Self-Confidence Formula

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Self-Confidence Formula – Chapter 3 Continued

As I mentioned in an earlier blog, I am reading (again), or actually listening to Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill, the original publication from 1937, on my daily walks.  I thought I would write a little summary or thought for the day from each chapter (links below):

Chapter 1

Chapter 2

Chapter 3

Self ConfidenceAs I continued to listen to Chapter 3 (Faith), today, I wanted to write a little more about this chapter as it is a very powerful chapter and covers a lot of territory.  Today, I want to talk a little about autosuggestion and self-confidence.

Throughout this chapter the author talks about faith and the State of Mind of being in faith with what one desires.  “Faith is a state of mind that may be induced by self-suggestion.” The author says.  He talks about how faith is the “chemical” which when mixed with prayer, provides for direct communications with the universe or as he calls it, the Infinite Intelligence.

You will find a lot of action steps in this chapter as was pointed out in my blog yesterday, Faith, Love and Sex – The Six Action Steps.  Well, there are even more action steps still within this chapter.  These are the referred to as the “Self-Confidence Formula” and he describes them in detail.  Here I provide just a snipit, a quick overview or comment on each; you will need to read the book to find the REAL formula:

Self-Confidence Formula:


  1. This is a statement of confidence and your purpose in life.   A promise if you will to take action.


  1. Recognition that what you think, you become.  A sobering thought to say the least!


  1. This is about autosuggestion and the ability to convert any desire held in your mind and demanded of yourself will eventually seek expression.  Demand self-confidence daily!


  1. Define and clearly state your definite chief aim in life and never stop trying until you have developed the self-confidence to achieve it.


  1. This is about believing in others as much as they believe in you, and never doing anything that is not for the benefit of all involved.  Develop a positive, loving attitude and do the things that you know are right!

There is a lot more in Chapter 3 and not enough space or time here to cover it all.  Plus that would take all the fun out of reading it yourself, or reading it again, as I have done for the umpteenth time!  And I get something out of it each and every time.


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Donna Bacher
PureRealty Brokerage - Hamilton, ON

Hi Tim...Great post and I love that book.. I even bought the CD's...the Key to Success based on the books...and they're great as well. There's absolutely no doubt in my mind that life is lived in our minds...and we're only as good as we allow ourselves to be! Have fun with your personal growth :)

Dec 03, 2012 01:12 PM #1
Christina Sanchez Hood
Palo Alto, CA
#SiliconValleyHOODS | Inspired Living

Tim, I love that book and I am so happy to know you are posting about it.  Faith is what keeps us going.  I really resonate with the following thought:

'Define and clearly state your definite chief aim in life and never stop trying until you have developed the self-confidence to achieve it."

My facebook post today was:

 “ Until you try, you don't know what you can't do.”  — Henry James

I look forward to reading more of your future posts :)

Dec 03, 2012 01:16 PM #2
Tim Denbo
VirtualTourCafe, LLC - Pleasanton, CA
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Donna, That's great, I will have to check out the Key to Success CD set, sounds good.  Thank you for your comment and yes I always have fun :)

Christina, Thank you for the positive feedback and great quote!

Happy Holidays!

Dec 03, 2012 03:08 PM #3
Charles Stallions
Charles Stallions Real Estate Services - Pensacola, FL
800-309-3414 - Pensacola, Pace or Gulf Breeze, Fl.

Well another great chapter with a great summary, very interesting on how the books of old are still relevant today

Dec 04, 2012 10:02 PM #4
Tim Denbo
VirtualTourCafe, LLC - Pleasanton, CA
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Charles, Especially after the recent "Great Recession" and this book was written during and after the Great Depression.  It is still as relevant today as it was then!  Thank you. 

Dec 05, 2012 01:53 PM #5
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, Keller Williams fox cities - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

Thanks Tim, very true!

Thanks for posting this TGR summary, it is an important book and likely part of why our country is able to outproduce most of the world.

Dec 17, 2012 03:16 PM #6
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