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My smart phone addiction is getting disturbing

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Real Estate Agent with Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage 531132

No cell phoneI don’t know when it actually happened, but it did. I can’t be very far from my actual cell phone, or I start to get nervous. It feels weird not to be in instant communications, even if I don’t use it at the time.

Yesterday was a slow real estate day and I had to pick up a few things from the store which is just five miles away. About half way there I realized that I left my iPhone in the charger on my desk. Seriously, I actually contemplated going back to get the phone, and start the short trip all over again. I didn’t, but the fact that the thought crossed my mind was disturbing.

I’m old enough to have had a completely successful, and fulfilling career without ever having a cell phone, and for many years, no voice mail either. Instant messaging, email and social networking were something for the future. Somehow we survived, and thrived, without ever having to get back to someone practically in real time.

Not so today...and I get it. It’s sad though, to come to the realization that our lives are being micro managed and controlled by our devices.

One of these days I’m going to leave my cell phone home for the entire day...but not today ;-)

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 Richard Iarossi is a full time licensed REALTOR®, working in Crofton, MD. My coverage areas are: Anne Arundel, Prince George’s, Howard, Calvert, Queen Anne, and Baltimore City and County. I specialize in residential real estate, working with both buyers and sellers. Use the registration free search on my website at www.RichSellsHomes.com. If you’re not already working with a REALTOR®...I can help. Call me at 443-995-9595 (Cell) or 410-451-6255 (Office).

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Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi
NMLS #216987, IL Lic. 031.0006220, WI Licensed. APMC NMLS #175656 - New Lenox, IL
708.921.6331 - 40+ yrs experience

Richard:  Take a look around you ... you're not alone!  I think cell phones are like crack.  Totally and completely addicting ...

Gene

Jan 23, 2013 12:21 AM
Joseph Richards
Richards Capital Management - Prospect Park, NJ
I know the feeling. On the few occasions that I have forgotten my iPhone, I had to head back home to get it. Actually, the only time that I am more than 10 feet for it is when I'm in the shower...lol. It that neurotic?
Jan 23, 2013 12:30 AM
Lyn Sims
Schaumburg, IL
Real Estate Broker Retired

An OMG where's my phone panic moment!  I agree & usually I come around like you did saying if I can't get a furnace filter at the hardware store without freaking out I've got a problem.

Jan 23, 2013 12:43 AM
Kimo Jarrett
Cyber Properties - Huntington Beach, CA
Pro Lifestyle Solutions

Interesting post, yet there's more to life than devices like cell phones, so take a break and you'll discover that there's still life after you leave your devices unmanned.

Jan 23, 2013 12:52 AM
Debbie Cook
Long & Foster Real Estate, Inc - Silver Spring, MD
Silver Spring and Takoma Park Maryland Real Estate

Just like blackberries were once dubbed crackberries - It's time to call it a Crack Phone!  LOL

Jan 23, 2013 01:12 AM
John Dotson
Preferred Properties of Highlands, Inc. - Highlands, NC - Highlands, NC
The experience to get you to the other side!

I am with Bill's (#54) partner, I have taken the attitude that the cell phone is for my benefit, not everybody elses.  I cut mine off every evening, and most mornings remember to turn it back on.

I have an office phone that has been the same for 25 years and a home phone for the same time.  Everything is not an emergency.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not an old fogy, I am the first one to jump on new technology and I love it.

Jan 23, 2013 01:43 AM
S W
Centerville, KS

My cell phone is my life line for my real estate business. Being that I am only 24 years old and have been doing this for nearly 5 years, this is the only way I know. Calls, texts, emails, social media updates are all part of the circle of providing better customer service to our clients!

Jan 23, 2013 02:30 AM
Connie Harvey
Pilkerton Realtors - Brentwood, TN
Realtor - Nashville TN Real Estate

Richard, I have forgotten my phone for a day. After I got over the initial shock of it, it was kind of refreshing not being connected for a while.

Jan 23, 2013 03:14 AM
Cynthia Larsen
Cotati, CA
Independent Broker In Sonoma County, CA

I love leaving my cell phone at home, you might find that you can actually enjoy a couple of hours of peace and quiet. Relax!

Jan 23, 2013 03:42 AM
Nancy Middleton
Counselor Realty, Inc. - Excelsior, MN
Nancy Middleton, Counselor Realty, Minnetonka, MN

I am so sad after reading all the posts from people who are afraid to be anywhere without their Smart phone attached to them. There are, indeed, times when having a phone available for a true emergency, is a must, but is everyone and everything so important that returning a call within minutes is critical. I find it almost impossible to communicate with people when attention to their phone is more important than even looking at me and being present. I feel very disrespected. I agree with the people who commented on trying to have a life and being present in the moment now and then without your phone.

 

Jan 23, 2013 03:47 AM
Brad Davis
Sea Palms Coastal Realty Inc - Saint Simons Island, GA
Brad C. Davis

I'm of the younger generation, which you would expect to have a smart phone on them at all times, with no exceptions.  As a general rule, I turn off my phone at about 8pm at night and turn it back on at 7am.  This helps to keep me from becoming a slave to my phone.  I've gone on week long cruises and never turned it on.  Of course, I assigned other agents in the office to help out any of my clients, should an emergency arise.  Also, make sure you say that you won't be available in your voicemail until such and such date.  Set up an automatic reply in your email, to let people who are emailing you know who to reach out of in case of emergency and what date they can expect to hear back from you if it isn't an emergency.

Jan 23, 2013 04:47 AM
Tom Esposito
Alpharetta Home Solutions - Alpharetta, GA

Feel the same way.  I am never without my iphone, except when I leave it in the car.  Then I have to go back and get it.  Truth is, it wasn't so long ago that I didn't have a smart phone.  If I was showing homes, I'd be gone several hours and only be reachable by a phone call.  I look back and think how many emails waited for me to return and respond to them.  I didn't understand what text messages were and didn't use them.  Wasn't on Facebook or Twitter.  Then I got Smart!  or Not!

Jan 23, 2013 05:34 AM
Bruce Cargin
Hastings, MN

Rich (and all the other repsponders),

I am a home inspector and I have the same issue with my phone. But I know why I feel like I can't leave it alone, even for a minute. LOST INSPECTIONS! I have found that people looking for a home inspector do not leave messages they just gon on to the next guy on the list.

Jan 23, 2013 06:28 AM
Pam Ruckriegel
Louisville Real Estate Pros - 502-435-5524 - Louisville, KY
Negotiating the Best Deal for You!

Twice during Christmas holidays, I went out without my phone for about four hours -- on purpose!  It was bliss.  So what, I had a few missed calls.  I don't answer calls when I am on an appointment, and those days were no different.  I had an appointment with myself!

Jan 23, 2013 07:28 AM
David Cole
David Cole CPA - Orlando, FL
David Cole CPA

For many people phones have become an extension of their hand. I was in the grocery store today and more people walking,texting, shopping, and emailing at the same time....

Jan 23, 2013 09:22 AM
Georgie Hunter R(S) 58089
Hawai'i Life Real Estate Brokers - Haiku, HI
Maui Real Estate sales and lifestyle info
Sad but true. We all need a 12 step program don't we?
Jan 23, 2013 11:58 AM
Samantha Smith
214.422.0729 www.SamIAmHouses.com - Rowlett, TX
Sam I Am Houses, Simply Texas Real Estate
Lol I sooo hear ya! Cell phones are addicting & I totally have to have it on me at all times ... pfffft. I think we need a No Smart Phone day ... but not today or tomorrow Ha!
Jan 23, 2013 12:53 PM
Dora Griffin
D A Griffin Financial.LLC - Fort Thomas, KY
NMLS 6380

Smart phones are good and bad. I am a recent convert to a smart phone. I work at my office most of the time and for a long time rationalized I did not need it. I must admit now if I'm out of the office it makes my life easier to check emails to see if I need to rush back to the office.

My biggest complaint is the parents ignoring kids while they facebook and song pop. I tell my daughter and son in law all the time to put their phones down. They are great parents, but it makes me think many youngsters are being ignored a tad too much.

Jan 24, 2013 12:57 AM
Real Estate Kareer - Sara Kareer, CLHMS
Re/Max Real Estate Centre Inc., Brokerage - Mississauga, ON
This Kareer Helps You Build Real Estate Wealth

I had a panic moment a couple of weeks ago when, as I was driving, I realized I forgot my cell phone at home.  The horror!  Luckily, I was only 2 minutes away from my house and went back to retrieve my life-line. lol! 

Jan 24, 2013 09:24 PM
Gene Riemenschneider
Home Point Real Estate - Brentwood, CA
Turning Houses into Homes

I spend about an hour each day in the pool - disconnected and I love it.  But there are people there with the cell phones setting near by so they can check it and things!!!!

Jan 28, 2013 07:10 AM