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Communication Could Prove To Be A Problem…..#2

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Mortgage and Lending with George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages NMLS #65149

 Two months ago I wrote a Post “Communication Could Prove To Be A Problem”, about a hearing impaired Borrower that one of the Realtors that I work with referred me to.  Since then I have communicated with this Borrower several times by e-mail, and we even scheduled three appointments during this time.  Each time she did not show up for the appointment, and did not contact me until two to three days later to tell me she was not able to keep the appointment because of a family situation.

Well today we finally met, and the meeting was very different that what I had expected.  One of the reasons why she had not kept the previous appointments was because she was going to come with her daughter so that se could sign for me, and relay what her mother was signing to me.  I did not mind her not showing up for our prior appointments, because of this.  I felt that her daughter would be a big help to the two of us, even though her daughter is only 11 years old.  Communicating with someone who is hearing impaired, was something that I have not had much of an experience at, and I was a little nervous about it.

So today when we finally met at my office, and her daughter was not with her I was more than a little concerned, especially when she started to speak to me.  Her speech was very hard to understand, and very hard to follow what she was trying to say.  So I sat her down next to me by my computer where she could see the Loan Application on the monitor.  By having her next to me I could point to what I needed to know on the monitor, and she in turn could write down the information that I needed.  As difficult as her speech was to understand, her handwriting was the complete opposite, it was very easy to read.

We got through the Loan Application and I ran her credit.  It was not good, but I have seen a lot worst.  The things that were causing the credit problems can be quickly fixed.  These were credit issues that should only take one to two months to correct.  She has enough money to clear up these credit issues, and for a downpayment.  Once these issues are corrected her Credit Scores should increase 50 to 60 points, and she will qualify for a conventional loan.  It was not easy to explain to her what she needed to do, and I had to do some writing myself in trying to explain to her what I was trying to say.  Unfortunately for her my handwriting is no where as neat as hers, in fact you might say it looks like I write with my toes.  But we got through it and she understood.  I made her write back to me what she thought I was trying to explain to her.  However, when we meet again I am going to make sure that either her daughter is there, or I will bring a friend of mine that knows how to sign.

I do not have any doubts that she will quickly do what I told her, because she is very motivated to correct these issues.  She is motivated because she wants to move back to New Hampshire, and purchase a piece of property where she can teach hearing impaired children to ride horses.  This is a true passion of hers, and it would earn her some income, while at the same time being able to help others who share the same disability.

I was really encouraged by this meeting, and hope to help her achieve her dream.  Hopefully I will have her ready to start looking for a property in about three to four months.  At that time I will try to find her a Realtor in New Hampshire that would like to take on the challenge of working with her, and help her fulfill her dream.  This meeting today did not result in a Loan, but it was a great way to start my week.

 

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George Souto is a Loan Officer who can assist you with all your FHA, CHFA, and Conventional mortgage needs in Connecticut. George resides in Middlesex County which includes Middletown, Middlefield, Durham, Cromwell, Portland, Higganum, Haddam, East Haddam, Chester, Deep River, and Essex. George can be contacted at (860) 573-1308 or gsouto@mccuemortgage.com

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Comments(21)

Linda Davis
RE/MAX Home Team - Gales Ferry, CT
What a nice story!   Sounds like she was very lucky to find someone as caring and patient as you.  Great job!
Jan 22, 2007 01:18 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert
Linda, thank you.  It was a good experience for me and I think that she felt comfortable with me.  Before she left she really started to open up and talking about her kids.  It was funny because by that point I think I was actually starting to understand her better.
Jan 22, 2007 01:26 PM
Dena Stevens
Rocky Mountain Realty - Canon City, CO
Putting The Real Into Realtor Since 2004
George, my sister is finishing her American Sign Language Certification in Oklahoma City. She's nervous about getting out into the world and working in situations like this. Although qualified there is still room for mistakes. She's actually gotten a job on campus peer teaching to students who are hearing impared. She is hoping the extra time will allow her more real life experiences. What from Paula has told me it is a completely different way of communicating. If you dissect sign language and write it down word per word you would get a sentence that would be difficult for us to understand. Congrats on helping, somebody else may not have taken the time .
Jan 22, 2007 01:34 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert
Dena, that is so true.  Her e-mails were hard sometimes to understand because like you said the sentences were sometimes structured differently.
Jan 22, 2007 01:48 PM
Randy L. Prothero
eXp Realty - Hollister, MO
Missouri REALTOR, (808) 384-5645
I remember your previous blog.  What a great experience.  I got in to this business to help people.  You are demonstrating your willingness to do that.
Jan 22, 2007 05:02 PM
Jennifer Fivelsdal
JFIVE Home Realty LLC | 845-758-6842|162 Deer Run Rd Red Hook NY 12571 - Rhinebeck, NY
Mid Hudson Valley real estate connection
Great Job .  I had the opportunity to work with a hairing impaired buyer and I agree communication could be difficult at time. I  Learn to look right at him so he could read my lips and I could understand him if I too looked at him and read his lip.  Most times his parents came along so that too was a great help.  I managed to find him the home of his dreams and I have kept in touch.  This is one of those buying experience I cherished.
Jan 22, 2007 10:50 PM
Bryant Tutas
Tutas Towne Realty, Inc and Garden Views Realty, LLC - Winter Garden, FL
Selling Florida one home at a time
Good job George, It's a very frustrating situation when we are not able to communicate freely. Gives you a feeling of what she deals with everyday.
Jan 22, 2007 11:43 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Randy, some things you don't do for the money, there is more to life than that.  I am glad that we have a similar outlook on this business.

Jennifer, I think that just like you, this will also be one of those experiences that I will remember for a long time.

Bryant, so true.  It is hard to understand what a person who is hearing impaired goes through until you face similar communication problems. 

Jan 23, 2007 11:32 AM
Eli Magen
New World Mortgages,(Mortgage Company) - Orlando, FL
This is a great story, George. No doubt it is so much of a different experience, and by all means we always should let these people feel comfortable near by us, communicate, write and re-explain whenever needed.
Jan 23, 2007 02:02 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert
Eli, I think that being side by side looking at the same thing on the screen helped the both of us.
Jan 23, 2007 02:40 PM
Carole Cohen
Howard Hanna Cleveland City Office - Cleveland, OH
Realtor, ePRO
This is truly an awesome experience and I agree, she was lucky to have you. I love her goal, and I know you will help make it happen!
Jan 23, 2007 02:46 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert
Carole, I hope that I can get her into a position to accomplish her dream. she could really use a break in life.
Jan 24, 2007 01:02 PM
Ed Rybczynski
Integrity Real Estate - Havre de Grace, MD
Your Source for Local Real Estate
Great job, George.  The world is a much better place when we advocate for each other, particularly the disabled, old and poor.
Jan 25, 2007 12:14 AM
Renee Kokoszka
Citizens First Financial - Park City, UT

George,

I'm glad I picked your blog to read to start out my day.  I have had a similar experience working with Spanish speaking citizens, which points to my disability or rather inability to speak fluently.   And I've recently tried to help a guy who has a $40K judgment from the IRS on his record, which might as well be a language or speech impediment in my book.  smile  We'll get there eventually but its just not an easy road.

I look forward to leaving home, getting my coffee and heading for work in the morning because I am excited to see what the day will bring me.  You never know who you will meet at the coffee shop, or who will need help with a loan in the course of the day.  That is the exciting part of our business!

Thanks for the inspiration.  I think I'll have to blog more about this later.........

Jan 25, 2007 12:37 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Ed, thank you for your comment.  Ed, my feeling is that we need to respect people regardless of their situation, or position in life, and when we get the opportunity to do a little extrat then we need to do it.

Renee, life is more than money, it is about doing the right thing. The greatest rewards that I have had in my life have not involved money.  Let me know when you post your blog so that I can stop by and read it.

Jan 25, 2007 05:12 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert
Craig, looks like you have been a busy man tonight spreading the message, I hope you are successful with it.
Jan 25, 2007 02:44 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert
Philp, a sign language translator would have been a big help, but we got through it OK, I just hope that she now does what we talked aboutl.
Jan 26, 2007 12:29 PM
Ray Saenz
Exit Realty Laredo - Laredo, TX
Homes for Sale in Laredo, TX - Texas, Realtor

Hey George,

Communication could be always a problem if it is not handled properly, of course it depends of situation, scenario and people, but a good communicator can save many troubles.

I like so much your blogs :)

 

Apr 05, 2007 03:41 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert
Ray, you are right good communication can save a lot of problems.  Most people think of language being the barrier, but there are others like the one in this Post.
Apr 06, 2007 12:40 AM
Jen Bowman
Keller Williams on the Water - Holmes Beach, FL
Realtor - Anna Maria Island & Bradenton FL

George, I'm glad you figured out a way to communicate.  I have a seller that lives out of state and has a thick foreign accent.  It is difficult for me to understand.  We seem to communicate best by email, that way nothing gets lost in the translation.

Oct 20, 2008 12:45 PM