Our Eyes Meet Across A Crowded Room . . .

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Real Estate Agent with Alain Pinel Realtors CA BRE 01914367

As the gap begins to close between us our minds begin to race, well at least mine does.  I wonder what am I doing in this situation?!  How did I get here and how on earth am I going to be effective in reaching you?

 

You see, my personality is introverted and by nature I'm not driven to start and maintain conversations.  It's not fear or shyness and I'm not conceited or even indifferent.  Actually, I want to know more about you and how we can get to know each other better.

 

There are so many studies, tests and more than enough pigeon-holing people into personality types that there's no need for me to even mention it.  So why did I?

 

Communication is key in establishing and maintaining any relationship.

 

Recognizing and respecting individual styles increases the chance of positive results.  I'm always listening with my ears and eyes as everything you say and do help me understand you better.

 

I find a smile is a great way to start.  It matters not if you are a buyer, seller, Realtor or my neighbor - let's get to know each other better.  Perhaps we can help each other some day. 

 

 

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WERC educational merlin falconIn case you're wondering what I do outside real estate, among other things, I'm a volunteer at the Wildlife Education and Rehabilitation Center (www.werc-ca.org).  There's something special about helping others whether people or wildlife that just makes me sleep better at night.

 

You'll find additional resources at my website aimed at helping you and loved ones find ideas and resources we can all use while going through life's journey.

 

Thank you for stopping by my blog and feel free to contact me if I can help you.

Comments (4)

Noah Seidenberg
Coldwell Banker - Evanston, IL
Chicagoland and Suburbs (800) 858-7917

It's true Rebecca Eye contact is as intense as you can get.

Jul 04, 2013 03:05 PM
Rebecca Foresee
Alain Pinel Realtors - Morgan Hill, CA
Let's foresee the possibilities . and get results!

Hi Noah,  Thank you for stopping by and commenting.  Perhaps one day everyone will understand that we're many things in addition to being Realtors.  Best to you and yours!

Jul 04, 2013 03:14 PM
Wayne Zuhl
Remax First Realty II - Cranford, NJ
The Last Name You'll Ever Need in Real Estate

Good morning Rebecca - Introverts like you and me do better when we have conversation starters. The fact that you volunteer with WERC would probaby give you lots of conversation fodder. 

Jul 04, 2013 11:08 PM
Rebecca Foresee
Alain Pinel Realtors - Morgan Hill, CA
Let's foresee the possibilities . and get results!

Good morning Wayne & Jean.  Working outside our comfort zone is important for all of us in order to grow.  Every day I push myself to be in a public place where interraction is necessary.  Everyone has something special to share.  Thank you for stopping by and commenting! 

Jul 04, 2013 11:37 PM

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