What If I Answered the Phone Call?

Reblogger
Real Estate Agent with eXp Realty

If this isn't a wake up call, you may as well disconnect from reality all together.  Cell phone usage while driving, as well all know, can be hazardously to our lives but probably moreso to the lives of others. Step away from the cell while driving.  Whatever it is can wait.

Original content by Maria Gilda Racelis 0788174

It was my usual morning routine. The rush of adrenaline pumped into the bloodstream with a cup of coffee. I grabbed the leash from the side table and hooked it into the overly anxious doberman's collar waiting by the door.

The car key on one hand, and dog leash on the other. Seat belt strapped and I-phone sat on the cup holder. The dog stayed on the back seat.

My car backed out of the driveway then headed towards the nearest park for our morning walk. 

Half way down our destination, the phone rang while the car moved up after halting from a four-way stop sign.

I had this chronic habit of grabbing the phone from the cupholder to check the number displayed whenever it rang.

But on that moment, I did not pay attention nor looked down.

If I did, this is what could have happened: A girl riding a bike  could have been hit. There would be no singular effect for a singular cause. The effect may be a string of unwanted and unwelcome events: injury, spiked insurance premiums, cost of car repair, broken schedules and appointments, police record,  litigation, emotional havoc, etc.

When the car braked for full stop, her frightened face pierced through the glass window. 

Where on earth did she come from? My eyes moved 90 degrees to check both sides. I thought it was clear. 

But if on that very moment, I picked up the phone when it rang while the car inched its way forward, my life today could have taken a different course.

Yesterday's incident was a wake-up call. It likened the glaring rays of sun at it's peak smacked on my face.

What opportunity call could give me back the life that used to be if on that one instant, I did not do what I did?

 

 

 

                   

        

 

 

Comments (6)

Maria Gilda Racelis
Home Buyers Realty, LLC-Manchester, Bolton. Vernon,Ellington - Manchester, CT
Home Ownership is w/in Reach. We Make it Happen!

Good Morning Charita. Thank you for the re-blog. I hope this helps as a reminder to all of us.

Sep 11, 2013 11:59 PM
Charita Cadenhead
eXp Realty - Birmingham, AL
Serving Jefferson and Shelby Counties (Alabama)

Me too Maria.  Thank you for writing it.

Sep 12, 2013 12:09 AM
Donna Foerster
HomeSmart Realty Group - Parker, CO
Metro Denver Real Estate Assistant

Charita~ I do my best not to answer the phone when I'm driving unless it's my husband, one of my kids or a call from someone who is hard to get in touch with.

Sep 12, 2013 12:42 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate - St. George, UT
So Utah Residential, Referral & Relocation REALTOR

Charita, I read this and it gave me chills. Thankfully Maria was paying full attention to her surroundings. A woman pulled out in front of me today when I was going 65 miles per hour...crazy for her to think I can stop on a dime on wet roads!

Sep 12, 2013 10:23 AM
Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Charita

A cell-phone can be a big time distraction when your driving.

Good luck and success.

Lou Ludwig

Sep 12, 2013 11:11 AM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

I thought about that post today when I was driving and my cell phone rang.  I didn't look at it, or touch it -- not going to do that again.  Thanks for the re-blog,  Reminders about this type of thing can't happen enough, IMHO.

Sep 12, 2013 03:12 PM

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