Ten Tips to Be More Likable
(Written slightly tongue in cheek, just in case you can't tell!)
I recently received an email from Nova Home Loans here in Tucson with tips we could share with our friends and colleagues. Of course the first thing that came to my mind was, "Well, if I'm not likeable...do I HAVE any friends???"
The second thought I had was, "Maybe I should share this with everyone I know!!!"
Seriously though, perhaps we can all strive to be a little bit more in a me-me world.
Here's some of the pointers Nova shared:
1. Be known for a positive attitude.
That makes me think about the few folks I know that are known for their NEGATIVE attitudes.... it's a strong trait...and a sunny attitude is certainly something to aspire to!
2. Be passionate about what you're doing.
I totally hear this one. It brings to mind the ticket taker at the parking lot at Tucson International Airport...or the happy checker at Fry's, or even the smiling ADOT worker taking my license registration (which tripled) from my Wisconsin fees when I first moved here in 2000. "That's the price of sunshine!" she blurted when I exclaimed at the price.
...I've never forgotten her happy tone, and it makes me notice MORE happy people who enjoy their jobs, and brighten others' because of it.
3. Have a good sense of humor. (or have ANY sense of humor)
4. Assume the best in people, especially in front of others. (Doesn't that make you think a bit)
5. Be known for your ability to adapt.
One of my former jobs before real estate was a very lovely place of employment in almost all aspects. However, there were a lot of teams and committees. I can't tell you how many times I heard, "But that's the way we've always done it!" Think about that. If we didn't adapt, where would the computers, technology, communication, and so forth be right now... Thank goodness for adaptability and vision!!!
6. Have good manners... (Do you believe in the Golden Rule?")
7. Have good grooming.
8. Have good language.
Unfortunately, spell check can't fix everything. I remember the first time I worked with clients that had doctorate degrees, and actually had two children that were...rocket scientists. Yes. Really. I was terrified that something stupid would come out of my mouth. I became a really good listener because of it. I talked when I could add something of value.
Funny thing is, those clients are friends now. :) I recently confessed my fears to them. :)
9. Be humble.
10. This one I added myself. Don't be a whiner. Remember the laws of attraction, and what we like in others.
Reflecting on this list, I figure not only can we be more likeable if we keep these tips in mind...but we can be more successful as well. At the very least...we can FEEL better about ourselves with a positive attitude and being.
