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Good vs. Not so good (being a good person)

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 GREC# 169695

Today my favorite closing attorney in the wee hours of the morning drove his wife to the hospital... they're having a baby.  She happens to be his legal assistant and is VERY good at her job.  Between contractions this morning she was re-doing a HUD and sending to the seller for one of my buyers that yesterday the seller (read big bank) said NO we need a 30 day extension and this morning said... we must close by the end of this month.  (please make up your minds)  So while I am emailing an extension to my buyer the seller was changing their minds again.  I think we're closing on Friday.  Yeah!  And my super great attorney and his legal assistant wife were working the cloud from the labor room to make sure it happens. 

Meanwhile... my 10 a.m. appointment... not showing up, not calling.  I had someone else come into the office to cover for me while I was scheduled to show homes.  And not only is she not showing up and not calling she's also not answering or returning my messages.  She made the appointment yesterday afternoon.  It's just plain rude. 

Yes, I know there can be special circumstances.  A couple of months ago I had an appointment scheduled for a Saturday morning at 11 a.m.  The Friday before I got a voice mail from my buyer's son saying he had to have emergency surgery and could not make the scheduled appointment and really NEEDED me to know he was not "standing me up".  So here he was being rushed to the ER and into surgery and taking the time to make sure his son called me to let me know what was going on and that he wouldn't be there. 

So do I think my 10 a.m. might have had an emergency... perhaps she could have.  But it's more likely that she just blew me off.  Will I make another appointment for this lady... NOPE.  It's been hours and even if something came up you can make a phone call and explain at some point.  The agent who was here to cover for me rescheduled things.  I had set up appointments that I did have to call and cancel.  I also didn't take an afternoon appointment because I wanted to assure I could give Ms. No Show plenty of my time. 

I'm smiling as I type this.  I do have two additional appointments this week and I did type an offer this afternoon.  I'm not letting letting Ms. No Show get to me, but just in case she reads my blog I want her to know I think it's RUDE RUDE RUDE to just not show up for an appointment.  So good luck with finding a lake house.  Now I'm off to put my new listing into the MLS.  It has signs and lockbox now.

 

 

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Jane Peters
Home Jane Realty - Los Angeles, CA
Los Angeles real estate concierge services

You know that this is someone you don't want to deal with.  That person who was rushed to the hospital and still was considerate enough to make sure you were not stood up shows that is the right thing to do.  Unfortunately, they will never call you again to give you the satisfaction of telling them how you feel.  A voicemail doesn't do it :)

Apr 24, 2012 07:13 AM
Loreena and Michael Yeo
3:16 team REALTY ~ Locally-owned Prosper TX Real Estate Co. - Prosper, TX
Real Estate Agents

I remembered that feeling. I was never stood up until I met this lady. She did it to me twice. The first time, I was so concerned about her, I called, called and called. The 2nd time, I just realized I was the FOOL. I'm sorry you experienced this. Not calling you a FOOL but I learned well that day.

Apr 24, 2012 08:32 AM
Linda Urbick
RealtyOne Group - San Ramon, CA
Selling San Ramon Valley - 925-786-5132

I am impressed with you attorney and his wife. That is dedication to the job. It makes the other issue you have insignificant  - not that I want to dismiss the rudeness of the person - but the good out weights the bad.

Apr 24, 2012 08:42 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Linda- I find that the good in my life always outweighs the bad.  And they are impressive aren't they?

Loreena- I don't understand the behavior

Jane- Well I feel better having said it here.  But my voicemail was not rude or nasty.  That's just not who I am.

Apr 24, 2012 09:03 AM
Eric Michael
Remerica Integrity, Realtors®, Northville, MI - Livonia, MI
Metro Detroit Real Estate Professional 734.564.1519

Tammy, you're a good people. Anyone who knows you even a little knows that. It's too bad the people who stood you up will never know that.

Apr 24, 2012 09:53 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Thanks Eric.  Tomorrow I move on to someone who will get to know.  Another great first time home buyer that I'm looking forward to helping buy a great house.

Apr 24, 2012 10:15 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Like Eric said, you ARE good and no need to let 'bad' people ruin your parade!  Unless this was an emergency, I'd let someone else take this rude client to deal with!

Apr 24, 2012 10:53 AM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

And if Ms. No Show is reading the comments, it's tacky and rude.  I wish we could do a YELP on some buyers.  I have one that would get a nagative review. 

Apr 24, 2012 11:02 AM
Cindy Westfall
Premiere Property Group,LLC Portland Metro & Suburbs Oregon - Tualatin, OR
ABR,GRI Your Tualatin & Portland Metro Real Estate

Hi Tammy, some peope just aren't considerate of other's time and just have no clue as to the things needed to be resceduled in YOUR day so you could be accomodating of thier time. I can imagine your frustration. The good news is that you are busy and this person just lost out on the opportunity to work with a great agent! I can so see why the closing attorneys are your fave. They sure went way above and beyond!

Apr 24, 2012 11:04 AM
Andrea Bedard
Thompson Company, REALTORS® 240.593.2860 - Silver Spring, MD
Fluent in Real Estate & German. Associate Broker.

Hi Tammy, I think we've all had our share of experiences with the no-show lady or guy! It's rude times 3, like you said! We all understand an emergency, they happen and we are happy to reschedule and do what's possible but just no email, call, response whatsoever... I don't get it!

Your attorney and his wife on the other hand.. that's some dedication! I had a closing 2 days before I delivered my first daughter. I was barely able to walk but there was no way I would have missed this one!

Apr 24, 2012 11:06 AM
Larry Story ALC
Total Care Realty - Greensboro, NC
Beneath it all is the Land, Covering all of NC

Tammy,

be rude to me once shame on me, be rude to me twice watch out for payback.  

Apr 24, 2012 12:26 PM
John M. Scott
BRE # 01442690, Scott Keys Properties - San Francisco, CA
Broker / Owner San Francisco Bay Area

Tammy, rude no shows don't deserve the time of day, especially if they don't call back again when you try to contact them. Time to move on!

Apr 24, 2012 12:33 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Debe- well unless she's in the hospital now that's my plan. LOL

Carla- oh wouldn't that be fun

Cindy- they rock.  And late this afternoon got their beautiful baby daughter.

Andrea- I don't understand it either.  And yea, I know about not missing those closings.

Larry- (snicker)  sounds like a plan

John- I think so too.

Apr 24, 2012 02:22 PM
Miriam Bernstei
Rochester, NY

I am guessing we have all had this happen to us at one time or another and it is really annoying especially when you go out of your way so you can be available.  There isn't much you can do except move on to better people and making great deals.  Your attorney is great.

May 15, 2012 10:41 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Karen- thanks.

Miriam- Yup, have moved on.  And yes my attorney and his legal assistant prove themselves on every deal they do for me.  She solved another problem just two weeks after her baby was born. 

May 15, 2012 11:40 AM