In the nursery tale Snow White and the Seven Dwarves, the Queen looks into the magic mirror that can talk back and poses the question,
Mirror Mirror On The Wall. Who's The Fairest Of Them All?
She doesn't like the answer of this up and coming fair Snow White character and plots to destroy her with poisonous apples and such, hangs out with the seven short guys and has a Prince Charming kiss to save the day to have a happy ending.
But the Mirror Mirror question is something we all should ask ourselves. Who are we? Not to feel bad comparing ourself to another, but to better understand ourselves, our core values. Values drive everything you do, and if you don't know what you stand for or do not stand for you will be adrift in life. Meditate on yourself and write things down even who exactly you are. Knowing yourself breeds confidence and I find too many with confidence have no values and some with strong values doubt themselves entirely too much.