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Don't Worry..Be Happy...See Problems as Challenges....

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Real Estate Agent with Aubrey and Associates Realty

In this post I am continuing with my take on the list of traits that happy people have.  I got this list from a neighborhoood newsletter.  There was no source of the list in the article.  I mention this in each post to show that the list isn't something that I came up with.  I wish that I had!  Todays trait is to see problems as challenges.  This is not something that is new.  Many coaches and trainers have mentioned this trait in their services.  It seems like an easy thing to do, but in practice, probably not so!

To me, this is all about attitude.  When we look at problems as challenges we are excited to take on and solve these problems or challenges.  When we see them as problems, we do so with a defeated attitude.  It isn't that we don't realize that we need to solve the problem, rather we look at it as a road block.  Often we even develope a state of mind where we wonder what will go wrong next.  It ges us down, and affects our overall well state of mind.  I have seen and heard that we should not ask God not to put challenges in our way, rather we should pray for the ability to overcome them.

This is something that I do agree with.  We will never see any personal growth or progress if we have no problems or challenges.  Challenges or problems bring out the very best in people.  We have witnessed this lately in the horrific happenings of this past week, everyday people did heroic things.  This isn't a once in a while thing, it is an everytime thing that we witness.  Every person has the ability to overcome almost all of the problems and challenges in life.  There are a few that we can't completely overcome, I am talking about things like death and taxes!

Seriously, we really need to change our attitude if we wish to attain happiness.  We don't have the attitude where we feel like we're being picked on, or singled out with the problems that arise.  It is really up to us, we can develope an attitude where we look at problems as opportunities for growth.  We really can choose to be happy.  We can be optimistic when facing problems!

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Comments(21)

Carol Zingone
Berkshire Hathaway Home Services Florida Network Realty - Jacksonville Beach, FL
Global Realtor in Jax Beach, FL - ABR, CRS, CIPS
Absolutely true: our attitude and how we talk to ourselves are the two most important factors in how we handle our daily hurdles.
Apr 20, 2013 02:51 AM
MichelleCherie Carr Crowe .Just Call. 408-252-8900
Get Results Team...Just Call (408) 252-8900! . DRE #00901962 . Licensed to Sell since 1985 . Altas Realty - San Jose, CA
Family Helping Families Buy & Sell Homes 40+ Years

Solving problems is our true value in my opinion.

Apr 20, 2013 06:33 AM
Donna Foerster
HomeSmart Realty Group - Parker, CO
Metro Denver Real Estate Assistant

Tony & Darcy~ While I was reading your post, I was thinking about the law of attraction. I believe that when you are thinking negative (problem) thoughts, more negative will follow. Whereas if you thing positive (challenge) more positive activity will follow.

Apr 20, 2013 01:52 PM
Toni Weidman
Sailwinds Realty - Trinity, FL
20+ Years Selling Homes in New Port Richey, FL

Challenges are what make us stronger and smarter, Tony. I love this post and suggested it. The photograph is lovely too.

Apr 20, 2013 10:13 PM
Yolanda Cordova-Gilbert
Richmond, TX

Tony and Darcy,

                I love thisblog. I am a HUGE believer in attitude. You are correct there are some people that are just negative, everything is a problem and not is not a healthy way to view things. I am pretty lucky I seem to have a pretty optimistic outlook of life and I have faced challenges in my life but it makes me who I am and I like me!

Apr 21, 2013 04:03 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

Tony and Darcy, if more people went through life recognizing the glass as half full and not half empty, life would be easier. I have heard people say that God only gives big problems to people that can handle them

Apr 21, 2013 04:33 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Tony & Darcy, Life is too short to be anything else but happy! While we all face challenges that may set us back or a good lesson learned, it is our innerworks that continue to push us forward. Here we GO! Thank you for the uplifting post to read on this fine Sunday!

Apr 21, 2013 04:49 AM
Ginger Harper
Coldwell Banker Sea Coast Advantage~ Ginger Harper Real Estate Team - Southport, NC
Your Southport~Oak Island Agent~Brunswick County!

I love this philosophy. 

Don't worry..be Happy.

Solve the problems so that they go away..

 

 

Apr 21, 2013 05:11 AM
Tony & Darcy Cannon
Aubrey and Associates Realty - Layton, UT
The C Team

Tammy, That is a great attitude!

Carol, That is another great thing to remember!

Michelle, That is why they pay us!

Toni, That is so true, without challenges, we would have no growth.

Yolanda, It is so important to have a good attitude!

Ed, Thanks for that, it is very very true most of the big problems go to those with the capacity to solve them.

Wanda, Thank you!

Apr 21, 2013 05:13 AM
Tony & Darcy Cannon
Aubrey and Associates Realty - Layton, UT
The C Team

Ginger, Thank you for stopping by, it is important to solve problems as they come up!

Apr 21, 2013 05:15 AM
Retired from ActiveRain
Baker, OR

Tony & Darcy: Essentially a business exists to solve problems for which people are willing to pay money to have their problems solved.  The problem solvers are those who create value for themselves and their employers.  I've often thought that the most valuable course a college student could take is one where they're given a series of problems that they have to solve using only their creative intellect, research skills, and available resources.  Problem solving is a critical skill, especially for entrepreneurs (which real estate agents and loan originators essentially are).

Apr 21, 2013 05:33 AM
Dan Tabit
Keller Williams Bellevue - Sammamish, WA

Hi Tony & Darcy,

It's much easier to see other peoples problems as challenges we can help them overcome. When it's our problems, it can feel like they are real problems.  You are right, it's our attitude and the conviction that whatever it is, we will overcome it.

Apr 21, 2013 06:17 AM
Karen Kruschka
RE/MAX Executives - Woodbridge, VA
- "My Experience Isn't Expensive - It's PRICELESS"

Tony and Darcy  Congrats on the feature - you really nailed it on the subject of attitude.  Over thry years we have had our challenges and have always relied on attitudinal change to work through it

Apr 21, 2013 07:06 AM
Rene Fabre
ARFCO Media - Renton, WA
Practicing Philosophical Eclectic of the Arts

Great post! I'm a big believer in happiness is a choice, not circumstances. When my kids were small, and as all small kids are at times, not so happy, I use to tell them... "It's a lot more fun when your having fun." Congrats on the feature!

Apr 21, 2013 07:46 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

It's always about attitude and happiness is an attitude and a choice! No one can be responsible for another's happiness, it comes from within.

Apr 21, 2013 08:15 AM
Eric Michael
Remerica Integrity, Realtors®, Northville, MI - Livonia, MI
Metro Detroit Real Estate Professional 734.564.1519

I've been doing a lot of changing lately, to make myself happier. Great post.                

Apr 21, 2013 09:42 AM
Pamela Seley
West Coast Realty Division - Murrieta, CA
Residential Real Estate Agent serving SW RivCo CA

Great post, our jobs definitely make us problem solvers, so problems aren't really problems just challenges we can overcome or fix. Thanks for your post today,

Apr 21, 2013 04:15 PM
Christine Donovan
Donovan Blatt Realty - Costa Mesa, CA
Broker/Attorney 714-319-9751 DRE01267479 - Costa M

Tony and Darcy - I think you're right that it does come down to attitude.

Apr 21, 2013 04:29 PM
Carolyn Kolba
Serving Mentor, and all of Lake County, Ohio - Mentor, OH
Keller Williams Realty- Mentor, Ohio

I think that in serving others we can truly achieve happiness.  Sure, it is a challenge, but the sharing of happiness is a much greater and more satisfying goal.

Apr 21, 2013 05:33 PM
Charles Stallions
Charles Stallions Real Estate Services - Pensacola, FL
850-476-4494 - Pensacola, Pace or Gulf Breeze, Fl.

So many good suggestions from the post and comments, I always say follow the golden rule

Apr 23, 2013 09:19 PM