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A Jewish Christmas.....

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For the first half of my life I remember my Dad, of blessed memory, working (he drove a cab) on Christmas so his fellow drivers could be home with their families on their most special day. It was one of the first lessons I had in charity, real goodness not just lip service. My Dad is gone since 1981 but never a Christmas comes without thinking about him and his simply, yet meaningful action. The year before my Dad died he finally operated his own business: he had acquired a medallion after years of saving and trying. That year he served the homeless.

Now so many years later I do what many Jews do: a movie and Chinese food. It is a simple and fun thing and has become a tradition for me. Each of us share memories on holidays whether we celebrate them or not. It is nice to reflect and remember. Merry Christmas........

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Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hello again Mona. Missing those we love is something that never goes away. I hope you have a lovely day and even a smile over a past Christmas with your Dad. Merry, Merry.      Sheila

Dec 24, 2012 11:19 PM
Richard Iarossi
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - Crofton, MD
Crofton MD Real Estate, Annapolis MD Real Estate

Sheila,

Thank you for sharing your story about your Dad, and thank you for wishing us a Merry Christmas.

Rich

Dec 24, 2012 11:27 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Richard. My pleasure. It is good to talk of and remember my Dad. Merry Christmas. indeed. Enjoy the day!      Sheila

Dec 24, 2012 11:30 PM
Ron Marshall
Marshall Enterprises - Saint Michael, MN
Birdhouse Builder Extraordinaire

 

Santa chose you to get a big, jolly Merry Christmas today.  He’s got to head to the Bahamas today so I will see you later.

 

Your story really touched me.  Hope you have a wonderful day!

 

Dec 24, 2012 11:38 PM
Maggie McFarland
RE/MAX Pearland - Maggie McFarland - Pearland, TX
Pearland Realtor, Homes for Sale in Pearland Texas

What a beautiful memory Shelia! May your day be filled with many more!

Dec 24, 2012 11:43 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Ron. I hope you can join Santa and enjoy the warmth of the sun in the Bahamas. Merry Christmas.

Hello Maggie and thank you. I wish you a very Merry Christmas.

Sheila

Dec 24, 2012 11:46 PM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Sheila, Your dad was such a great man.  May you have a great day of relaxing.  Maybe that plane ticket will show up sometime.

Dec 25, 2012 12:01 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good day Will. Thank you for your support and kindness always. So.....will you be sending the ticket with the brownies? Merry Christmas, my friend.     Sheila

Dec 25, 2012 12:03 AM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

Sheila, Memories of family members come flooding in at Christmas. Enjoy your day and have a Happy New Year.

Dec 25, 2012 12:11 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Debbie and the same to you. Merry Christmas.    Sheila

Dec 25, 2012 12:13 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

What a really wonderful man your father was.  The past two years my daughter volunteered to work Christmas shift for someone who has children because she does not. 

Dec 25, 2012 05:36 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hello Tammy and thank you. Your daughter has a great Mom so I'm not surprised. I really appreciate you stopping by and your kind words. My Dad was a simple, good and hardworking guy who did his best always. I miss him. I hope you are having a nice Christmas.

Hey Valerie. I saw Lincoln. I really like it. Your dinner sounds great. I wish I could have some. Merry Christmas.

Sheila

Dec 25, 2012 05:48 AM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

Sheila, your dad sounds like a great man.  I've been in and out of the hospital this past week visiting my mother.  It does make "what's important" very real.  Have a great holiday week.

Dec 25, 2012 08:06 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hi Mike. He was a great man. I'm sorry about your Mom's health. I will keep her in my prayers. I hope you had a lovely Christmas. Thanks for stopping by my friend.       Sheila

Dec 25, 2012 08:12 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Beautiful memories of your dad.  I have to admit the Chinese food sounds good right now, and I really want to see Lincoln.  I had my family here yesterday and today was a very relaxing and quiet day.

Dec 25, 2012 12:02 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Sharon. I hope a movie and Chinese is in your future. Glad you had a beautiful Christmas too.   Sheila

Dec 25, 2012 09:23 PM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager
I will make it my future! We are watching a movie tonight...but still need to eat up the holiday leftovers before bringing in more food.
Dec 26, 2012 05:42 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Sharon....enjoy the evening. The weather here is lousy and I am glad to be in for the evening.    Sheila

Dec 26, 2012 06:16 AM
Jill Sackler
Charles Rutenberg Realty Inc. 516-575-7500 - Long Beach, NY
LI South Shore Real Estate - Broker Associate

Because the movie/chinese food tradition is so prevalent amongst American Jews, I once passed a Chinese food restaurant where the owner had written a letter of appreciation and posted it on the window. This was not a joke. It was a thank you letter from the proprieter expressing his gratitude to Jewish people "who have been commanded by their G-d to eat Chinese food on this day." I was hysterical.

Dec 27, 2012 11:39 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hi Jill. That's pretty funny. Thanks for sharing and wishing you a Happy, Healthy and Productive New Year.

Sheila

Dec 27, 2012 10:24 PM