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The Most Important Part of My Job Selling Real Estate

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Real Estate Agent with Realty Executives Integrity R.E. Broker 55289-90

I'm never going to get used to it. Ever. The stories we hear time and time again in this line of work of the hardship so many homeowners have endured over the past few years and continue to endure to this day are heartbreaking and even a bit surreal.

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With the number of sales continuing to rise in our area, I admit I sometimes tend to forget that foreclosures and short sales are still out there and will continue to be out there for some time yet. So when I meet with a potential seller to discuss their home and how it fits in today's market, it can still take me aback when they tell me they are likely underwater.

I had such an appointment this morning. I wasn't prepared mentally or emotionally for the stories I was told. For whatever reason, it never even occurred to me that I could be walking into a potentially difficult situation. Perhaps that's a flaw on my part, but I'm not sure being forewarned in this situation would have even made a difference.

It served as a reminder that the number of stories such as the one I heard are staggering. It reminded me that even people who choose to live their lives responsibly, humbly, and with integrity get dealt a really crappy hand sometimes, and there is not a darn thing they can do about it except continue to move forward with faith and trust that all will be okay. Somehow, some way everything will work out.

I know I've said it before but I think it bears repeating. This job I have selling homes isn't just about selling homes. It's about helping people and connecting with people. It's about understanding and respecting the fact that their house isn't just another one on a conveyor belt of listings that need to get sold the quickest and for the most money.

These families come to us for advice and support, especially in the most trying of times. Perhaps the most important part of our job is to provide just that.

Pam Orzan Broker, Owner
Coastal Living South Florida Real Estate - Delray Beach, FL
Selling Delray, Boca Raton, & Boynton Beach

Hi Peggy, I agree! I try to let my customers know that I am on their side, trying to do my best for them...not just what's best for me.

Jul 10, 2012 05:47 AM
Kim & Kristine Halverson
Sotheby's & Knipe ERA - Bend, OR
Sisters, Realtors

Hi Peggy,

Awesome, thank you for the reminder. I have been thinking about this a lot lately. Shifting my focus away from getting the sale closed toward providing great service. In the end they can provide the same outcome, but coming from an attitude of service is much more rewarding for all.

Best,

Kim

Jul 10, 2012 08:46 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

That's goodc vibes right there:)

Jul 10, 2012 11:10 AM
Elyse Berman, PA
LoKation Real Estate - Boca Raton, FL
Boca Raton FL (561) 716-7824

Peggy,  We're involved in one of the biggest decisions some people will ever make.   You're right, it's about helping people and, in order to do that, we have to connect with them first.

Jul 10, 2012 11:51 AM
Peggy Wester
Realty Executives Integrity - Grafton, WI
Real Estate Agent Ozaukee & Washington County

Pam -- That's a great way to run your business! I'm just disheartened by the agents who seem to be so focused on having that "top producer" title behind their name that they lose sight of the emotions involved.

Kim -- Excellent point. I truly believe when we provide the best service, that is what the buyers and sellers remember us for -- not how quickly we sold or found their house.

Laura and Carole -- Thank you. Sure could use some good vibes!

Elyse -- That connection is so, so important. Have a had just a few transactions when that connection was missing. Just makes the transaction a bit more difficult.

Jul 10, 2012 12:23 PM