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My Rocks Keep Me Grouded...

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Real Estate Agent with Coldwell Banker Burnet Realty MN Broker# 20588319

...although, often I feel like flying high, especially this week. So, let me explain. I am sitting this morning and working on planning my 2008.  I can hear many of you commenting:  NOW?  Weren't you supposed to have the plan ready in December?  Aren't you getting behind already?  Well, I don't know about you, but I had a very busy holiday season:  several  family members visiting for over a week, 4 dinner parties, and a couple of birthday parties to go to, and cleaning, decorating and shopping... Gosh, I'm happy this is all behind me!  And, on January 2nd I got a brilliant(?) idea to re-visit ActiveRain that I had looked at a few months ago but didn't subscribe.

So, as I am planning my year, I am contemplating a shift of my focus. I usually focused on my business and then tried to make my family life fit into the plan!  And, throughout the years, I have gone to many seminars, learned from coaches, purchased software, looked for shortcuts, dreamed, struggled, had great years, had down years, had systems that worked, and other systems that stayed in the file folder, etc.  Last year has taught me that real estate is my profession, it gives me income, but it is not my life.  Real estate industry functions with or without me.  My family is my life.  My family is my rock.  So, my purpose of being in this business is my family and its well-being.  So, as I sit here with the 2008 calendar, I place my "big rocks" in first (weekend family time, my daughter's sports tournaments, holidays and family vacations), and then I schedule my prospecting, client appointments, organizing, marketing, etc.  I love real estate (still!) and I am very passionate about it (still!), but I don't want to loose sight of what's most important in life.  Sharing time with my husband and my daughter, creating lasting memories is a whole lot more rewarding than working for people that can't even say "thank you" after you spent countless hours negotiating to get for them what they wanted, and more.

I am starting this year ready to make it not just good but great, at least for me.  I hope you will too!

 

Comments(14)

Adam Brett
The Adam and Eric Group - Fullerton, CA
The Adam and Eric Group, Fullerton's Finest
Nice realization.  My family is my supporting staff.  
Jan 09, 2008 02:35 AM
Marzena Melby
Coldwell Banker Burnet Realty - Richfield, MN
Realtor, Twin Cities Minnesota Real Estate
Awesome! Thanks for your comment, Adam.
Jan 09, 2008 03:00 AM
Frances C. Rokicki
Fran Rokicki Realty, LLC - Bolton, CT
Broker-Mentor,CRS

Very nice, and so true!  Being appreciated when you devote your time with a client is important to me, too.

It's a Good Life!

Fran

Jan 09, 2008 06:05 AM
Marzena Melby
Coldwell Banker Burnet Realty - Richfield, MN
Realtor, Twin Cities Minnesota Real Estate
Thank you, Fran.  And, many times all we need is for someone to acknowledge our efforts. 
Jan 09, 2008 06:40 AM
Lance Winslow
The Car Wash Guy - Malibu, CA
I personally think you are a wise woman and a smart cookie to boot. I think your 2008 is going to be a superior year for you, I can just feel it, can't you feel that energy! Lance
Jan 10, 2008 10:46 PM
Marzena Melby
Coldwell Banker Burnet Realty - Richfield, MN
Realtor, Twin Cities Minnesota Real Estate

Thank you Lance!  Yes, I have been super charged since the beginning, especially that I now have a website (still in progress) that shows daily, monthly, etc. traffic statistics.  I have purchased 17 domains and have been setting up a system to bring traffic from various websites where I participate.  I CAN"T BELIEVE how much traffic I have been able to generate just by trying a little.  SO,,, you are right, off to a GREAT START.

TO OUR SUCCESS IN 2008!

 

Marzena 

Jan 11, 2008 12:35 AM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro
Marzena--Finding the balance that works for you is always the trick...Good for you to figure out what is important and build it into the plan first. Here's to a great 2008!
Jan 14, 2008 12:04 AM
Marzena Melby
Coldwell Banker Burnet Realty - Richfield, MN
Realtor, Twin Cities Minnesota Real Estate

Hi Deborah,

Thank you so much for such gracious comment.  Yes, we seem to be like-minded.  I will gladly visit your blog occasionally.

Have an awesome year!  Blessings to you, too.

Marzena 

Jan 16, 2008 08:18 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher
Marzena, I think you have the best priorites to have a beautiful and treasured New Year, family is always first for me.  I think it was in the book about Morrie that he never regretted not working enough, what he did regret was the time he lost from the things in life that are really important.  Wonderful post!
Jan 16, 2008 01:33 PM
Marzena Melby
Coldwell Banker Burnet Realty - Richfield, MN
Realtor, Twin Cities Minnesota Real Estate

Thank you, Carole! I'g glad to know we think alike. 

Wishing you the best year ever! 

 

Jan 16, 2008 10:25 PM
Mike Jones
SUNSTREET MORTGAGE, LLC (BK-0907366, NMLS 145171) - Tucson, AZ
Mike Jones NMLS 223495

Marzena,

Family is everything!  I really appreciate what you have to say here.

Mike in Tucson

Jan 17, 2008 04:55 PM
Marzena Melby
Coldwell Banker Burnet Realty - Richfield, MN
Realtor, Twin Cities Minnesota Real Estate

Mike,

Thank you for sharing your thought. Have a great day. 

Jan 18, 2008 01:50 AM
Renae Bolton
Marketing 4 Realtors - Garfield Heights, OH
I'm your Professional Real Estate Marketing VA!

Marzena - I have to commend you for actually coming up with a plan for 2008! Do you know how far ahead of the pack you are just by doing that one little thing??  Congratulations!

~Renae - Market 4 Real!

Jan 24, 2008 09:54 AM
Marzena Melby
Coldwell Banker Burnet Realty - Richfield, MN
Realtor, Twin Cities Minnesota Real Estate

Renae,

Thank you!  It feels awesome, and I feel that on target.

Have a prosperous weekend! 

Jan 24, 2008 11:45 PM