Why Should a Home Seller Pay the Buyer's Closing Costs?

By
Real Estate Agent with Boardman Realty Minnesota License#90858

Sellers are excited about being in the driver's seat again...yes, it is a sellers market in the Minneapolis/St Paul north metro again. When I do a market analysis on a home for a potential home seller, I give always net sheet of estimated of closing costs associated with closing the sale of the home.

One of the items on the list is “Seller contribution to the Buyer’s Closing Costs.” This particular cost doesn't sit well with most homeowners. Every now and again,  a seller will verbally scoff and say something to the effect of, “My own closing costs are high enough. Why would I want to contribute to the BUYERS too?”
 
But even in this seller's market, the answer is quite simple:
So they can BUY your house!

Today most buyers are required to put down a minimum of 3-5% of the purchase price of the home as a down payment. The closing costs for a buyer include title insurance, home owner’s insurance, appraisals, loan origination fees, name search fees, filing fees and more. As a REALTOR® in the communties throughout Anoka County and the north metro Twin Cities, I see these closing costs will run anywhere from $6000-$8000 for a first time buyer. Couple this amount with a required down payment and few buyers have the funds to purchase a home. 

It's not just first time buyers that need the help either. Many move up buyers are getting out of their small starter homes that they purchased just before the housing market downturn. The market has recovered enough now that these families can break even at best. They don't have a huge down payment, but want to make the move up to a larger home so they often ask for closing cost assistance from the seller to make the deal work.

The bottom line is: homebuyers have the option of waiting and saving for additional closing costs or asking for seller assistance. In many cases a financial institution will allow a seller to assist a buyer by paying either points to reduce the interest rates and/or closing costs.

How does this work? Let’s say that a home is on the market for $200,000. The buyer writes their offer for $195,000 and their financial institution allows up to 3% seller’s assistance with fees and closing costs. They decide to ask the seller in their purchase agreement document for $5000, thus the net offer to the seller for the home is $190,000. 

 

If a seller does not want to pay the closing costs, the buyer in many cases will not be able to purchase the home. It the offer is accepted, the seller’s proceeds at closing would then be reduced by the $5000. Sellers do not have to come up with the funds in cash if there is sufficient equity in the home to cover both the buyer's and the seller's costs.

When an offer comes in on a home, it is sometimes confusing to sellers what the sale price versus net number is. In the case above, the $195,000 would be the sale’s price on the purchase agreement but by paying the $5000 in closing costs, the seller’s net number is really $190,000 less the seller's own closing costs including all fees and commission.
 
If as a seller you decide to counter on the original offer, you can counter on the sales price of the home or the amount of closing costs paid. When counter offers are involved, a seller needs to make certain that they understand what the net proceeds will be in each offer and counter offer.

This is where the assistance of an experienced, professional
REALTOR® comes into play. As a real estate agent, I provide my clients with a seller's net sheet that outlines all costs and fees that has been updated after receiving the offer. When counter offers start going back and forth, I reiterate at each step what my seller's net number to help eliminate the confusion.


Assisting a buyer with closing costs can be the ticket to getting your home even in a seller driven real estate market. Understanding the process is simple with the assistance of a knowledgable real estate agent!

Posted by

Teri Eckholm. REALTOR with Boardman Realty, is a native Minnesotan who has lived and worked in the Minneapolis St Paul metro all of her life. She specializes in lakeshore homes, acreage properties and first time home buyers but assists anyone making a move in the north and east Twin Cities metro.

If you are buying, selling or relocating to Minnesota and need help from a professional REALTOR®, give Teri , a call or visit her website for a FREE Home Buyer Success Guide or FREE Home Value Report She specialize in acreage and lakeshore properties in the north and east Twin Cities metro area including Ham Lake, Lino Lakes and all communities in the Forest Lake School District! Serving Anoka, Chisago, Ramsey and Washington Counties in Minnesota.

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Comments (44)

Lyn Sims
RE/MAX Suburban - Schaumburg, IL
Schaumburg Real Estate

I'm really with Charita on this but I know that it is still required in some circumstances.  I think that prices get inflated & then there is a possiblity that the house won't appraise.  We just came out of a time when all our area foreclosures were paying 3 points so buyers figured everyone had to - not the case!

Jun 05, 2013 10:51 PM
Larry Lawfer
YourStories Realty Group powered by Castles Unlimited® - Newton, MA
"I listen for a living." It's all about you.

Teri,  I have never had any of my Seller's pay any of the closing costs, but tomorrow is another day and so I guess I can expect it from reading this and the comments.  All deals are quirky and it really is the parties included that make the rules.  As Realtors® and professional real estate people we just try to make it easy and work for our communities.  Thanks for the post.

Jun 05, 2013 10:59 PM
Alyse "Aly" Sands
AGORA Realty - Nashville, TN
It's Good To Be Home

Not to mention that the seller can write off seller-paid buyer closing costs (advising to confirm with a tax professional).  :)

Jun 05, 2013 11:09 PM
Karen Rice
Joseph J. O'Brien REALTOR Inc. - Greentown, PA
Northeast PA & Lake Wallenpaupack Home Sales

Here we do "seller assist" which allows the buyers to roll up to 6% of the sale price into their mortgage to cover the closing costs.  The seller doesn't have to pay anything.    The only catch is that the house must appraise for the "inflated" price - the agreed upon price plus the 6% closing costs. The buyer keeps more $$ in their pocket and has only a small increase of the monthly payment....the seller gets to keep more of the proceeds from the sale. Makes perfect sense to me.  

Jun 05, 2013 11:14 PM
Brad Weber
AA Realty - Eagan, MN
Awesome post! Sellers remember their last sale, and when it was 20+ years ago, things have changed. Buyers have adapted to need these paid, so it is the new normal.
Jun 05, 2013 11:42 PM
Kristin Hamilton CA Realtor
Sun Lakes Realty - Banning, CA
(909) 557-6966- Specialize 55+ Communties Banning

Hi Teri,

I am with Charita too on this issue. Buyers should save the money to put down on their loan and pay their own closing costs in escrow. They sometimes see the seller as deep pockets. If my sellers agree, great and go for it and if not, wait for a buyer not asking for sellers contribution.

Jun 05, 2013 11:48 PM
Bob Willis
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Orange, CA
Orange County & L.A. County Real Estate Agent

My area is experiencing an extremely strong Sellers' Market.  Gone are the days when sellers will pay buyers' closing costs.  Now, the buyers who really want to buy a home are paying the sellers' closing costs.  After your buyers have lost out on a half dozen bids, you might want to suggest that they make the strongest offer they can by paying a portion of the sellers' escrow costs.

Jun 06, 2013 12:29 AM
Jan Green
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

It's always a great idea to provide that net sheet and manage expectations up front.  Think I'll start doing that so we can get different scenarios of what to expect.  Great post!

Jun 06, 2013 01:26 AM
Michael J. O'Connor
Diamond Ridge Realty - Corona, CA
Eastvale - 951-847-4883

Like others have said, I'm finding buyer closing costs to be a no-go in our current market.  There seem to be enough cash and/or well-heeled buyers who can pay their own closing costs.  With our prices up so much, the bigger constraint is on the appraisal so an offer that's a little bit higher but the seller pays some closing costs is just not as good as an offer a little lower without the closing cost credit, all else being equal.

Jun 06, 2013 01:27 AM
Gene Riemenschneider
Home Point Real Estate - Brentwood, CA
Turning Houses into Homes

In this market sellers generally do not have to pay closing cost.  If you don't have the cash to cover it you are not in the running.

Jun 06, 2013 02:07 AM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro

Hi All,

Thanks for your comments!

As usual, my posts are written for Homebuyers & Sellers in my market which is the Minneapolis/St Paul north metro. There are many communities that are almost exclusively first time homebuyers who NEED closing costs paid by the sellers to make the deal work. In some cases, they will offer more than the asking price to cover these costs and the home will have to appraise for the higher value.

As an agent, I try to explain to my selling clients, they are not really giving money away. The buyers are actually financing their closing costs. If the seller is happy with the net number, they shouldn't be too concerned unless the home does not appraise.

Yes in some areas of the US, seller paid closing costs are a thing of the past, they are often used in Minnesota to get the deal done with a WIN-WIN on both sides!

Thanks again to all that have commented.

Jun 06, 2013 02:29 AM
Terry McCarley
Coastal Real Estate - Cape Coral FL - Cape Coral, FL
REALTOR, SRES, CDPE - Cape Coral, FL

I'm with Charita (#24) on this subject.  Sellers in my area do not like the idea of contributing towards the buyers closing cost and it is very rare that I ever see a seller agree to do so unless the buyer pays over asking price which of course can result in the home not appraising for enough. 

Jun 06, 2013 02:32 AM
Sharon Parisi
United Real Estate Dallas - Dallas, TX
Dallas Homes

Sellers I have worked with have not been trilled with buyers asking for a seller's contribution to closing costs. In the minds of many sellers is the thought that a buyer who cannot afford the closing costs, cannot afford to purchase and maintain the property.

Jun 06, 2013 02:43 AM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro

Remember Real Estate is LOCAL. Contributions do help in our area and when sellers are well prepared for the possibility, it is a WIN-WIN situation.

Jun 06, 2013 02:48 AM
Sandra Paulow
Aspen Properties, Inc. - Pinetop Lakeside, AZ
REALTOR, Associate Broker, GRI, SFR

I have to say I don't necessarily agree with this article.  I know that many buyers are being priced out of the market because of the down payment and closing costs associated with acquiring financing, but I don't agree that a seller should have to buy the home for the buyer. 

I don't argue with a reasonable amount of closing costs paid by the seller, but I recently had an offer on one of my listings that had all those costs on the seller's side.  Sellers are still struggling with getting a fair market price for their homes to begin with because of conservative appraisals.  To ask the seller to take a huge hit on their net sheet on top of that by absorbing the buyer's closing costs is really unreasonable. 

IMO if a buyer can't pay at least 3.5 to 5% down plus the majority of their own closing cost they probably aren't really in a position to buy.  Why should the seller have to contribute upwards or 20K in costs and commission to allow a buyer to buy a home.  That is unreasonable as far as I'm concerned. 

Jun 06, 2013 03:37 AM
Larry and Marilyn Mennetti
FIVE STAR REAL ESTATE - East Grand Rapids, MI

THE ONLY NUMBER ON A SELLERS NET SHEET THAT MEANS ANYTHING, WHEN ALL IS SAID AND DONE, IS THE NUMBER AT THE BOTTOM. THE NUMBER AT THE TOP IS THE "WISH LIST" NUMBER....THE BOTTOM OF THE PAGE IS THE REALITY ...AND IT SHOULD BE VERY CLOSE TO THE NUMBER ON THE NET SHEET YOU GAVE THEM WHEN YOU LISTED THEIR HOME. IF YOU HAD IT PRICED RIGHT....NOT A WISH LIST PRICE...

 

Jun 06, 2013 04:11 AM
Kimo Jarrett
WikiWiki Realty - Huntington Beach, CA
Pro Lifestyle Solutions

I'm personally against offers with sellers assistance, if the buyer is unable to purchase the home without assistance, why write up the offer, unless the seller has already agreed to those terms (if it should arise) at the time of taking the listing.

Jun 06, 2013 06:15 AM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro

Hello again everyone!

I do appreciate your comments. However, I would like to remind you this is a LOCALISM post to explain to MINNESOTA sellers why a buyer might ask for closing costs AND why they should consider paying them if the NET number works for the seller. The offer could actually be for more than the list price. Please remember that not all markets are the same. I respect that you might not agree with this scenerio but it is very common in the market in which I work.

Sandra--I have to answer you directly...All real estate is local. In our market, I have never seen any buyer ask for more than $9,000 and that amount was negotiated down by a few thousand. The norm is a reasonable $5,000-$7,000 for a first time buyer (or move up buyer that broke even on the sale of their home).

Jun 06, 2013 07:23 AM
Wayne B. Pruner
Oregon First - Tigard, OR
Tigard Oregon Homes for Sale, Realtor, GRI

 

Your last sentence goes to the crux of the matter. Craft your counter so the Buyer gets this assistance. They probably need it.

Dec 16, 2013 12:24 PM
Inna Ivchenko
Barcode Properties - Encino, CA
Realtor® • Green • GRI • HAFA • PSC Calabasas CA

Well, if a buyer and a seller wants to make it work, they are willing to negotiate ( especially since Sellers have some significant tax advantages). 

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