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IT WAS A RAINMAKER WHO SET ME STRAIGHT

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Industry Observer with people first-then business feedback-input specialist

Years ago when I fist started out on ACTIVERAIN, well it was a very pleasant experience in many ways. Over time I experimented with different things always looking for my online presence and identity. Sometimes you have to have a little fun while commenting, posting and blogging and sometimes you have too much fun and lose focus

IT CREPT UP ON ME

I remember keeping a balance on the subject of personal versus business and one day rather subtly I started having more fun than purpose. Perhaps it was from exhaustion, temporary indifference or ignorance who knows. How I came back to reality is worth sharing...AND come back you must too

YOU LET ME DOWN

I remember having what I thought were fun posts and one day I got a comment from a subscriber who let me have it right there and then. I don't remember the exact words or the post, but according to this subscriber, I was off and not doing or writing on subject and this person was let down and let me know it. This is not why I subscribe to you says this person. They were saying that they came to my post for a reliable reason...I was absent without leave...A.W.O.L.

IT WAS A STATISTIC SHOWING ITSELF

It was so well done that I completely came to my senses and acknowledged that I had acquired a subscription base of people who enjoyed the sharing of my talents, skills and life savvy. When it got silly for the lack of a better word, people questioned their support and this person was really a live statistic for me to assess.

THE TRUTH

I admitted it. I agreed with the comment and said I wouldn't do it again and thanked this person right there and then. I thought how valuable it is to tell people the truth because that is the only thing that matters and holds up over time too. The truth as one sees it can be a very powerful agent of change when shared

FIND YOUR FOOTING

You see where there is one complaint you can reasonably assume there are others. This person represents them. If left uncorrected, I would be left period. It is then that I realized that there is purpose in what we are doing and to stay faithful to it more than unfaithful. In other words...90/10 on consistency/fun. I have even learned to write meaningful funny posts too

I HOLD YOU IN HIGH ESTEEM

To this person who told me the truth, who took the time to speak up, who had the courage of their convictions and expressed them and who thought me worthy to spend time on...I remain grateful to you. From that moment forward, that person had a piece of everything worthy thing I did....thank you

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Elite Home Sales Team
Elite Home Sales Team OC - Corona del Mar, CA
A Tenacious and Skilled Real Estate Team

I think that is why the AR experience is so good.  Have a great 2013.

 

Jan 21, 2013 11:43 PM
Belinda Spillman
Aurora, CO
Colorado Living!

Richie,  Our fellow Rainmakers are so great at keeping us on track and headed for success.  Glad you got some good advice.

Jan 21, 2013 11:43 PM
Beth Atalay
Cam Realty and Property Management - Clermont, FL
Cam Realty of Clermont FL

Good Morning Richie, it was noble of this Rainmaker to tell you the way they saw it. Many may see it, feel it, hear it but yet remain silent. If one cares enough, they would certainly take the time and provide you with feedback. Aren't you glad someone did exactly that for you?

Jan 21, 2013 11:46 PM
Bob Sooy
Realty World Northeast LLC - Sugarloaf, PA

Hi Richie,

 

Good post and important stuff to remember. I, still being a newer agent, (only 3 years in) look to you top posters/agents for good advice and relevant posts. Thanks!

-Bob

Jan 21, 2013 11:47 PM
Richie & You
people first-then business - Riverside, CA
Author & Consultant

Elite homes...you said a mouthful and thank you

Hello Belinda...you too and me too.....

Beth...I am a servant to this person...They gave the gift of caring and then sharing...

Bob...well you are a smart fellow is what comes to mind...YES, learn from my little adventure and become stronger for it. thank you Bob for visiting and commenting

Jan 21, 2013 11:52 PM
Brenda Mullen
RE/MAX Associates - San Antonio, TX
Your San Antonio TX Real Estate Agent!!

One definitely needs to focus on why they are here.  If it's to just post fun stuff, that's alright too, but know that your readers are probably looking for something different. 

Jan 22, 2013 12:20 AM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi
NMLS #216987, IL Lic. 031.0006220, WI Licensed. APMC NMLS #175656 - New Lenox, IL
708.921.6331 - 40+ yrs experience

Richie:  Great post and topic!  And it serves as a great reminder.  Personally, I think it's good to have some "fun" once in awhile.  It rounds out our readers' experience with us.  It engages them on another level.  It makes us "real".  But as with anything, you can go overboard.  Forget the real reason we are here.  Lose our focus.  A healthy balance is what is needed.  Kindof like eating a variety and rainbow of foods ... just healthiest to do so.  Perfectly represents what our posts should be ...

Suggested!!

Gene

Jan 22, 2013 04:20 AM
Richie & You
people first-then business - Riverside, CA
Author & Consultant

Brenda...its the public that gives the feedback necessary to make a difference if we listen...Yes to your commenting

Roger...What a nice piggy back to the post...You have a $100 credit at Richie's general store & post...thank you

Jan 22, 2013 04:20 AM
Richie & You
people first-then business - Riverside, CA
Author & Consultant

Gene...the mortgage machine Mundt...My post is now the comment and your most worthy comment is the post..Well done and thank you for visiting with me today

Jan 22, 2013 05:49 AM
Joshua Zargari
MJ Decorators Workshop LI staging and home decorating - Lynbrook, NY
MJ Decorators Workshop

Good evening Richie.

We are here to help each other improve the way we do business.

Jan 22, 2013 06:16 AM
Richie & You
people first-then business - Riverside, CA
Author & Consultant

Joshua...I like you....May many things come to you without the asking

Jan 22, 2013 06:46 AM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

Hi Richie, it is so nice when people let us know when something that we do bothers them, far too many just dismiss without letting you know why.

btw, I enjoy the real estate blogs and the others as well.

Jan 22, 2013 11:15 AM
Richie & You
people first-then business - Riverside, CA
Author & Consultant

Bob...it is the ego that interferes and messes everything up....There is no reason why we cannot reason things out...Thank your bob for your support

Jan 22, 2013 10:16 PM