Silence Is Golden When Selling Your House

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Catherine Cornelia Real Estate

Listen with your heartWell written post on "listening". As I commented, a tip to help you "hear" what is being said is to take notes and confirm what you heard so everyone is on the same page. Taking notes keeps you focused and less likely to interrupt.

 

 

Original content by Diane Donnelly

 

Silence is golden when selling your house.

God gave us two ears and one mouth for a reason.  When we are selling a house, we must talk less, and listen more.

Negotiating is an art and to succeed, you must not only hear what is said, you must listen with the intent to understand and then create a WINNING strategy.  (Seek first to understand).....

Let me give you an example of the difference between hearing and listening.

The Agent representing the buyer calls the Listing Agent (or the agent representing the seller) and during the conversation mentions that the buyers would like to move in 30 days because their lease is up and they don't have anywhere else to go.  If the Listing Agent was simply hearing the conversation, she will shrug it off as a detail of the offer.  However, if the Listing Agent was hearing the conversation, she might say to the seller, "We've got a good chance of asking for more money, the buyer has no where to go in 30 days".

This is a VERY big difference and the very reason you must hire a talented, successful Realtor when representing you.  Ask great questions when you are interviewing a potential Realtor.

If you find this post helpful, please share it.  Thanks!

Live well and listen with intent!

       

Also, please visit our website TDGMoves.com as well.  Here you will find helpful information about buying, selling or investing in a home in and around Annapolis and Anne Arundel County, MD.

Live Well,

Diane Donnelly

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Comments (2)

Diane Donnelly
Keller Williams Flagship - Annapolis, MD
Anne Arundel County, MD Real Estate

Love the idea of keeping notes Catherine! In fact, after reading your post, I had a call with a difficult seller and I took copious notes.  You never know when you need to remember the exact words! Thanks for the feedback and the repost!

 

Feb 15, 2013 07:53 AM
Catherine C Capasso
Catherine Cornelia Real Estate - Eastchester, NY
Cottage or Castle, What's Your Dream!
Thanks Diane! I love posts like yours, well written and open to comments that enhance the material presented. Maybe you can do a follow up blog about taking notes and the impact it has on "hearing/listening"!
Feb 15, 2013 09:49 PM

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