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The Age of Innocence...gone.

By
Managing Real Estate Broker with Alpine Lakes Real Estate Inc., NHRE# 02863

There were no game controllers in Street hockey.                                               

                                                                                                                                   

I remember growing up playing street hockey; it was nearly a full time job. We didn’t have store bought nets, no ours were made of 2 X 4’s and chicken wire fences. When a vehicle of any kind approached a cry went up “CAR” – it took two kids to half drag half carry a net to the side of the road. Then right back to the dead center of the street it would go, when the car passed – GAME ON. These were glorious times – no eye protection, Helmets or mouth guards were used. No one talked about bully’s…if you were a big kid you were most likely picked first and the runts were picked last – but we all played. We played until dinner time, and then we came back out for hide and go seek…there were no kids on milk carton back then.


                                                                                                                                                 

                                                                                                                                              

  The biggest scare I can ever remember was one time after playing baseball behind the church we all got on our bikes to ride home. But we stopped by a brook near a busy road to drink from a stream. A couple of men in a work truck slowed down and yelled to us that the water was poison and we were going to get sick and die. I was about 10, and no adult had ever lied to me in a vicious way before – I had no antenna for danger or fear of being mislead. We didn’t have baskets, or backpacks back then. I remember peddling home with my glove on my handle bar and carrying a bat while steering with the other hand…and crying all the way home. We didn’t have 10 speed bikes, when you got to a hill you had to walk. It was horrible, when I got home I told my mother what had happened – she could see the fear in my eyes. She said Stephen “they were just kidding with you” I looked at my mom and said “why would someone do that”? The age of innocence left me that day. I still rode my bike everywhere, played hide and go seek until after dark and moved the net when a car came – but now I was suspicious of other people.

                                                                                                                                                 

Today, kids don’t play a pick-up game of hockey or baseball, these are organized by adults. Kids don’t drink out of streams; they have filtered water in insulated bottles with a special pocket in their back-pack for just such a purpose. And everyone is suspicious of anyone that goes near our children. I guess that’s why kids have video games and sit in front of the television – it is much safer inside. My son will be 19 in a couple of weeks and when he was young he never left the yard on his bike. I used to leave my town on mine.

 

 I miss my baby boy...one day playing in the mud and the next off to college. where does the time go?

 

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   Let your kids get dirty, but keep an eye on them...they want to set the world on fire - let them return when they are out of matches.

 

 

New Hampshire boasts one of the lowest crime rates in the nation…give me a call if you are looking to move to the beautiful White mountains.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Steve Loynd
Alpine Lakes Real Estate Inc., - Lincoln, NH
800-926-5653, White Mountains NH

All the high school track meets are behind us...he'll be home soon from his first year of college.

Apr 23, 2012 11:35 PM
Ralph Janisch ABR CRS Broker
Janisch & Co. - Conroe, TX
Selling Northwest Houston to good people like you!

Times have changed.... and most of the change is NOT for the better.

Apr 23, 2012 11:50 PM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Times they are a changing ..  and kids grow up so fast .. the older we get the faster time flys

Great story Steve

HelpfulHannah

Apr 24, 2012 01:55 AM
Steve Loynd
Alpine Lakes Real Estate Inc., - Lincoln, NH
800-926-5653, White Mountains NH

Jeanne & Ralph...I think there is plenty of good left around - but being a little more vigilant is a smart position to take,

Apr 24, 2012 03:12 AM
Steve Loynd
Alpine Lakes Real Estate Inc., - Lincoln, NH
800-926-5653, White Mountains NH

Thanks - Hannah. I enjoyed writing it and sharing some photos of myself 40 years ago.

Apr 24, 2012 03:13 AM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

Kids nowdays don't have an idea of how to get a pickup game even started.  We played baseball all summer without some adult telling us how.

Apr 24, 2012 03:56 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

I shared a similar childhood...gone all day, never once reporting in.  I would walk half way across town to meet my friend and then we would walk all the way down town just to "hang out".   Hide and Go Seek and Flashlight Tag after dark....dreading having to go in for the night.  Those were the days!  Loved your post and really enjoyed all the pictures!

Apr 24, 2012 04:31 AM
Steve Loynd
Alpine Lakes Real Estate Inc., - Lincoln, NH
800-926-5653, White Mountains NH

Bill...Walking up to a group of kids on a beach to see if they wanted to play Volleyball, throw Horse Shoes, or toss a Frisbee seems completely foreign to kids these days. The way my mom made a play date was to tell me to go outside.

Apr 24, 2012 04:43 AM
Steve Loynd
Alpine Lakes Real Estate Inc., - Lincoln, NH
800-926-5653, White Mountains NH

Sharon...I have to tell you my mother may have inspired this post. She gave me a box of photos from my youth the last time she visited. The Bike and Hockey shots brought the story to mind.

Apr 24, 2012 04:45 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Steve, it was like that for me also when I was growing up.  A bunch of us kids would just get together and have pick-up baseball, basketball, and football games.  We did not need anyone to organize things for us, we just got together and played, with no fear of someone doing us harm.  It is a shame that those times have changed, and I feel that are kids have been cheated in many ways.

Apr 24, 2012 11:46 AM
Larry Story ALC
Total Care Realty - Greensboro, NC
Beneath it all is the Land, Covering all of NC

Steve,

Enjoy the summer with your son, and cherish the moments.  You know once the graduate and move off we see them less and less.  I miss my daughter so much.  I grew up riding motorcycles. Hell it is lucky I am still alive.

 

 

Apr 24, 2012 12:38 PM
Steve Loynd
Alpine Lakes Real Estate Inc., - Lincoln, NH
800-926-5653, White Mountains NH

George...the age of innocence has changes dramatically since we were kids, I still can leave my doors unlocked all day but lock them when I go to bed.

Apr 24, 2012 12:58 PM
Steve Loynd
Alpine Lakes Real Estate Inc., - Lincoln, NH
800-926-5653, White Mountains NH

Larry...I crashed my dirt bike, fell out of tree forts, and swam in rough surf...life I was immortal...lucky to be alive too.

Apr 24, 2012 01:01 PM
Nick T Pappas
Assoc. Broker ABR, CRS, SFR, e-Pro, @Homes Realty Group, Broker/Providence Property Mgmnt, LLC Huntsville AL - Huntsville, AL
Madison & Huntsville Alabama Real Estate Resource

Steve, wish I had the answer to where all the time went...seems like only yesterday I was doing all those things you talked about and then this morning I looked in the mirror and wanted to know who that guy was staring back at me.

Apr 25, 2012 02:04 PM
Steve Loynd
Alpine Lakes Real Estate Inc., - Lincoln, NH
800-926-5653, White Mountains NH

Nick...I guess we know you have to make the most of it while you can, thanks for dropping by.

Apr 26, 2012 12:11 AM