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Out with the Old, In with the New

By
Real Estate Agent with Homesmart

He comes every Tuesday.

The engine's low growl and the frequent squeal of overmatched brakes audible long before he rounds the corner.  My son jumping up and down at the front door alerting me to the approaching Twuck! Twuck!

Stepping outside in pajama pants and robe, I make my way to my usual vantage point on the porch sipping my second cup of coffee. Kenyan this morning. Jack has already shot across the front lawn and is standing on the lower horizontal rung of the picket fence. Peering over the wickets, silently urging the big, yellow truck to round the bend already, he bounces in unrestrained glee. Have I ever been so free?

To delighted peals of laughter, the garbage truck makes the turn onto our street. It stops at the neighbor's house, collects its haul, returns the black can to the sidewalk and moves on. At Randy's house. Now at Steve's.

All that stands between us now is AJ's place.

Here he comes. Chuffing the horn and waiving to Jack, the garbage man rumbles past the fence enroute to the can on the other side of the driveway.

As the mechanical arm effortlessly hoists the full can which I pulled to the curb the night before with such difficulty, I am as mesmerized as my son. Another week's worth of clutter and debris whisked away.

We both stand rooted in place as the truck makes its way down the street. To Marcy's. Now the neighbor beyond whom we have never met. The nice couple with the young children. The odd family with the anti-abortion stickers on their cars, religious idols in the yard and recumbent bicycles in the garage. The kindly, older bachelor with the little pug and FSBO sign in the yard. The retired couple with the fake flowers on the front walk and Green Bay Packer paraphernalia which reminds them of home.

The street's burden relieved, the garbage man makes a right turn at the stop sign and disappears.

Only now does Jack climb down from the fence and dash back across the grass into Daddy's arms. Scooping him up, I linger for the briefest moment before sauntering back across the threshold to my day. The faint echoes of the truck's passage gone, the air feels cool and clean. Possibilities endless.

Brought to by the little hand which tugs at my own, I ruffle his hair and head inside.

Time to get started on this week's mess.

 

Waiting for the garbage truck

 

Comments(35)

Paul Slaybaugh
Homesmart - Scottsdale, AZ
Scottsdale, AZ Real Estate

Indeed, Jennifer.  What a thing to simply wheel your troubles to the curb every week for pick up.  Of course, the ulterior motive here was to cause women across the country of child-bearing age to be struck with baby fever, thus ensuing the future health of this great nation.  Sounds like mission accomplished ;)

I am going to start that group, I think.  And the only reason this would be featured is because I'll moderate!  Thank you!

Jan 26, 2008 08:16 AM
Paul Slaybaugh
Homesmart - Scottsdale, AZ
Scottsdale, AZ Real Estate

Amanda:  ... or big trucks.

I'm officially jealous, Lenn

Judy, you are too kind.  In my heart of hearts, I will always want to be a writer.  Just think how love for the written word translates to my property marketing ;)

Linda, you won't find people burning trash here in the desert.  Big no-no.  But I get your drift.  Thanks for your comment.

 

Jan 26, 2008 08:21 AM
Paul Slaybaugh
Homesmart - Scottsdale, AZ
Scottsdale, AZ Real Estate
That is actually a heck of an idea, William.  Thanks for stopping in, as always, with a nice thing to say.
Jan 26, 2008 08:24 AM
Elaine Hanson
Coldwell Banker Realty - Malibu | Topanga - Malibu, CA
REALTOR - Topanga, CA Real Estate Agent
I just finally stopped with the mom tears over my son's 18th and you send me right back to the twuck days.  That tiny little body, climbing on the fence, so small and so vibrant -- I can imagine him turning around with his eyes shining.  You know what?  My son's eyes still shine like that, and your son's will too.  My son just looks down from his 6'2" view now.  Different body, same spark in the eyes!  Enjoy the road, Paul!
Jan 26, 2008 10:22 AM
Ginger Wilcox
Sindeo - San Francisco, CA
Isn't it funny how much they love the garbage man?  Mine now says "garbage man swiped our stuff".  Too much Dora Explorer.
Jan 26, 2008 11:01 AM
Mark Horan
Resident Team Realty, LLC & Toni's Property Management LLC - Saint Cloud, FL
"The Resident Chef" - Resident Team Realty LLC &
Paul- puts thing into perspective, doesn't it.
Jan 26, 2008 01:35 PM
Colleen Fischesser Northwest Property Shop
NextHome Experience - Chelan, WA
A Tradition of Trust in the Pacific NW since 1990!

Paul, this was great. They do grow up so fast...glad you can take the time to be in the moment. BTW, it brought me back to when my son used to love to watch the "big cups"....(trucks) Little boys are about as precious as they come.

Colleen

Jan 26, 2008 02:39 PM
Paul Slaybaugh
Homesmart - Scottsdale, AZ
Scottsdale, AZ Real Estate

While there is little risk of any child of mine reaching 6'2, your point holds true, Elaine.  Reading posts from you and others about them growing up so fast really helps me focus on savoring each precious moment.  I can't thank you enough for that. 

My niece is a huge Dora watcher, Ginger.  Her thing is for Diego, though.  She's always rescuing something these days.

Sure does, Mark.

It will be a sad day when he can execute such words and phrases flawlessly, Colleen.  How can your heart not melt when they ask for the choo choo park or up pease (when he wants to be picked up)?

Jan 26, 2008 04:00 PM
Katerina Gasset
The Gasset Group & Get It Done For Me Virtual Services - Provo, UT
Amplify Your Real Estate & Life Dreams!
Paul - don't you just love it! The simple things in life, the child's life is full of those. Our son just this past year stopped running out to see the garbage truck. Time goes by so fast, hold each moment as long as you can. Katerina
Jan 26, 2008 04:40 PM
Jason Crouch
Austin Texas Homes, LLC - Austin, TX
Broker - Austin Texas Real Estate (512-796-7653)
Paul - This is a lovely post about the time with your son.  It's awesome to watch them grow and learn and to see the things that they get excited about when they are little.  I left a nice message for you on Danny's post. 
Jan 26, 2008 05:00 PM
Colleen Fischesser Northwest Property Shop
NextHome Experience - Chelan, WA
A Tradition of Trust in the Pacific NW since 1990!

Paul, you're lucky to have these posts as a journal of sorts. I had completely forgotten, until my sister reminded me, of how my son used to say "Mommy, hold-you-me". I used to ask him "do you want me to hold you?" and he thought "hold you" was one word. <Sigh> Good times.

 

Jan 27, 2008 03:18 AM
Jesse Clifton
Jesse Clifton & Associates - Fairbanks, AK
Paul, what a great post.  Enjoy these times with the boys... I swear they will be 30 before you know it... though the teen years do seem to drag on forever. ha
Jan 27, 2008 10:41 AM
Marc Grossman
Marc It Sold! - Longwood, FL
GRI, Greater Orlando Real Estate Broker
Paul,  What a sweet story.  I could picture it happening.  Children are so innocent. 
Jan 27, 2008 11:05 AM
Art Lordbock
Quality Roof Systems - Brainerd, MN
Brainerd, MN Roofing Company
Kids are wonderful - the  odd people with the anti-abortion stickers  got that right.
Jan 27, 2008 11:58 AM
Paul Slaybaugh
Homesmart - Scottsdale, AZ
Scottsdale, AZ Real Estate

Art:  They aren't odd because of the bumper sticker.  They're simply odd.  The bumper sticker reference was merely descriptive.  Don't be so linear, my man.  You have no idea what my thoughts are on the subject, nor will you. 

Marc:  Thanks.  I could write a thousand of these for all the little things they do.

Jesse:  I'll take heed.  I promise.

Colleen:  Aside from the networking and consumer-driven benefits, that is fast becoming one of my top ulterior motives for posting here.  I love that I will have this blog to refer back to when they are older.

Jason:  Thanks for the endorsement.  I'll have to go find that "nice" comment you left for me now.  Sounds highly dubious.

Katerina:  Your little one may not run out to see the garbage truck anymore, but I bet he has replaced that ritual with another one.  I know it will be hard for me to let go of these times as they grow older, but I will be just as fascinated to see what is yet to come.  Thanks for reading.

Jan 27, 2008 12:31 PM
Lisa Heindel
Crescent City Living LLC - New Orleans, LA
New Orleans Real Estate Broker
Wonderful!  It was only with the discovery of professional wrestling (ugh!) that my youngest gave up his dream of driving the garbage truck for a living.  I remember how excited he would be to hear the truck coming down the street....and if they actually used the masher in front of our house?  It made his entire day :)
Jan 27, 2008 02:12 PM
Paul Slaybaugh
Homesmart - Scottsdale, AZ
Scottsdale, AZ Real Estate
It's not just the garbage truck either, Lisa.  He gets pretty amped up for the school bus that stops virtually right across the street every morning, the mailman ("May twuck! May twuck!"), UPS truck ... he's an equal opportunity big vehicle enthusiast.  The garbage truck does hold a special place of honor, though, right along railroad trains.
Jan 27, 2008 02:29 PM
Doreen McPherson
Homesmart ~ Scottsdale ~ Tempe - Tempe, AZ
Phoenix Arizona Real Estate ~

Paul, You are so lucky!  Those boys will appreciate your writing when they are older, it will help them when they have their own children.  You are an awesome dad! 

Keep writing. 

 

Jan 30, 2008 06:29 PM
Adam Waldman
Westcott Group Real Estate Company - Hauppauge, NY
Realtor - Long Island
PAUL - I still remember the pure excitement that my son used to have when the garbage trucks came around.  Enjoy this phase, because one day, you're going to tell him that the garbage truck is coming, and he's going to be busy doing something else.  Seemingly overnight, the switch was flipped, and the excitement was replaced by apathy.  It inspires you to appreciate each moment, because once they are gone, they are gone forever.
Jan 30, 2008 09:11 PM
Vanessa Stalets
RE/MAX Elite - Brentwood, TN
REALTOR, Brentwood TN Homes, Real Estate
I love how you describe this, I can see it like I am there! What a cutie! I can imagine how mesmerizing the truck is to him...how nice that you take the time to see this, really see it and savor it. Before you know it they are 6'4" and barely resemble the little  curious monkey they once were....nostalgia tugs at me now.
Jan 30, 2008 11:44 PM