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Charlie's Story - Alley Cat, Spay/Neuter on Monday Melodies

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with MoonDancer Realty, Dillsboro,NC NC# 218097

About ten years ago, Dillsboro was overrun with stray cats. At the time, Leslie and I were active with our own non-profit group, S.M.A.R.T. (Smoky Mountain Animal Resource Team) We raised money to assist people with spaying/neutering of cats and dogs. We’re really proud that through our efforts, several hundred cats and dogs were altered who otherwise might not have been. Statistics have shown that in order for every stray cat and dog to have a home, every human would have to have 7 pets. Spay/neuter is absolutely the only humane way to control stray animal population.

I digress, this story is about the stray cats of Dillsboro and two in particular. One weekend we caught six cats in a humane trap. Two male adults, one young male cat, one female adult and two male kittens. We transported all six to the Humane Alliance in Asheville.

The female, “Wild Woman”, was too feral to be adopted out. She was crazy wild and dangerous to hold. She was released back into the streets of Dillsboro where she lived for a couple more years terrorizing squirrels and keeping field mice at bay. One male was sort of the ward of a shopkeeper, she continued to take care of him for many years. The two male kittens “Mango” and “Saffron” were sweet, friendly and gentle. As you can tell by their names they were orange and white, probably the offspring of the orange and white male and “Wild Woman”. We fostered them at our shop in Dillsboro and adopted them to a family from Winston-Salem.

Then there was Charlie.......... Charlie Chaplin the Cat copyright 2012 Mona Gersky

We think the remaining two were father and son. We kept them. “Charlie” Chaplin (pictured above) and his grey & white son, Little Monkey. For ten years they’ve lived in the guest house as happy as can be. Several years ago, Little Monkey developed a severe urinary tract blockage and infection. He almost died and had never been as robustly healthy as his father. A couple of years ago he also started having IBS, irritable bowel syndrome and has been on medication. It had gotten worse and we changed medication accordingly, thinking he was on the mend. Tragedy struck a week ago. I went into the guest house to feed and visit the boys, and found poor Monkey had died and Charlie was left alone, lonely and bewildered, as are we. Take IBS seriously, we never knew it was a disease that can result in death.


We were at odds as to what to do about Charlie. Obviously, he couldn't live at the guest house by himself.  The few days he was there alone, he mourned and cried.  His whole life had changed.  Where was his life-long companion?  What goes through our pets' minds when these things happen?


Our Lazerkitty had passed away at the end of the year, so we'd been cat-free in the main house for several months.  She had an incredible cat condo to stay in while we were away from home, so we decided to try Charlie at the house...with the dogs.  The first thing Charlie did was walk up to the Office Manager and nuzzle his face against hers.  He then proceeded to do the same with the other three munchkins...Frosty, Sabrina and Zoe.  He's actually the same weight, if not heavier than the three little dogs.


It's been an adjustment for all of us.  Charlie is still lonely for Monkey and tells us this with his vast vocabulary of loud meowing.  He's also still at loose ends, he's not sure yet that this is his home and if he belongs.  Where's Monkey?  And what the heck is a routine anyway?  What do we mean that he can't be on the table, the counters, the chair?  What are rules, meow, meow, meow.


Things are getting better.  He slept through the night...no meowing once it was "lights out".  He used the litter box.  He alternates sitting behind me while I post his story with some restless pacing and you've got it...vocalizing.  This will work out.  Things don't get better overnight, we know this.  He is sweet, affectionate and well-behaved...pretty much.  Not destructive anyway.  He's so different from Lazer.  Lazer was older, more settled and ill towards the end of her life.  Charlie is strong, buff, restless, athletic and still unsure of the turn his life has taken.


He does look at us like gods though and that's kind of nice on the ego.  Gotta go, Charlie wants to talk.


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Support low cost spay/neuter efforts! Obviously, Charlie’s been an Alley Cat and womanizer. Sure he had beautiful offspring, but if we hadn’t neutered him when we did, he could very well’ve been responsible for hundreds of additional cats. The math is overwhelming. Be part of the solution and stop the madness.

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Clint Mckie
Desert Sun Home, commercial Inspections - Carlsbad, NM
Desert Sun Home, Comm. Inspection 1-575-706-5586

Hello Mona,

We have a program here presented by "The Cat's Meow".

They help with and offer a really low cost help for your pets.

There is alsways a long line when they offer these discounts once a month.

Best, Clint McKie

May 28, 2012 09:32 PM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

Bittersweet story of Charlie and Little Monkey...............you've given him a wonderful home.

May 28, 2012 09:42 PM
Chris Smith
Re/Max Chay Realty Inc., Brokerage - New Tecumseth, ON
South Simcoe, Caledon, King, Orangeville Real Esta

Mona, we have a similar program in Alliston.  We have both supported and adopted a cat from here.

May 28, 2012 09:45 PM
Mona Gersky
MoonDancer Realty, Dillsboro,NC - Sylva, NC
GRI,IMSD-Taking the mystery out of real estate.

Hi Clint, the need is overwhelming and I'm glad people in your community have an opportunity to take advantage of these discounts.

Roger, I have a headset on and listening to Fats Waller.  Charlie wants to engage in conversation a bit too early in the morning for me.  Bittersweet describes it perfectly.  Tragic for Monkey, he was sicker than we ever guessed.  Just that morning he was eating like normal and weaving around my ankles.  What a sad shock later in the day.

Chris, I know that group appreciates all the support you give them and the cats they help.

May 28, 2012 09:52 PM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Mona-The humor you show in this post about Charlie is so cute but the part about all of you adjusting to the NEW normal is indeed an adjustment. Thank you for sharing this. It made my day. He is a beauty no doubt. How is Leslie doing with the allergies? It will just take time that is for sure and it is difficult to train a kitty about THE RULES when he didn't have those before.  The IBS is what Lindsey had and the only way it was manageable as she got older was predisone.  She did live a long life in spite of it and it was her last year that was her hardest and mine. The last weeks were the most difficult for her and for me to see. That is the ONLY blessing with her passing is I know she isn't suffering. Been 3 months now and the NEW normal for me is still an adjustment and I do my best to keep busy so I don't dwell on it.

 

 

May 28, 2012 09:55 PM
Mona Gersky
MoonDancer Realty, Dillsboro,NC - Sylva, NC
GRI,IMSD-Taking the mystery out of real estate.

Hi Sharon, he is a beauty isn't he.  Leslie is coping the best she can with the allergies.  It will all take time and medication.

May 28, 2012 10:04 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Oh Mona....I am so sorry about Monkey and glad Charlie is adjusting with the help of your office manager. I wasn't expecting tears but Peggy Lee always makes me smile. Don't know what is up with the format but it was bigger than the page so I had to go left and right to read it. G-d bless Monkey, you and Leslie and hoping Charlie flourishes in his big new home and family.

May 28, 2012 10:45 PM
Sondra Meyer:
EXP Realty, LLC - Corpus Christi, TX
See It. Experience It. Live It.

Mona,  what a handsome cat! 

The statistics you provided are staggering.  Every person would have to have seven pets.  That is sad.  I hope your efforts and those of many others will reduce those numbers one day soon. 

People should ALWAYS spay or neuter their pets.  Additionally, they shouldn't be breeding their horses unless they have show horses with outstanding conformations, temperaments, performance records AND pedigrees.  There are too many unwanted cats, dogs and horses to do otherwise.   

May 28, 2012 11:04 PM
Mona Gersky
MoonDancer Realty, Dillsboro,NC - Sylva, NC
GRI,IMSD-Taking the mystery out of real estate.

Sheila, according to YouTube, the guy who uploaded that Peggy Lee 45rpm found it at a yard sale and paid 50 cents for it! Can You Imagine?  Charlie will flourish, I just hope it will be quietly  ;-D

Sondra, he is handsome.  There are too many homeless animal souls wandering around.  I don't know much about horse populations but it doesn't surprise me to hear the same problems exist.  Thanks for your comment.

May 28, 2012 11:46 PM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hi Mona,  We had some cats drop of in our neighborhood 6 years ago, they had kittens and they had kittens, after awhile we trap them all and had them fix, we had 5 for the longest time and we feed them, we are now down to 2, they stay around for the food, but no more little ones.

May 29, 2012 12:07 AM
Mona Gersky
MoonDancer Realty, Dillsboro,NC - Sylva, NC
GRI,IMSD-Taking the mystery out of real estate.

Will, it is astonishing how quickly they can reproduce.  Good for you to step up and take matters into your own hands.

May 29, 2012 07:00 AM
Sharon Lord
Maracay Homes - Peoria, AZ
New Home Advisor

Mona - what a story you have, and how lucky Charlie is that he found you...!  I'm sure it will take him some time to get over Monkey, although it sounds like he is adapting to his new main-house "family" quite well!  

Keep up the amazing work....!

May 29, 2012 08:16 AM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Mona, a great story about Charlie and it sure shows your love of cats. Thanks.

May 29, 2012 08:42 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

I had a girl kitty named Charlie once.  Still miss her.  She was a miracle cat.

May 29, 2012 09:51 AM
Broker Patty Da Silva Da Silva
Green Realty Properties® - 954-667-7253 - Cooper City, FL
Top Listing Broker

Mona,

Thank you for much for caring and for volunteering and raising money for spay/neuter. Charlie is precious.

May 29, 2012 09:53 AM
Carla Harbert
www.LorainCountyHomeSales.com - Avon, OH
RE/MAX Omega: Lorain-Medina County Area

Mona, what a gem you are - there are just not enough people out there to help these animals. It is expensive to spay and neuter - but there are many clinics here that will do it for a fraction of the cost IF you meet certain guidelines. I have taken in many many strays, gave them loving homes until the day they died (both cats & dogs), all holding a special place in my heart.

May 29, 2012 10:24 AM
Mona Gersky
MoonDancer Realty, Dillsboro,NC - Sylva, NC
GRI,IMSD-Taking the mystery out of real estate.

Sharon, tonight was much calmer with Charlie...far fewer meows and a lot more resting.  We're getting there.

Thanks Gary.  They do get to me.

Hi Tammy, we remember all of the missed babies and talk about them often.

Patty, I've read your posts...we also appreciate the magnitude of what you do for the animals too.

Carla,  each animal that enters our lives makes our hearts larger and each one that leaves takes a piece of our heart with them.

May 29, 2012 12:14 PM
William Johnson
Retired - La Jolla, CA
Retired
Hi Mona, 7 pets, wow. As I read the story, you certainly have a big heart . I am more into dogs but a lot of my clients have cats and they are certaiinly fun to play with while there.
May 29, 2012 03:20 PM
Mona Gersky
MoonDancer Realty, Dillsboro,NC - Sylva, NC
GRI,IMSD-Taking the mystery out of real estate.

William, there have been as many as three cats but now there is only the one.  Dogs are the preferred companions here too, although cats are intriguing.  We find dogs easier to understand even if they are more trouble to maintain.  They are also a bit more transparent!

May 29, 2012 08:37 PM
Mona Gersky
MoonDancer Realty, Dillsboro,NC - Sylva, NC
GRI,IMSD-Taking the mystery out of real estate.

Allen, I'm sure Charlie isn't thinking we are so smart.  He constantly rephrases what he just said in a louder and louder tone.  Very frustrating to us and I'm sure to him also.  Thanks for your kind words and we feel the same about you.

May 30, 2012 02:30 AM