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Real Estate is a Game where you're Only Successful if you WIN

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Real Estate Agent with Donna Homes, powered by JPAR - TexasRealEstateMediationServices.com 0480809

A few months ago, I had a buyer who submitted an offer on a property. There were multiple offers and we were told to submit "best and final". After some thinking, the buyer increased his offer a little. He won. He was excited, per se, but he was also disappointed. His reaction, "I knew I offered too much!"

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And I've also had a buyer (actually, many buyers) who was told for her "best and final" and in the end did not get the house because other offers were higher. She was also disappointed.

In both scnenarios, the buyers were disappointed...

I always tell my buyers that if they're going to spend the emotional efforts to write an offer on a house they like, they need to "bid to win".  I really hate when buyers say, "Well, if they won't take my offer, I'll find another house." Does that mean you didn't actually like that house enough to buy it? If you didn't like the house, why are you submitting an offer on it? Don't have better things to do?

When you submit an offer, yes, it's ok to feel that you don't want to pay "full price". However, you need to go into your decision with facts. If the average homes in the neighborhood are selling at 98% of asking price in under 30 days, offering 10% below their asking price the first week on the market is probably not the smartest way to "win". Many times, because of the fast-selling Austin market, paying full price is the only way to secure the house. Sometimes, as long as the comparable sales support it, you might want to offer over the asking price to undercut other buyers, keeping in mind that the appraisal contingency will help ensure you don't overpay for the house.

Basically, real estate is a game and you're only successful when you win. Do you play to win or play to lose? If you are ok with losing, you're never going to buy a house. You need to structure your offer to help ensure you don't come in second place!  I also tell my buyers that if they put their best foot forward and are still upset they lost out to another buyer, they didn't truly put their best foot forward. If you truly put your best foot forward on your offer, and you lose to someone else, you should be ok with your decision. You can't predict what is going to happen, but as long as you're ok with your decision, it was your decision to make. You can't blame the agent. You can't blame the other buyer(s). You can't blame the seller. You have no one else to blame except yourself if you don't win in a multiple offer situation.

FYI, winning in a multiple offer situation is also not just about the price, it's about the terms. You need to work with an experienced Realtor who can help you structure the terms in a favorable way to help ensure your offer is received well by the seller.  Call me today to help you secure your next house!!

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Laura Filip
Laura Filip Broker , Opening doors for All Seasons of Life - Whitesboro, TX
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Great post thank you for sharing

Feb 21, 2013 08:34 AM
Richard Arnold
Keller Williams Realty East Valley - Tempe, AZ
Realtor - Tempe, Chandler, Mesa, Gilbert, Phoenix

The only game I every play to lose was called "Go For Broke". 

I agree with the post in that some buyers seems to have a Game Show Mentality when it comes to buying a house.  They feel it's not good unless they get a bunch of stuff for free - or outcompete other people to "Win" at the end of the day.  Perhaps they're forgetting this is going to be their home, and not a trophy on a shelf.

 

 

Feb 21, 2013 09:21 AM
Michelle Francis
Tim Francis Realty LLC - Atlanta, GA
Realtor, Buckhead Atlanta Homes for Sale & Lease

Donna, 

When we get to multiple offers, I suggest to my buyers to consider what number will they be upset if they don't get the house at?  I had one buyer years ago who lost out on a 500k house by 1k.  It resold the following year for higher.  That buyer wished they'd gone a little higher.  Some times its a live and learn kind of scenario.

Like you mentioned terms are also important and doing what you can to "WIN" is key. 

All the best, Michelle

 

Feb 21, 2013 09:30 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

Donna, good post. Buyers in a multiple offer situation must recognize that their advantage is gone and if they really want the house and their agent has given them good comps, the offer needs to be at value and them it's the rest of the terms that might make it a done deal.

Feb 21, 2013 11:36 AM
Greg Nino
RE/MAX Compass - Houston, TX
Houston, Texas

Then they'll say they don't need an agent to offer a full-price offer!

Feb 21, 2013 12:10 PM
Christine Donovan
Donovan Blatt Realty - Costa Mesa, CA
Broker/Attorney 714-319-9751 DRE01267479 - Costa M

Donna - I like a buyer to consider how they will feel if they don't win and conversely how they will feel if they do.  It seems to help clarify.

Feb 21, 2013 02:25 PM
Pete Xavier
Investments to Luxury - Pacific Palisades, CA
Outstanding Agent Referrals-Nationwide
Same deal trading in the equity markets, not just the price but the terms of the trade also. Valuation is in the mind, some deal with it better than others.
Feb 21, 2013 02:34 PM
MichelleCherie Carr Crowe .Just Call. 408-252-8900
Get Results Team...Just Call (408) 252-8900! . DRE #00901962 . Licensed to Sell since 1985 . Altas Realty - San Jose, CA
Family Helping Families Buy & Sell Homes 40+ Years

That is the challenge for agents in counseling buyers-even when a buyer "wins" they may internally feel they lost by paying too much-what it took to actually get the home!

Feb 21, 2013 03:53 PM
Wika Hutchinson
Eugene, OR
Broker, CRIS, SFR, CDPE

Donna, I often get a CMA for the buyer prior to writing an offer and educate them with the pricing so they know facts on what's going on in the neighborhood (of the property they're purchasing).

Feb 21, 2013 05:26 PM
Scott Fogleman
New Home Team - Richmond, VA

Donna- I ell buyers if they will they will never now.. But if they lose by only a small amount it will haunt them for a long time...

Feb 21, 2013 06:10 PM
Marc McMaster
RE/MAX Centre Realty - State College, PA
Putting my clients before myself

I've found in situations like that buyers want to feel like they're a big time negotiator.  Sometimes I feel like they don't actually want to win because then they feel like they were smarter than the other person for walking away.

Feb 21, 2013 07:46 PM
Amanda Christiansen
Christiansen Group Realty (260)704-0843 - Fort Wayne, IN
Christiansen Group Realty

Excellent post Donna.  Having an experienced agent help you is KEY.  I'd feel 100% comfortable having you represent me and help me win.  

Feb 21, 2013 09:16 PM
Randy Hilman REALTORĀ® Associate Broker
Randy Hilman Homes in partnership with Bean Group - Moultonborough, NH
Guide & Mentor to Home Buyers & Sellers

Hi Donna: People are disappointed or feel remorse in financial transactions when they are uncertain of the value/price relationship.  Does anyone really fret about paying more than they should have for fixed price commodities?

When I need shoes I buy shoes I can afford.  I want the shoes to meet my expectations for the good money I spend on them and I've purchased enough pairs over the years to have a sense of which brands meet my expectations.

With a house, confidence goes out the window.  Buyers know when houses meet their needs and expectations, but they don't know how much pay for that value.  Seasoned real estate investors typically know how to relate the value of price to the value of an asset purchased.  But housing consumers, unless they're prestige buyers, rarely do, which is why real estate agents really need to know how to demonstrate that an item of value is worth the good money that will be spent to obtain it. And that's just one reason why good agents are worth every penny spent to have their representation.

Feb 21, 2013 10:01 PM
Michael J. Perry
KW Elite - Lancaster, PA
Lancaster, PA Relo Specialist
Great timing and review ! I'm heading out in 2 hrs. to show a house that has had 20 showings in 3 days and is 20,000+- below it's potential value AND NOT A Short Sale !!!!
Feb 21, 2013 10:20 PM
Pamela Seley
West Coast Realty Division - Murrieta, CA
Residential Real Estate Agent serving SW RivCo CA

Great post that winning an offer is not just price, but terms. Asking the seller to pay for a new stove when they are several other buyers willing to buy the house without a new stove is a losing battle.

Feb 21, 2013 11:32 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Results don't lie and lack of results don't lie either...professional help is the only way to go at these prices...good post here

Feb 21, 2013 11:47 PM
Ruthmarie Hicks
Keller Williams NY Realty - 120 Bloomingdale Road #101, White Plains NY 10605 - White Plains, NY

A lot of buyers don't understand that the days of stealing a home are soooo 2011... That ship sailed.  And I remember all the people I presented gooey sweet offers to in 2010-2012 that buyers turned their noses up at.....What goes around, comes around.  Buyers thought they had a LOCK on the market - f-o-r-e-v-e-r.  Nothing is forever, even in this vicious seemingly permanant recession.  

 

 

Feb 22, 2013 12:51 AM
Donna Bosze
Realty Executives Top Producers - Chesapeake, VA
Ask Me Why I'm Different!

Bottom line: Some folks are afraid if they do and afraid if they don't.  I simply educate my clients on the particular neighborhood and remind them of the low interest rates. Waiting is NOT their friend...find the house they want and 'go for it'.

Feb 22, 2013 04:37 AM
Wayne Zuhl
Remax First Realty II - Cranford, NJ
The Last Name You'll Ever Need in Real Estate

Hi Donna - this is  a great post. There are so many factors that go in to making an offer on a house  - if you want a house badly enough to make an offer, make it your best.

Feb 22, 2013 06:07 AM
Donna Harris
Donna Homes, powered by JPAR - TexasRealEstateMediationServices.com - Austin, TX
Realtor,Mediator,Ombudsman,Property Tax Arbitrator

THank you to the rest of you who commented. I hope it helps in your next negotiations.

I personally, don't like buyers to go into negotiations with a closed mind of "this is the absolute highest I'll pay". What if the sellers are $1k over, or $5k over? Depending on the price point, you're talking nickles and dimes and if a buyer likes a house, he needs to keep an open mind to what he'll pay for the house. Letting pennies get in the way isn't smart as it might cost more money waiting for the next house to come available that might be priced higher or rates go up...

Feb 22, 2013 10:09 PM