I'm still working on closing one like you described. My seller was slow to respond and even got us out of contract. We got back under contract and still had issues. I should have it all wrapped up tomorrow. I told him I couldn't do this on my own, and I need him to play along, too.
People have their guard up to the extreme lately. I had a tenant that wanted to make an application on my rental listing. His agent called and explained that he didn't want to give his SSN or Driver's License number. He didn't want his identity open to theft. Well, it has to be open to a credit check if he wanted the rental.
Same goes for when I fill out a tax return. Don't lie and expect me to lie for you later when you get caught.
Bill, this is a probelm we have had for years. I will be doing things different once I get back into it.