Try A Dose Of Eye To Eye For Excellent Communication

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Real Estate Agent with Keller Williams Realty 0575737

Eye To EyeIn all our communication with personal and business relationships you can come to the state of, "What we have here is a failure to communicate." Sometimes I think good communication should be the easiest thing in the world and sometimes it is as difficult as climbing Mount Everest. Apply

Eye To Eye For Excellent Communication.

Now IT DOES take two to tango but ONE side can get in the face and get it done. The trick to being on the same page with someone is communicate EARLY, OFTEN, ALL THE TIME. Be proactive with your questions and thoughts and iron out differences, hurts, GET ON THE SAME PAGE.

Restate what people told you to see if you got it....

DID YOU GET IT? Or explain it back again. Ask at the end to smooth over hurt feelings, ARE WE GOOD NOW? Someone, one side has to be BRAVE in the communication and plow through walls and all sorts of invisible barriers that there may be to get to UNDERSTANDING, that same page thing. WITHOUT good communication and that two to tango thing, life in a relationship OF ANY KIND is going to be DIFFICULT at best. All you can do is be the BEST communicator on your side and see if you can achieve that eye to eye feeling. If the other side gives you at least a shot at understanding who they are and where they are coming from and what is important to them, WELL YOU ARE ON YOUR WAY!!

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Kathy Streib
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Gary- any chance you could send this to our "employees" in DC?!

Oct 15, 2013 11:35 AM #4
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Margaret Rome, Baltimore Maryland
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Eye to eye communication can also be accomplished with a phone call. Staying in touch and asking do you have any questions or  are we all good now... are ways to keep any kind of relationship in good standing.

Oct 15, 2013 01:06 PM #5
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Kelly Young
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Gary, taking communication seriously and making sure that it is done in the manner that the other party(s) can get is critical even if all seems well at the start.  It is amazing how much can be handled by just checking in and the flip side of how quickly things can fall apart by simply not staying in touch.

Oct 15, 2013 01:35 PM #6
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I'm a face to face kind of person when it's possible, but that's not always.  But then phone is a must.  I hate doing business by only email.  So many times people read attitude tht wasn't intended into emails.

Oct 15, 2013 02:01 PM #7
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William Johnson
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Hi Gary, Face to Face. That seems to becoming less as communications styles change. It feels much less personal today. I rely on technology a good bit, but face to face is my style and it has allowed me to substitute the electronic format often without losing the personal one one touch. It has to be a good balance. I spent hours today staging a home. The doorbell rang and a neighbor recognised my car and asked if i would contact them next to get ready for putting their home on the market. That's my favorite kind of referral, they track me down.  

Oct 15, 2013 04:47 PM #8
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Wayne Martin
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Gary, as others have indicated you should send this to your Congressman and all the other members of Congress! Enjoy your day!

Oct 15, 2013 09:58 PM #9
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Elisa Uribe Realtor #01427070
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Were you thinking of our government? It sure looks like a lot of AR members are:)

 

Oct 16, 2013 12:50 AM #10
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Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD
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I too love a face-to-face meeting. So much is lost in written or telephone communication. I like to be able to read body language - and yes, see someone eye-to-eye when communicating with them.

Oct 16, 2013 02:44 AM #11
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Roy Kelley
Realty Group Referrals - Gaithersburg, MD

Good reminder for all of us. Email and phone calls are not a good substitute for eye to eye communications.

Oct 16, 2013 02:52 AM #12
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Kathy Streib
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weekly notification

Oct 19, 2013 09:39 AM #13
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Cindy Edwards
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This is indeed the best advice ever!  Not only do you render up great advice, but your photo is adorable!

Oct 19, 2013 10:06 PM #14
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Sheila Anderson
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Good morning Gary. Kathy sent me over and I'm glad she did. Point taken and well made and the photo is priceless.

Oct 19, 2013 10:57 PM #15
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Mike Cooper, GRI
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
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Gary, you are so right. Eye to eye communication is becoming a premiem with the growth in Internet marketing and contact leads. We rarely lose a client who starts eye to eye wth eye.

Oct 19, 2013 11:06 PM #16
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Dorie Dillard CRS GRI ABR
Coldwell Banker United Realtors® ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
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Good morning Gary,

I'm coming over from Kathy's post this morning from one of her "Ah-ha" moments. Great post to qualify. Somehow I missed it but not surprising with all the changes! Eye to eye in communication helps foster a meaningful relationship..something on-line presence has difficulty establishing on the initial contact.

Oct 19, 2013 11:25 PM #17
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Evelyn Johnston
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The Internet is such a great thing, but as you say, you still need to communicate face to face to keep relationships strong and healthy!
Oct 20, 2013 12:36 AM #18
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Kevin J. May
Florida Supreme Realty - Hobe Sound, FL
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Gary, how does the saying go?  The eyes are windows to the soul.  Face to face, mano a mano or eye to eye is always going to give the best result.  Here via Kathy.

Oct 20, 2013 01:22 AM #19
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Andrew Mooers | 207.532.6573
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Thought this one was going to be about using SKYPE in the real estate dog and pony marketing circle, cycle. The tone, pauses, body language, so much is script away in the hurry scurry and two thumbs down texting. Two thumbs up for the face to face, heart to heart that we have around the kitchen table of the home during the listing process.

Oct 20, 2013 01:24 AM #20
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Gary Woltal
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Thanks everyone for all the commenting on this one and to you Kathy for the Group highlight......

Oct 20, 2013 03:33 AM #21
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Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
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Face to face or face off? That is the question. Nice post Gary!

Oct 20, 2013 11:29 AM #22
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Beth and Richard Witt
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Good eye contact is always key to good communications... at least that's what I believe to be true...

Oct 21, 2013 08:50 AM #23
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