They say actions speak louder than words and IN GENERAL follow the actions of someone to learn who they are and what makes them up. But ever the contrarian I am in life about things I say hold on there Tonto.
Not true in an ABSOLUTE SENSE.
Follow Actions But Not Always....
What you say as you ask Yoda with a raised eyebrow? The exception to the rule is related to the zig zag nature of life, human frailty and people, others and ourselves, making MISSTEPS or mistakes. Wow, what a novel idea? Making mistakes. With actions you have to give it a chunk of time for consistency.
The most common reason for action not being the true path someone will end up on is "confused thought." We don't get it right each time. In real estate you would be amazed the patterns and actions of a buyer on day one vs. day 120 in looking for a house. They are much more well informed given some time and KNOW WHAT'S OUT THERE.
Always give people a break with their actions and not so hard edged, black and white with people. We all live in grey zones, have growth spurts, and have to learn on our own. Actions are important, BUT WITH TIME......
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