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"UNITED" STATES OF AMERICA THE ONLY WAY IT WORKS

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Real Estate Agent with Weichert Referral Associates

   Politics and Faith are two of my favorite subjects and I do love to debate both of them. The problem is these are two area's in which "Everyone is always right".WE ALL HAVE ISSUES ON WHICH WE WILL NOT COMPROMISE. But that doesn't mean we should throw the baby out with the bathwater.

   If we would all stop yelling long enough to listen we may just find out that there are things which we do agree upon.

I am going to start by saying(although I intend to stand by my convictions) I appologize to anyone I may have offended because of the manner in which I stated them.

 We have a great country here and the only way we are ever going to get anything accomplished is by talking to each other. Maybe we as citizens can start, with the hope that Washington catches on.

So although I look foward to many more spirited debates I am making a no insult pledge and challenge everyone else to do the same.

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Judy Tuscano
Prudential Verani Realty - Nottingham, NH
NH Real Estate Professional
Hugh, We can always stand on our convictions but we do need to be willing to listen and respect the other persons opinion.
Feb 27, 2008 02:21 AM
Hugh Krone
Weichert Referral Associates - Hamburg, NJ
Realtor, Sussex County NJ
Judy, Exactly
Feb 27, 2008 02:30 AM
Broker Nick
South Florida Real Estate & Development, Inc. - Coconut Creek, FL
Broker Nick Relocation Broker Service
Hugh: I understand your concerns and I too agree, and made amends but we still need to stand up for our convictions, and we shall step on a few toes along the way.
Feb 27, 2008 03:10 AM
Fran Gaspari
Patriot Land Transfer, Inc. - Limerick, PA
"The Title Man" - Title Insurance - PA & NJ

Hugh,

I commend you for your stand. You CAN attack the message while all the while loving and respecting the Messenger!!! Thanks,   Fran

Feb 27, 2008 03:29 AM
Hugh Krone
Weichert Referral Associates - Hamburg, NJ
Realtor, Sussex County NJ
Fran I am in agreement Thanks for your comment
Feb 27, 2008 03:43 AM
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» Bill Burress Nationwide Mortgage Originator - Fort Myers, FL

Hugh:

What kind of happy pills are you taking?

Feb 27, 2008 04:07 AM
John Hersey
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Homesale Realty - York, PA
e-PRO Realtor

Good post Hugh,

It is a good reminder.  We can say (type) things without thinking sometimes.  Different personality styles don't help much either!

Feb 27, 2008 04:10 AM
Hugh Krone
Weichert Referral Associates - Hamburg, NJ
Realtor, Sussex County NJ

Bill Believe me i almost wish I was today

John, Its all good fun until its not anymore.

Feb 27, 2008 04:44 AM
Hugh Krone
Weichert Referral Associates - Hamburg, NJ
Realtor, Sussex County NJ
 Oh well seems like we didn't get to many votes for civility but I'm going to try to lead by example
Feb 27, 2008 01:55 PM
Simon Conway
Orlando Area Real Estate Services - Orlando, FL
Hugh - you have my vote. Of course it takes two to tango (possibly a British expression - I do that kind of thing all the time) and it is a little frustrating that sometimes the message itself is deleted by people who have no answer to it. I make it a point not to hurl insults and I don't believe I have ever done that in these pages. I will however, stand up loud and proud for what I believe in as I did today. My friend Bill - you know I'm talking about you - and it should be a reminder to everyone that we Conservatives are not sheep that all sing from the same hymn sheet (yes I love mixing metaphors as well!). We agree 95% of the time but I'll defend that 5% because I never write anything here I don't passionately believe in.
Feb 27, 2008 02:07 PM
Hugh Krone
Weichert Referral Associates - Hamburg, NJ
Realtor, Sussex County NJ
Simon we both know passionately does not have to mean nasty figured I could count on you
Feb 28, 2008 12:58 AM
Simon Conway
Orlando Area Real Estate Services - Orlando, FL
You are 100% correct Hugh. I wish there were more names in this comments section of this blog entry. It is an essential part of being an American I think.
Feb 28, 2008 04:07 AM
Susan Haughton
Long and Foster REALTORS (703) 470-4545 - Alexandria, VA
Susan & Mindy Team...Honesty. Integrity. Results.
Aw, Hugh, no insults?  That's half the fun!  JUST KIDDING.  Since libs tend to be a humorless lot, I guess you're right.  (Okay, okay, that's the last one, I promise).  I'm with you all the way.
Feb 28, 2008 04:51 AM
Broker Nick
South Florida Real Estate & Development, Inc. - Coconut Creek, FL
Broker Nick Relocation Broker Service

Sometimes telling the truth sounds "nasty" to the person who does not agree with your position. I feel if you are passionate you sometimes come across to the other party as aggressive.

Feb 28, 2008 06:06 AM
Susan Haughton
Long and Foster REALTORS (703) 470-4545 - Alexandria, VA
Susan & Mindy Team...Honesty. Integrity. Results.
Nicholas, you make an excellent point, particularly when you are "arguing" with someone who is armed not with facts, but only with 30 second soundbites and no particular knowledge.  They tend to get defensive once they have spewed all they know and are unable to advance their argument.
Feb 28, 2008 09:02 AM
Hugh Krone
Weichert Referral Associates - Hamburg, NJ
Realtor, Sussex County NJ
None of us are perfect but just trying not to insult others shouldmake a great diiference. If its only 75% of the time thats still a good start.
Feb 28, 2008 09:04 AM
Scott Smith
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - Gloucester, MA
Gloucester & Rockport, Massachusetts
Susan: Yes, that is generally how someone who listens to Rush, Hannity & BillO sees the world. Rather sad isn't it. We would all be much better off to LISTEN to one another and achieve common ground where possible, instead of following the rants of those who sole job is to continually antagonize. The right-wing rant-a-holics have a job only because they stir the pot instead of trying to bring us together. 
Feb 28, 2008 09:37 AM
Hugh Krone
Weichert Referral Associates - Hamburg, NJ
Realtor, Sussex County NJ
Well I see small progress but we have a ways to go
Feb 28, 2008 10:47 AM
Simon Conway
Orlando Area Real Estate Services - Orlando, FL
So close Scott, and yet so far all at the same time. Maybe you could try that again without the insults. That was, afterall, the purpose of this blog post.
Feb 28, 2008 10:51 AM
Scott Smith
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - Gloucester, MA
Gloucester & Rockport, Massachusetts
Simon: I was not insulting anyone. I was agreeing with Susan.
Feb 28, 2008 01:22 PM