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The Story of Carl

By
Real Estate Agent with RE/MAX Platinum



 
Carl was a quiet man. He didn 't talk much. He would always greet you with a big smile and a firm handshake.
Even after living in our neighborhood for over 50 years, no one could really say they knew him very well.


Before his retirement, he took the bus to work each morning. The lone sight of him walking down the street often worried us.


He had a slight limp from a bullet wound received in WWII.


Watching him, we worried that although he had survived WWII, he may not make it through our changing uptown neighborhood with its ever-increasing random violence, gangs, and drug activity.


When he saw the flyer at our local church asking for volunteers for caring for the gardens behind the minister 's residence, he responded in his characteristically unassuming manner. Without fanfare, he just signed up.


He was well into his 87th year when the very thing we had always feared finally happened.


He was just finishing his watering for the day when three gang members approached him. Ignoring their attempt to intimidate him, he simply asked, "Would you like a drink from the hose?"


The tallest and toughest-looking of the three said, "Yeah, sure," with a malevolent little smile.


As Carl offered the hose to him, the other two grabbed Carl 's arm, throwing him down. As the hose snaked crazily over the ground, dousing everything in its way, Carl 's assailants stole his retirement watch and his wallet, and then fled.


Carl tried to get himself up, but he had been thrown down on his bad leg. He lay there trying to gather himself as the minister came running to help him.


Although the minister had witnessed the attack from his window, he couldn 't get there fast enough to stop it.


"Carl, are you okay? Are you hurt?" the minister kept asking as he helped Carl to his feet.


Carl just passed a hand over his brow and sighed, shaking his head. "Just some punk kids. I hope they 'll wise-up someday."


His wet clothes clung to his slight frame as he bent to pick up the hose. He adjusted the nozzle again and started to water.


Confused and a little concerned, the minister asked, "Carl, what are you doing?"


"I 've got to finish my watering. It 's been very dry lately," came the calm reply.


Satisfying himself that Carl really was all right, the minister could only marvel. Carl was a man from a different time and place.


A few weeks later the three returned. Just as before their threat was unchallenged. Carl again offered them a drink from his hose.


This time they didn 't rob him.. They wrenched the hose from his hand and drenched him head to foot in the icy water.


When they had finished their humiliation of him, they sauntered off down the street, throwing catcalls and curses, falling over one another laughing at the hilarity of what they had just done.


Carl just watched them. Then he turned toward the warmth giving sun, picked up his hose, and went on with his watering.


The summer was quickly fading into fall. Carl was doing some tilling when he was startled by the sudden approach of someone behind him. He stumbled and fell into some evergreen branches.


As he struggled to regain his footing, he turned to see the tall leader of his summer tormentors reaching down for him. He braced himself for the expected attack.


"Don 't worry old man, I 'm not gonna hurt you this time."


The young man spoke softly, still offering the tattooed and scarred hand to Carl. As he helped Carl get up, the man pulled a crumpled bag from his pocket and handed it to Carl.


"What 's this?" Carl asked. "It 's your stuff," the man explained. "It 's your stuff back. Even the money in your wallet." "I don 't understand," Carl said. "Why would you help me now?"


The man shifted his feet, seeming embarrassed and ill at ease. "I learned something from you," he said. "I ran with that gang and hurt people like you. We picked you because you were old and we knew we could do it But every time we came and did something to you, instead of yelling and fighting back, you tried to give us a drink. You didn 't hate us for hating you. You kept showing love against our hate."


He stopped for a moment. "I couldn 't sleep after we stole your stuff, so here it is back."


He paused for another awkward moment, not knowing what more there was to say. "That bag 's my way of saying thanks for straightening me out, I guess." And with that, he walked off down the street.


Carl looked down at the sack in his hands and gingerly opened it. He took out his retirement watch and put it back on his wrist.. Opening his wallet, he checked for his wedding photo. He gazed for a moment at the young bride that still smiled back at him from all those years ago.


He died one cold day after Christmas that winter. Many people attended his funeral in spite of the weather.


In particular the minister noticed a tall young man that he didn 't know sitting quietly in a distant corner of the church.


The minister spoke of Carl 's garden as a lesson in life.


In a voice made thick with unshed tears, he said, "Do your best and make your garden as beautiful as you can. We will never forget Carl and his garden."


The following spring another flyer went up. It read: "Person needed to care for Carl 's garden."


The flyer went unnoticed by the busy parishioners until one day when a knock was heard at the minister 's office door.


Opening the door, the minister saw a pair of scarred and tattooed hands holding the flyer. "I believe this is my job, if you 'll have me," the young man said.


The minister recognized him as the same young man who had returned the stolen watch and wallet to Carl.


He knew that Carl 's kindness had turned this man 's life around. As the minister handed him the keys to the garden shed, he said, "Yes, go take care of Carl 's garden and honor him."


The man went to work and, over the next several years, he tended the flowers and vegetables just as Carl had done.


During that time, he went to college, got married, and became a prominent member of the community. But he never forgot his promise to Carl 's memory and kept the garden as beautiful as he thought Carl would have kept it.


One day he approached the new minister and told him that he couldn 't care for the garden any longer. He explained with a shy and happy smile, "My wife just had a baby boy last night, and she 's bringing him home on Saturday.."


"Well, congratulations!" said the minister, as he was handed the garden shed keys. "That 's wonderful! What 's the baby 's name?"


"Carl," he replied..
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 GIVING BACK WITH EACH HOME SOLD!

 

Kristin Johnston

Realtor, ABR, EPRO

RE/MAX Platinum

414 254 6647

kjohnston5@wi.rr.com

 

 

 

Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Good Morning Kristin, Very nice story, It kept my attention and makes me think that there is hope for some if given a chance.  Have a great day.

Nov 01, 2012 11:17 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Kristin. What a special and lovely story. I guess I wonder where the story originated. In any event a great way to start the day.

Nov 01, 2012 11:19 PM
Kristin Johnston - REALTOR®
RE/MAX Platinum - Waukesha, WI
Giving Back With Each Home Sold!

Same to you Will!  Glad you liked it.

 

Shiela, thanks!  I am not sure...

Nov 01, 2012 11:36 PM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

Lovely story MM, I truly enjoyed it.

Nov 01, 2012 11:39 PM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Okay, I'm a blubbering mess now. What a sweet story and a reminder to counter hate with love - very Buddhist reaction on Carl's part. I love the power of passive strength. Thanks for the post Kristin - have a great Friday. 

Nov 01, 2012 11:40 PM
Kristin Johnston - REALTOR®
RE/MAX Platinum - Waukesha, WI
Giving Back With Each Home Sold!

I am glad to hear that ROger :-)  Thanks

 

Debb, thanks! Same to you :-)

Nov 01, 2012 11:56 PM
Kevin J. May
Florida Supreme Realty - Hobe Sound, FL
Serving the Treasure & Paradise Coasts of Florida

Great story Kristin!  You don't get to become part of the Greatest Generation by sitting around and complaining.  None of us would be here without them.

Nov 02, 2012 12:34 AM
Dale Bledsoe
Crown Key Realty - Tracy, CA
Realtor in Tracy, California

Excellent story. There are Carls all around us if we would just take the time to discover them. Some are old like the Carl in the story and some are young and just starting out. They are out there and each of us needs to find a Carl and say thanks. 

Nov 02, 2012 02:32 AM
Kristin Johnston - REALTOR®
RE/MAX Platinum - Waukesha, WI
Giving Back With Each Home Sold!

Well said Kevin!!!!

 

Dale, you got that right!

Nov 02, 2012 02:50 AM
Ron Marshall
Marshall Enterprises - Saint Michael, MN
Birdhouse Builder Extraordinaire

Nice story...I think I saw it before...And my former father-in-law's name was Carl, and he could have been that man.

Nov 02, 2012 07:32 AM
Kristin Johnston - REALTOR®
RE/MAX Platinum - Waukesha, WI
Giving Back With Each Home Sold!

Sounds like a great man Ron!

Nov 02, 2012 09:17 AM
Christine O'Shea
Christine E O'Shea Broker - Naples, FL

Sniff, sniff, what a beautiful story, Kristin.  Have a great weekend!

Nov 02, 2012 11:31 AM
Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Kristin

That's a very moving story thanks for sharing it.

Good luck and success.

Lou Ludwig

Nov 02, 2012 12:54 PM
Kristin Johnston - REALTOR®
RE/MAX Platinum - Waukesha, WI
Giving Back With Each Home Sold!

Thanks Christine, same to you!

Lou, I agree!

Nov 02, 2012 11:43 PM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Kristin-Love this story. We need more Carls in the world and more Kristin's too.

Nov 03, 2012 04:03 AM
Kristin Johnston - REALTOR®
RE/MAX Platinum - Waukesha, WI
Giving Back With Each Home Sold!

I think so too Sharon! And you are such a sweetie!

Nov 03, 2012 05:41 AM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

Thanks Kristin, great story that brought a tear to my eye, I will suggest it and share it.

have a great weekend!

Nov 03, 2012 02:54 PM
Kristin Johnston - REALTOR®
RE/MAX Platinum - Waukesha, WI
Giving Back With Each Home Sold!

Thanks Bob...I appreciate that!

Nov 03, 2012 10:14 PM
Silvia Dukes PA, Broker Associate, CRS, CIPS, SRES
Tropic Shores Realty - Ich spreche Deutsch! - Spring Hill, FL
Florida Waterfront and Country Club Living
Kristin, thank you for sharing this heartwarming story. There is good in everyone, often it just has to have a chance to develop.
Nov 04, 2012 07:27 AM
Kristin Johnston - REALTOR®
RE/MAX Platinum - Waukesha, WI
Giving Back With Each Home Sold!

You are most wlecome Silvia....thanks

Nov 04, 2012 08:29 PM