Alan Kirkpatrick
Austin Texas Homes - Round Rock, TX
Alan in Austin

Liam:

Nice post and good observation about changes in how we live in our homes. Have a great weekend. 

Aug 02, 2013 01:40 PM
Lenn Harley
Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Homes and Real Estate - Leesburg, VA
Real Estate Broker - Virginia & Maryland

Out door areas, patios, etc. is not the answer here.  Our weather is too hot/humid in summer and too cold in winter.

We do, however, have many smaller homes with expanded breakfast areas that have replaced the formal dining room.  With more open floor plans, the kitchen, breakfast, family room area is a comfortable replacement for the formal dining room.

A sun room off the kitchen often serves for dining also.  I do that.

Aug 02, 2013 08:34 PM
Debbie Gartner
The Flooring Girl - White Plains, NY
The Flooring Girl & Blog Stylist -Dynamo Marketers

Yes, we've been seeing the same thing here w/ more open floor plans and fewer dining rooms.  The emphasis is on kitchen and adjoining family room.  I also see this w/ remodeling, when people redo their kitchens.  I have not seen the trend in outdoor space due to both the weather and also oftem limit on space in our area.

Aug 02, 2013 09:08 PM
Michael Setunsky
Woodbridge, VA
Your Commercial Real Estate Link to Northern VA

Liam is it because families always seem to be on the run and don't eat together anymore? Kind of hard to eat a Turkey dinner on your lap while sitting in an easy chair in the family room in front of the TV.

Aug 02, 2013 10:12 PM
Cheryl Ritchie
RE/MAX Leading Edge www.GoldenResults.com - Huntingtown, MD
Southern Maryland 301-980-7566
You nailed this post in the last sentence. Great ending to a great post.
Aug 02, 2013 10:58 PM
Fernando Herboso - Broker for Maxus Realty Group
Maxus Realty Group - Broker 301-246-0001 - Gaithersburg, MD
301-246-0001 Serving Maryland, DC and Northern VA

I wish someone invent a revolving dining room. .combination for office space..push a button and there it is!

Aug 02, 2013 11:00 PM
Clay R. Seay
Florida Homes Realty & Mortgage - Saint Augustine, FL

The formal dining room has faded in popularity as consumers want the gathering room/open room concept. That being said there are lots of older homes where the Formal Dining room is the center of the home. When you need the room for holidays and family time, there is no better room in the house. Priceless.

Aug 02, 2013 11:10 PM
Jeff Stevens
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New Mexico Properties - Las Cruces, NM
Jeff Stevens, Associate Broker/REALTOR

Liam - the formal dining room is very rare here in the southwest particularly in new construction. As you indicated, it is all about the outdoor dining/entertaining. Although, in the summer time it's actually too hot to entertain outside...I'll stick with the comfort of my dining "area" in my air-conditioned home. Great post. 

Aug 02, 2013 11:17 PM
Jeanne Gregory
RE/MAX Southwest - Sugar Land, TX
The most important home I sell is YOURS!

I have a formal dining room that serves as storage for a dining room set that no one uses. 

Aug 02, 2013 11:33 PM
Andrew Mooers | 207.532.6573
MOOERS REALTY - Houlton, ME
Northern Maine Real Estate-Aroostook County Broker

Open porches for open air family therapy like The Waltons with gram shelling fresh peas and sharing some wisdom with Elizabeth, the other children still happens. Formal dining rooms used more than three holidays a year happen too. Dining areas off the kitchen is not family dining done slowly, enjoying the meal.

Aug 02, 2013 11:36 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

In today's society, formal dining doesn't fit in. I haven't seen builders wanting it either...good post

Aug 02, 2013 11:51 PM
Morris Massre
Pembroke Pines, FL
Real Estate Instructor Broward County Florida
Here in Florida the dining room has been all but abandoned. lets face it, people down here love to eat outside, even in this heat.
Aug 02, 2013 11:51 PM
Fred Hernden, CMI
Superior Home Inspections - Greater Albuquerque Area - Albuquerque, NM
Albuquerque area Master Inspector

Morris is right, here in Florida at least, both the formal living and dining rooms are pretty much wasted space!

Aug 03, 2013 12:10 AM
Bryan Robertson
Los Altos, CA

I see fewer formal dining rooms here in California but they're not going away for the reasons you state (holidays, etc).  Formal living is disappearing in mid-price homes but high-end still have them.  Even then, they're smaller and really just an afterthought in the floor plan.

Aug 03, 2013 12:19 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

I've been hearing this about formal dining and living rooms for years. If a great room is large enough, people will buy a house without a formal living room. However, when I've really pushed clients and asked if they would buy a home without a formal dining room (regardless of how they ultimately use it) the answer has always been no. I think they are here to stay for while even if homeowners don't use them much.

Aug 03, 2013 12:37 AM
Jane Chaulklin-Schott
TEAMCONNECT REALTY - (407) 394-9766 - Orlando, FL
TeamConnect Luxury Homes - Orlando, Florida, 32836
Formal dining rooms have more importance if a home has sufficient square feet. In our part of Florida, the great room, open floor plan wins out. More in favor of the casual shorts, a chip and a beer lifestyle.
Aug 03, 2013 01:04 AM
Chris and Dick Dovorany
Homes for Sale in Naples, Bonita Springs and Estero, Florida - Naples, FL
Broker/Associate at Premiere Plus Realty

Even in Florida we do have people who insist on a formal dining room.  I agree.  Even with outdoor space the weather, hot, cold, rain, snow etc just is not appropriate to plan anything outdoors.  We had a dinner party (burger, corn on the cob etc) last night.  One of the guests suggested we move outside.  When I opened the sliding doors everyone said, NO WAY!!!

Aug 03, 2013 01:12 AM
Matt Kombrink
RE/MAX All Pro - Saint Charles, IL
Your #1 Source For Real Estate

here in the Chicagoland area we're not seeing the same trend. I know I personally use my dining room every night with my family. Maybe it's the weather here but eating outside doesn't seem to be possible most of the year.a lot of sellers have dining room so elaborate but it does make me think that they don't ever eat in there.

Aug 03, 2013 01:40 AM
Gary Frimann, CRS, GRI
Eagle Ridge Realty / Signature Homes & Estates - Gilroy, CA
REALTOR and Broker

What I've seen happening is the disappearance of living rooms and the emergence of lofts/work/study areas.  Another thing that has disappeared is a wet bar.

Aug 03, 2013 01:49 AM
Michele Peterson
Sellstate Realty First - Roseville, CA
Sellstate Realty First

Funny, I am still seeing dining rooms, but living rooms have disappeared and been replaced by larger kitchens, another bedroom, office or a bathroom for every bedroom.  Personally, I would rather have less bathrooms and more "living" space.

Aug 03, 2013 02:17 AM
Than Maynard
Coldwell Banker Heart of Oklahoma - Purcell, OK
Broker - Licensed to List & Sell - 405-990-8862

We still have formal dining rooms, but I continually wonder why. Outdoor eating is rare here do to the heat and bugs, but the formal set up is just a rare. When I show and list homes with formal dinings they are often set up as offices or additional living space.

Aug 03, 2013 02:17 AM
Edward & Celia Maddox
The Celtic Connection Realty - Queen Creek, AZ
EXPERIENCE & INTEGRITY - WE TAKE THE HIGH ROAD

You are right.  You rarely see a formal dining room in a new home construction.

Aug 03, 2013 02:25 AM
Kathy Stoltman
Balboa Real Estate - Ventura, CA
Ventura County Real Estate Consultant 805-746-1793

My family has never been a big formal dining room bunch!

Aug 03, 2013 02:30 AM
Anne M. Costello
Weidel Realtors - Yardley, PA

Formal dining rooms are still a staple of new home construction here, but as families in smaller homes can attest, using a formal dining a couple of times a year can be wasted space. Sometime I see sellers have used the space as an office or a separate play area for the kids. MAybe we are all just getting more practical - adapting the square footage to changing needs.

 

 

Aug 03, 2013 03:12 AM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

I have a formal dining room and living room . . . which I never use.  But that's just me at my present lifestyle.  Years ago, YES they were used.  A home needs to provide the lifestyle of the current owner. 

Aug 03, 2013 04:29 AM
Georgie Hunter R(S) 58089
Hawai'i Life Real Estate Brokers - Haiku, HI
Maui Real Estate sales and lifestyle info

I hope this doesn't mean that traditional meals and cooking are becoming a thing of the past.

Aug 03, 2013 06:26 AM
Tom Bailey
Margaret Rudd & Associates Inc. - Oak Island, NC

Interesting post. We see a lot of large spaces that serve as living and eating areas.

Aug 03, 2013 08:28 AM
Carol Zingone
Berkshire Hathaway Home Services Florida Network Realty - Jacksonville Beach, FL
Global Realtor in Jax Beach, FL - ABR, CRS, CIPS
Outdoor living space is HUGE here in Jacksonville Beach, FL !
Aug 03, 2013 10:04 AM
Tom White
Franklin Homes Realty LLC (615) 495-0752 or www.FranklinHomesRealty.com - Franklin, TN
Franklin Homes Realty LLC, Franklin TN

In our area we still see dining rooms in new construction even at the mid level homes. We do see the elimination of "living rooms" in favor of open concept great rooms.  Terrific post!

Aug 03, 2013 10:13 AM
Joan Whitebook
BHG The Masiello Group - Nashua, NH
Consumer Focused Real Estate Services

It's amazing how things have changed.  Both formal living rooms and dining rooms are things of the past.  Instead a large kitchen with a "hand out" area opening in to a great room (instead of a living room) opening to the 4 season room.. .It is a new way of living.

Aug 03, 2013 11:51 AM
Jimmy Faulkner
Florida. Homes Realty & Mortgage - Wantagh, NY
The Best Of St. Augustine

An open floor plan generally does not include a Forma Dining Room. The kitchen is the centerpiece of any home and the bigger the kitchen the better the home. The kitchen is linked to the rest of the home. If it has a fireplace, WALLA! Kitchen is KING.

Aug 03, 2013 11:55 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
GreatWest Realty - Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Real Estate Agent

As much as I love the outdoor dining rooms that have become so popular in recent years, I would hate to see formal indoor dining disappear outright.  I will say however, I'm more fond of the great room concept which allows options for space usage in homes.  I have a large family, and when they come home for Thanksgiving dinner, outdoor dining isn't usually an option in late November.

Aug 03, 2013 12:06 PM
Tammie White, Broker
Franklin Homes Realty LLC - Franklin, TN
Franklin TN Homes for Sale

We are not seeing the demise of the formal dining room here. What you don't see here is the formal living room. Most homes have a great room or family room, whatever you prefer to call it. I, for instance, have a great room, eat-in kitchen and a formal dining room. But our dining room is casually furnished. More like something you would see in Pottery Barn than a formal room.

Aug 03, 2013 12:29 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

I find it is sad that the Formal Dining room is fading into the sunset along with family values and families staying together at least for one meal of the day.....I am still seeing a lot of Formal Dining Rooms in the high end market.,Endre

Aug 03, 2013 12:52 PM
Ralph Gorgoglione
Maui Life Homes / Metro Life Homes - Kihei, HI
Hawaii and California Real Estate (310) 497-9407
More open floor plans with island counters for informal get togethers is a hot ticket item; outdoor living areas also rank high.
Aug 03, 2013 01:09 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Both have their places but A nice breeze on a prorch on a pretty day does wonders! :)

 

Love and light,

Laura

Aug 03, 2013 01:43 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Georgina,

 

Meals are universal and forever im my opinion. :)

Aug 03, 2013 01:44 PM
MichelleCherie Carr Crowe Just Call...408-252-8900
Get Results Team...Just Call (408) 252-8900! . DRE #00901962 . Licensed to Sell since 1985 . Altas Realty - San Jose, CA
Family Helping Families Buy & Sell Homes 40+ Years

Clients who entertain on a grand scale still want a formal dining room; however many families like the open kitchen/dining concept.

Aug 03, 2013 04:54 PM
Christine Donovan
Donovan Blatt Realty - Costa Mesa, CA
Broker/Attorney 714-319-9751 DRE01267479 - Costa M
Liam -I think that there are far fewer people these days who at looking for formal dining, especially in smaller homes.
Aug 03, 2013 04:56 PM
Sally K. & David L. Hanson
EXP Realty 414-525-0563 - Brookfield, WI
WI Real Estate Agents - Luxury - Divorce

I guess it depends....the upper end of the price spectrum demands a formal dining room....many people prefer an open concept that is not likely to include one.

Aug 03, 2013 08:41 PM
Ed & Tracy Oliva
West USA Realty - Arizona - Fountain Hills, AZ
The Oliva Team Arizona Agents

God Morning:  Yes the formal dining room as come and now gone!!  Keep up the good Info and good luck with your sales,  E

Aug 03, 2013 10:09 PM
Marco Giancola
Beachfront Realty - Miami Beach, FL
Realtor (305)608-1922, Miami Beach Florida

Hi Liam, it can go right along with the never used formal living rooms! From my experience all that real estate only to be used for a few hours per year is a total waste!

Aug 03, 2013 10:23 PM
Michele Connors
The Overton Group, LLC Pitt & Carteret County - Greenville, NC
Your Eastern North Carolina Realtor

Out door entertaining is the best... and the interaction is so much more personal and relaxed. Throw in a game of cornhole and some music and you have a party !    You do have cornhole in Boise right  ??

Aug 03, 2013 11:11 PM
Margaret Mitchell
Coldwell Banker Yorke Realty - York, ME
Seacoast Maine & NH Real Estate

The limitation on outdoor space...  The weather!  Kind of like a swimming pool in Maine.  Unless it is indoors, it is a short season.

Aug 03, 2013 11:48 PM