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How Do You Even Begin To Explain What Took Place In Sandy Hook Yesterday?

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Mortgage and Lending with George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages NMLS #65149

Their has been a lot written, and broadcast over the radio, and TV about the tragedy that took place in Sandy Hook, Connecticut on Friday.  New information continues to be made known, the latest is that this young man's Mother did not teach at the school that this took place at, which makes it even more puzzling as to why he picked this school.  The one thing that I have not heard anyone even attempt to try to explain so far is why someone would do what this young man did.  What possible reason could there have been to pick this school, and the classroom that the tragedy took place at.

I have been going over and over in my mind the events that took place on Friday.  There are no words that could begin to express the emotions that are going through my mind, especially at Church this morning.  The only thing that I can relate this to is the events of 9/11 as I stood in front of the TV set in disbelief of what I was seeing and hearing.  I can't even begin to imagine how anyone could even to try to justify such a horrible act.  There is nothing absolutely nothing that this young man could have gone through in his life that could justify his actions. 

What is important to me in all this is to try to understand the why.  To trying to identify the signs and mental state that would lead an individual to carry out such a horrible act.  These event will not stop until we can identify the signs, and come to a better understanding of how to address them.  The responsibility for the actions of what took place in Sandy Hook on Friday lie solely on the young man that committed them.  To shift the blame to anyone else or anything else would be very wrong in my opinion.

This is a time that our focus should be and needs to be on the families that are now having to deal with the aftermath of this horrible event.  To pray for them as they make arrangements to lay their child, mother, and wife to rest.  To pray for them as they attempt to deal with their grief and loss.  To pray for those who are closest to them, who will try to provide comfort in the days to come.  As the realization of what has taken place sets in, we need to also give them the time and privacy to morn and grieve in their own way. 

As a father of two boys I could not imagine having to deal with something like this.  It is unimaginable to me. If someone like me, who is far removed from the loss that the parents of these babies have gone through, has such a hard time coming to terms with all this, how can they.  Their lives have been changed forever, and in many ways so have ours.

There will not be any links, or pretty pictures to this blog, it is just my thoughts on a senseless, horrible tragedy.

2 Corinthians 1:3-4  Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God.

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Comments(6)

William J. Archambault, Jr.
The Real Estate Investment Institute - Houston, TX

George,

Sick and senseless violence has always been with us and unfortunately probably always will.

It’s believed that Ben franklin coined the phase "God helps those that help themselves" in "Poor Richard’s Almanac." The thing is not one of the adults in that building could or would stop the mad-man.

Pray for the survivors. Pray the families. Pray for all of us, we need help to understand the unexplainable. Pray for wisdom like that in Michigan that passed legislation this week to allow concealed carry by specially trained responsible adults willing to help themselves and protect our kids.

True security can never be, but if we remember we are our brother’s keeper and learn what our forefathers knew, there is hope.

Bill

Dec 16, 2012 04:44 AM
Debbie Gartner
The Flooring Girl - White Plains, NY
The Flooring Girl & Blog Stylist -Dynamo Marketers

No, this makes no sense.  I had the same reaction - reminded me of 9/11 - totally senseless and so awfully tragic.

Dec 16, 2012 05:10 AM
Nick T Pappas
Assoc. Broker ABR, CRS, SFR, e-Pro, @Homes Realty Group, Broker/Providence Property Mgmnt, LLC Huntsville AL - Huntsville, AL
Madison & Huntsville Alabama Real Estate Resource

George, one thing I over heard on the news was that as much as we want to know the "why" of it there are some things that are simply not knowable and that we may never know the true reason this happened.  It's actually a little scary that we start looking for "signs"... sounds like the makings of a witch hunt.  However, the man that shot G. Gifford was on the authorities radar for a while and just fell through the cracks.  

Not that this has anything to do with what happened, but I don't like the way the media has handled this at all.  Reporting bad/incorrect information, interviewing children on television, their unbelievable presence.  I've stopped watching any news reporting about Sandy Hook.  I don't know what the answer is or how to prevent another Sandy Hook, but I know this was a very terrible thing that happened and feel so sorry for the parents.

 

 

Dec 16, 2012 07:31 AM
Ann Hayden 636-399-7544
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Select Properties-St. Louis Missouri - Des Peres, MO
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George,

America suffered a great loss....  and anyone who is human should be feeling the pain of the loss. 

There is no understanding it.  It was a senseless act.

Ann Hayden in Wildwood, MO

Dec 16, 2012 12:09 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
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George, the word Why will be used so much over the weeks to come, and in the end there will still be no answer, just a lot of lost lives and broken families, and Why won't fix that

Dec 17, 2012 12:39 AM
George Souto
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Bill Prayer is the best advice that can be given, and we need a lot of it.

Debbie, it just brought back those same feeling of disbelief, and that what I was hearing was not real.

Nick I fully share your feelings about the media.  These people need privacy, and not having their lives further invaded.

Ann very well put there is no understanding anything like this.

Ed you are right my friend, why will not fix anything, but it is hard to not ask why.

Dec 17, 2012 09:10 AM