estate Cafe LLC

 541-659-1620

 TheOregonDream.com

 

 

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Mimi Foster
Falcon Property Company - Colorado Springs, CO
Voted Colorado Springs Best Realtor

Priceless, Mel.  What a wonderful post.  It is the most unconventional of them that are often the one's worth knowing most.  Thanks so much for sharing.

Apr 17, 2012 12:06 PM
Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

Thanks Karen!  Ruthie has certainly had some interesting encounters!  She's a fascinating person and worthy of the post.  I'm glad you enjoyed it enough to Suggest!

I appreciate that immensely Elyse.  Sometimes, it's important to follow your heart ;)))

Welcome back Mimi!  Hope you had a lovely time in Boulder with your hubby for your birthday!  My brief exchange with Ruthie left a lasting impression on my heart... it's imperative that we help those in need.

Apr 17, 2012 12:18 PM
Brian L. Sirota, Esq.
Bristar Realty (Realtor/Attorney) - Orange, CA
For Solutions: (714) 501-7660

That Ruth is a sweet cute fiesty lil' thang!    Gotta dig her.  Brian

Apr 17, 2012 01:57 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

funny how others influence our lives that way.

Apr 17, 2012 02:05 PM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Mel, At the end of a long day I find myself on AR reading posts and of course, The Naked Blogger is among my favorite reads. My first response was: WoW!  This is another example of how the Universe (God) presents us with what we need. There are not accidents. I just don't know why this is not yet a Featured post.  You are truly an inspiration. 

Apr 17, 2012 02:51 PM
Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

Ruthie is definitely a feisty thang... Brian!

Life has a funny way of teaching us things... Tammy!

Such a nice compliment... Kathleen!  I was wowed by Ruthie's brave and resilient spirit... she's a rare chicky!  I too, don't believe in accidents ;-)

Apr 17, 2012 03:00 PM
Judy Jennings
Top Agent Plus - Middleboro, MA
Tap into Judy's real estate expertise & resources.

Mel - Ruthie sounds like quite a character. I had to share her quote with my FB friends. Loved it!

Apr 17, 2012 09:03 PM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

You and Ruthie are definitely universal travelers who were destined to meet. Don't you love how things just seem to happen? Although, if you hadn't cared and got in touch...

I'm sure it was an instant connection since it appears that you share a "voice and spirit." I am going to read her blog...I'm intrigued. :)

Apr 17, 2012 11:42 PM
Brian L. Sirota, Esq.
Bristar Realty (Realtor/Attorney) - Orange, CA
For Solutions: (714) 501-7660

Ruthie kinda reminds me of a female vagabond version of Andy Roony, if you know what I mean.  B

Apr 18, 2012 01:19 AM
Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

A character indeed... Judy!  I liked her quote too!

Things 'seem to happen' a lot for me... Debb ;)))  I watched one of Ruthie's vids last night and I laughed a few times... she's a bit of a Roadie Comic.

I couldn't agree more... Brian!  And I LOL on that one... Andy was a classic ;)

Apr 18, 2012 03:26 AM
Florida Tolbert Team Keller Williams Advantage
Keller Williams Advantage III Realty in Lake Nona - Orlando, FL
Keller Williams Land Luxury Division Specialist

I don't know what to do with you... there is nothing you write that doesn't warm the soul in some way. 

Apr 18, 2012 11:52 AM
Nick T Pappas
Assoc. Broker ABR, CRS, SFR, e-Pro, @Homes Realty Group, Broker/Providence Property Mgmnt, LLC Huntsville AL - Huntsville, AL
Madison & Huntsville Alabama Real Estate Resource

Mel, I understand the desire to help out another person...sometimes you have to go a little above and beyond...sometimes it works out other times not so much.  Anyway I followed the link to Ruthie's blog and watched the video's...at first I thought just another nut case, but the more I watched and listened I found myself enjoying listening to what Ruthie had to say.  I'll probably be following her for a while.  Thanks for the introduction.

Apr 18, 2012 12:42 PM
Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

Kevin... it warms my heart to know that my posts warm your soul ;-)

Nick ~ I know Ruthie is a bit unconventional and a little rough around the edges.  So often, it's folks like these that teach us so much!  I chuckled at some of her 'random' thoughts.  She's really not your average roadie ;)  I'm glad you took the time to check her out ;)))

Apr 18, 2012 12:49 PM
Anonymous
Ruthie Rader

I was checking out my tracker when I came across the link to this page. I had no idea that this had been posted. I obviously know, now.

When I was in Medford, I had no idea that Tony and Desiree Young existed. I didn't know then that sometime after I left, Kyron Horman would be reported missing.

Recently, I tore my blog apart because I was going to start a new one. I found out very quickly that my readers didn't like the idea. So now I am on the road and I won't be able to do much rebuilding (of the original one) until the beginning of next month (which is the only time that I generally have money to park myself somewhere so that I can work on my blog).

But I think about Kyron. I look for signs of him, everywhere. I recently saw a poster about him in the police station in Brookings, Oregon.

And I wonder where he is now. And I wonder why bad people are allowed to remain free. And I wonder why no one has created an age-enhanced picture of Kyron.

And I wonder when I will ever go home.

I can't please everyone and I'm not going to try to. That would be futile and a total waste of my time.

But I would like to go home. I have been looking for one. I want a home that is affordable, of sound construction that is not three doors down from a meth lab.

But you see, some people want to see me in a good place and some people don't. So that kind of hinders things a bit.

You know, I could have just written about me and nobody else. But that is not my style, gang. I care about missing people...like Kyron Horman, Lisa Irwin, Lindsey Baum, the Skelton Brothers, Sabrina Allen and Kim Forbes.

I wonder where they all are.

I can't find them by myself. I can't wipe away the fifteen-trillion-dollar National debt by myself, either. I can't stop North Korea from firing a nuclear missile at us. Nor will I ever win a prize on "Dancing With The Stars."

I can only remain myself...one nano-scopic flea flick in the cosmos...and hope...that wherever I am...I can do my best...even if it is only on every other Thursday.

I am going to post an update in my blog, today. I have included my email address (which is also listed at the very top of my main blog page) so you can send any linguistic Mwahs or mud pies to me that you so desire.

And if you see me walking or standing on the side of the road with my thumb out...well...hopefully you will stop and give me a ride.

We all have to start, somewhere.

Sincerely,

Ruthie Rader

http://www.ruthiessky.blogspot.com

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Apr 19, 2012 07:18 AM
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Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

Ruthie ~ I wondered if you'd find us here... chatting about you my dear!  I'm glad you joined the conversation!  I haven't forgotten our exchange from a few years ago ;)))  Sounds like you've circled the planet a few times since then... loved your pic in Bozeman Montana... one of my favorite places! 

I hope you are well girlfriend and smiling every day!  You've certainly taught us more about being on the road than any of us would ever know.  Thank you!  Blessings friend ;)))

Apr 19, 2012 07:27 AM
Nick T Pappas
Assoc. Broker ABR, CRS, SFR, e-Pro, @Homes Realty Group, Broker/Providence Property Mgmnt, LLC Huntsville AL - Huntsville, AL
Madison & Huntsville Alabama Real Estate Resource

Well, Ruthie if you ever make your way through the Huntsville Alabama area be sure to post about it and I'll definitely stop and give you a ride...maybe even lunch just to talk.

Apr 19, 2012 09:27 AM
Charles Stallions
Charles Stallions Real Estate Services - Pensacola, FL
850-476-4494 - Pensacola, Pace or Gulf Breeze, Fl.

Mel, your post are always heart warming and timely. You should consider a book. This post reminds me of the fish story through Alabama (it's a southern thang). I always enjoy your musings and look forward to them

Apr 20, 2012 06:58 AM
Anonymous
Ruthie Rader

Okay...I'm curious. What is the fish thing all about, Charles?

Thank you, Nick. I'm sure that it would be a pleasure to meet you.

Apr 20, 2012 07:31 AM
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juli henry

Ruthie jumpstarted me into blogging, too! Some of the things she has told me about shelters really makes my heart sink for those who stay in them. It was her posts about Kyron Horman that drew me to her blog.

Apr 24, 2012 08:17 AM
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