"If a Child Washed His Hands..."

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Child Washing Hands

Over coffee this morning, I was reading the novel Things Fall Apart by Chinua Achebe.  As I enjoyed my Traverse City Cherry dark roast, I came across the following quote in the book:

"If a child washed his hand, he could eat with kings."

What a marvelous proverb!  It's a simple adage, but the implications are far-reaching... It goes beyond mere dinner etiquette, of course.  Certainly, it's best to have clean hands in the presence of kings.  But even kings should wash their hands before sitting down to the dinner table.  Given the washing of hands as both a ritual and universal act, then, the quote promotes a sense of egalitarianism.

In a business context, I would put it this way: If I know my products and services, if I prepare for a meeting or presentation, and if I act ethically, I am just as deserving of business as anyone else in the industry.  If I am but a commercial business development officer for Stewart Title, as long as I "wash my hands," I am entitled to sit with CEO's, company presidents and corporate officers and enjoy a working relationship.  That African proverb, so elementary on its surface, is a very inspiring source of confidence.

I remind my kids to wash their hands before dinner all the time.  The next time I do so, I will reflect on what those words may entail.  In my house, however, it's not the king who rules- It's the queen!  :)

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Kathy Streib
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Andrew- we can learn so much just by reading!  and, very astute of you to know the real and actual ruler of your house. 

May 15, 2013 03:13 AM #10
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May 15, 2013 03:39 AM #11
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Goodafternoon Andrew. What a lovely and insightful pst this is. You are right...we could dine with kings and on so many levels this is true.

May 15, 2013 04:14 AM #12
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Andrew Capelli
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Mike: Thank you- Have a great day as well!  :)

Rebecca: Thank you!  Yes, I know my place- It keeps the peace!  :)

Kathy: I agree- it's why reading is one of my favorite pasttimes.  And yes, it's good to know who's really in charge!  :)

Marti: Thank you!  Always an honor!  :)

Sheila: Thank you so much for the kind feedback!  :)

May 15, 2013 04:20 AM #13
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Nancy Laswick
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Andrew, I love this proverb...  as young children we have a naive unrepressed courage that seems to weaken as we learn our "place". Congrats on another Feature!

May 15, 2013 05:13 AM #14
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Andrew Capelli
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Thank you, Nancy, both for the feedback and the congrats!  :)

May 15, 2013 05:22 AM #15
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Andrew,

Great post!  Awesome proverb.  I will use it next time I'm asked for a positive quote.

 

May 15, 2013 05:39 AM #16
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Preparation and presentation in a good sense will take you a long way in life Andrew. Great reminder with the washing of the hands...

May 15, 2013 06:08 AM #17
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Great Analogy and so inspiring! Thank You Andrew!

May 15, 2013 06:31 AM #18
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Thank you - I will remember this proverb and your analogy the next time I feel intimidated by a 'king' or 'queen'.

May 15, 2013 08:27 AM #19
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I didn't know where you were going with the "Wash your hands" , so curiosity got me... I LOVE IT!

May 15, 2013 09:01 AM #20
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Wayne & Jean Marie: Thank you- I'm glad you like it!

Gary: Agreed- Thanks for the feedback!

Tamra: You're welcome- Thank you for the kind words!

Joetta: Thank you, and no need to be intimidated!  :)

Sheri: Thanks- I'm glad you enjoyed it!  :)

May 15, 2013 09:40 AM #21
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Very well said my friend! You are certainly deserving of all the business that comes your way. As we work in an honorable way, good things will happen.

May 15, 2013 10:50 AM #22
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Andrew:  A great story about a great proverb.  Very true.  But also, you seem like a very wise man... if for only one reason.  That reason would be the very last thing you said in your post... LOL.  It's the Queen who rules!

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I think my favorite line in your post is: "Given the washing of hands as both a ritual and universal act, then, the quote promotes a sense of egalitarianism." Not all kings and subjects see it that way, of course. Thanks for your post today, loved it.

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Andrew - That's an interesting way to look at things, and it makes sense.

May 15, 2013 04:29 PM #25
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Joe: Thank you so very much!  :)

Karen Anne: My wife would agree with you!  :)

Pamela: You're welcome, and thank you for the feedback!

Christine: Old proverbs definitely can provide some interesting food for thought!

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And I'm sure the Queen reminds the children to do that too, Andrew. Those people back then knew all the good stuff.

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Andrew -

As always, a very purposeful well written blog jam packed with integrity.  Thanks for reminding us of our manners for food and business.

May 20, 2013 08:13 AM #28
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Andrew Capelli
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Toni: Indeed she does!  :)

Cathy: Thank you so much for the kind feedback!  :)

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