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The Terrible Sin of Underestimating Someone

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Real Estate Agent with KW at the Parks 651506396

The Terrible Sin of Underestimating Someone

I saw this story a little while ago about a woman who had passed away in Italy and her good and faithful dog returned everyday to the church where the woman’s funeral was held. When the woman was alive, the dog used to attend daily Mass with the woman and sat at her feet in the pew.

According to locals, the dog, “joined mourners at her service, and followed after the owner’s coffin.” The parish priest said the dog arrives every day, when the bells are rung prior to daily mass. "He's there every time I celebrate mass and is very well behaved. He doesn't make a sound." Father Donato Panna was quoted as saying.

It wasn’t too long after reading that article that I saw a very similar article…only this time; it was about the dog of a fallen soldier. Perhaps you saw the picture on the Internet too…a fallen Navy SEAL's Labrador retriever laying next to his owner's casket at a funeral service in Rockford, Iowa, refusing to leave. The picture had been posted to Facebook, by the SEAL’S cousin.

Both of these stories got me to thinking about how little we really know about what our pets are able to comprehend…and how much we underestimate their abilities simply because they cannot speak.

While that may be a tragedy, what really stayed with me was the fact that we do the same with people. We hear stories all the time of the genius locked inside the mind of an autistic person who cannot communicate with the outside world. We have all seen stories of accomplished musicians, mathematical wizards, and artists able to create all types of wonderful art…and yet they lack the ability to speak.

But it goes well beyond those with an affliction like what I mentioned above. We not only underestimate those who cannot speak, we also marginalize those who do not have a voice. The sick, the homeless, the poor, and those whose lives are at risk due to addictions fail to catch our attention because we have tuned out their cries for help. How many times do we encounter someone on the street and fail to see their humanity? Perhaps we need to look beyond what is on the surface and hear what is in another’s heart.

Perhaps our pets are God’s way of reminding us that all life has meaning and purpose, and simply because someone is locked in a world of silence, does not mean they lack value.

I’ll leave you with this…

My goal in life is to be as good of a person as my dog already thinks I am.  ~Author Unknown

 

 

 

 

 

Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Hey, Thomas,

 

 I included this post in today’s Last Week’s Favorites.  Please drop by and check it out, and and enjoy the rest of your weekend!

 

Apr 06, 2013 11:17 PM
Brad MacKenzie
Brad MacKenzie - Duxbury, MA
Turning Houses into Homes on the South Shore

Thanks so much for this beautifully written and heartfelt piece. I'm glad I read it.

Apr 07, 2013 12:01 AM
Beth and Richard Witt
New York, NY
The best Retired Brokers !!!!

Came over thanks to Pat and I'm so glad I did... Very heartfelt post... Happy Day

Apr 07, 2013 12:06 AM
Fernando Herboso - Associate Broker MD, & VA
Maxus Realty Group of Samson Properties - Clarksburg, MD
301-246-0001 Serving Maryland, DC and Northern VA

Thanks you to Pat. .I did not miss this post. . 

love the positive message of love and faith. .

pets are a wonderful thing. .

Apr 07, 2013 12:29 AM
Kristin Johnston - REALTOR®
RE/MAX Platinum - Waukesha, WI
Giving Back With Each Home Sold!

I saw your post on Patricia's weekly wrap up...so glad I didnt miss it...thanks for sharing!

Apr 07, 2013 12:53 AM
Kathy Stoltman
Ventura, CA
RETIRED

Thomas, the picture of your grandson just cracked me up!  Loved it and the post.

Apr 07, 2013 02:07 AM
Thomas Craig
KW at the Parks - Orlando, FL
Pat, Thank you so much for reposting my blog. How kind of you to do that! Tom
Apr 07, 2013 04:12 AM
Thomas Craig
KW at the Parks - Orlando, FL
Brad, Thank you for stopping by and leaving a comment. Tom
Apr 07, 2013 04:13 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Thomas I'm so glad Patricia shared your post on her weekly wrap up.  Makes me ponder what my dog thinks of me:) I'm sure the sun sets in my husbands eyes as he's become 'his' dog.  Beautifully writing, thoughtful post!

Apr 07, 2013 04:13 AM
Thomas Craig
KW at the Parks - Orlando, FL
Richard and Beth, I am glad you stopped by too! Tom
Apr 07, 2013 04:14 AM
Thomas Craig
KW at the Parks - Orlando, FL
Fernando, Thanks for stopping by. It's a lovely day here in Ohio, and my wife and I are off to take the dogs for a walk. Not sure who is more excited. Tom
Apr 07, 2013 04:17 AM
Thomas Craig
KW at the Parks - Orlando, FL
Kristin, Thanks for adding a comment, and for taking time to read my blog. Tom
Apr 07, 2013 04:19 AM
Thomas Craig
KW at the Parks - Orlando, FL
Kathy, Thank you so much...he sure is one cute little boy! Tom
Apr 07, 2013 05:02 AM
Thomas Craig
KW at the Parks - Orlando, FL
Anna, Thanks so much for you kind words, and for spending part of your Sunday reading my blog. Tom
Apr 07, 2013 05:04 AM
Cassandra Stewart
Future Home Realty - Tampa, FL
Your Tampa Florida Agent
Thomas - I am loving this post! I would give it a gold star too! All the best to you.
Apr 07, 2013 07:59 AM
Thomas Craig
KW at the Parks - Orlando, FL
Cassandra, Thank you so much for you kind comments! Tom
Apr 07, 2013 10:08 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Thomas

That is a touching post about pets and their devotion. Sometimes they are more human than we think. Loved your photo in the comments, and the quote, which I've heard several times recently.

Jeff

Apr 07, 2013 10:34 AM
Thomas Craig
KW at the Parks - Orlando, FL
Jeff, Thanks for stopping by and for taking time to leave a comment. Tom
Apr 07, 2013 12:06 PM
Charita Cadenhead
eXp Realty - Birmingham, AL
Serving Jefferson and Shelby Counties (Alabama)

Thomas I too, sincerely believe that we should look beyond the surface.  We never know what someone else is going through and appearances can be very deceiving.

Apr 07, 2013 11:21 PM
Thomas Craig
KW at the Parks - Orlando, FL

Charita,

Thank you so much for your insights...and for taking your valuable time to express them here!

Tom

Apr 08, 2013 02:08 AM