A few weeks ago I had a buyer call me to see one of my listings. I met the buyer and discovered that she had just backed out of a deal on a house with another Realtor. I repeatedly asked her if she was working with that Realtor. And again and again. No she was not working with that Realtor. I told her I did not want any problems--she assured me there would not be
She wrote and offer, it was accepted, and a few days later an agent called me to inform me she had a signed Buyers Agreement with this person. I checked with my broker and the summation was that I had repeatedly asked her the same question over and over with the same answer--NO. The result was that the agent did not become involved with this purchase.
Bitter Lesson Learned: Always Always Always Get A Buyer's Representation Agreement !
My wife and I are a husband and wife team and have been in the real estate business for the past 10 years. Prior to our real estate years, I spent 23 years on active duty in the Navy and retired as a Navy Commander, Public Affairs Officer. I am also a former radio announcer and Master of Ceremonies for more than 1,000 wedding receptions and other events. My wife, Judy, is a former Executive Recruiter and Deputy Sheriff/Bailiff in the Atlanta, GA, court system. And, we are both former business owners.
We have been blessed with many years of professional experiences and know how to very successfully interact with people from all walks of life. Honesty and integrity are the foundations of our lives and business. We love our careers in real estate and helping nice people find or sell a home. We have a plethora of testimonials of very happy clients and many new friends as a result of our real estate business.
In that time we've learned many things through real estate classes, getting licensed, hundreds of hours of Continuing Education, reading Active Rain articles, broker guidance, real estate magazines, etc., and, of course, through experience.
But, one thing we've always had a problem with was to request, or require, buyers to sign an Exclusive Buyer's Representation Agreement. It felt awkward to us for fearing of losing a buyer even before we began a relationship. We were afraid buyers would object or refrain from signing it and go to another Realtor. I suppose, when you are struggling at first, or when you begin your business in a brand new area or state, you tend to grasp at straws and not want to let anyone slip through the cracks without getting them as a client.
However, shame on us! We have been burned several times over the years by not having a Buyer's Representation Agreement costing us hundreds or thousands of dollars and man-hours. What will it take or when will we ever learn? Well, we have . . . this past week!
My wife and I have now sworn an oath to each other that we will never . . . ever . . . work with another buyer without having an Exclusive Buyer Representation Agreement signed . . . in blood!!!
We pass this story on (at the cost of embarrassing ourselves), hopefully, to encourage all Realtors to always get a Buyer's Agreement signed before spending hours and dollars on a buyer pursuing a new home.
Two weeks ago a woman from the Columbus, Ohio area called from one of our websites to ask if we would assist her in finding just the perfect new home in the Williamson county area in Tennessee. We, of course, fell all over ourselves in providing her with all the answers to her questions and much more.
She was the wife of a retired Air Force Lieutenant Colonel, and me being a retired Navy Commander (similar ranks), we struck up the typical good faith relationship almost immediately on the first phone call through our military brotherhood, or so I thought. You know, being honest and trustworthy and accepting the other at their good word. Usually, in military circles this is something to be expected above the normal civilian standards.
She knew exactly what she wanted in a new home in the $400,000 to $500,000 price range with a 3-car garage, basement, four to five bedrooms and maybe a bonus room, etc. She said if we found what appeared to be the perfect house, she would fly right down and make an offer on it.
So, my wife and I spent several hours during most of a weekend searching through the MLS for brand new homes with all her criteria and sent those up to her by email. We also decided to spend a Saturday afternoon driving around different areas and neighborhoods searching out just the perfect house for her. We figured for a $12,000 to $15,000 commission, nothing is too much, too hard or too time consuming in the pursuit of success.
We found several homes that fit the picture and relayed the information. Our new "client" saw one she particularly liked and got excited about, called us, and said she was flying down Monday night to stay at her daughter's house. She asked is we could pick her up there on Tuesday morning to tour houses as she wouldn't have wheels to drive herself while in town. Of course, no problem.
Tuesday morning, bright and early, we met our new "best friend," (as she said) and held a quick impromptu introduction meeting in our car. We explained how we work and what our schedule was for the day. We also explained our Buyer's Loyalty Agreement and she responded with "Yes, yes, I'm familiar with all that having bought many houses while traveling around with the Air Force and I understand." Okay. So, we took her at her word and off we went.
She really liked the first house we toured and went back to it three different times. But we also, over the next two days, drove nearly 250 miles through the County back and forth to see neighborhood after neighborhood of new homes. She was very particular and very demanding.
While enjoying lunch on the second day (at our expense of course), she mentioned several things.
She mentioned that she really liked the one house and that if the builder wanted to sell it he would accept her offer. She repeatedly mentioned that she was going to get "a good deal." We did try mentioning to her (although we're not sure she ever listened to anything) that our local real estate market locally has been really hot this year and inventories are now very low. And sales prices have risen substantially over last year.
Although we know it not to be true and we tried persuading her otherwise when she insisted that builders did not like dealing with Realtors as that drives up their costs by having to pay out unnecessary sales commissions. She was convinced buyers would get better deals if they came in without a Realtor. (Another red flag).
But at the end of two full days she decided she was "90%" in favor of the first house so we went back again and visited the sales office and introduced her to the two sales agents in the office, and then back to the house for another walk through. While we were all walking out of the house, the woman said she wanted to come back in the morning to see the house again and to show her adult daughter, BUT, that it wasn't necessary for us to be there. (Hmm-m-m? Warning flags!) Three times we said that we would, of course, come back to assist in any way we could and to prepare an offer if she decided to do that. She insisted not.
Obviously, we began getting very suspicious of her "loyalty" but called it a day and hoped for the best. Surely, no one would do an end run around us after all the time we've spent researching for her and showing houses throughout the County and miles driven. Who would do that? Certainly not a senior Air Force Lieutenant Colonel's wife!
The next day we did have prior commitments in the morning and would have changed or adjusted those to give her our typical full support. But responding to her latest insistence that we did not to be at the house with her and her daughter the following morning and not knowing the time she would be there, we kept our morning appointments.
At midnight of that second day, she sent us an email stating that she wanted make an offer the next morning and to meet her at the sales office at 10 a.m. Unfortunately, we did not get her email read until about 9 a.m., that next morning and we were both at different commitments and could not be there at 10. We could at noon.
But now the plot thickens. We received a call from the sales representative at the builder's sales office advising us that our buyer was in that morning stating that since we were not there and did not provide an offer right then that she was done with us and that she would be making her offer directly to the builder.
The builder's sales agent also mentioned to us that the offer was so ridiculous she was certain the builder would not even begin to consider it but it would be presented. We learned her offer was for $40,000 less than the list price and she wanted extra features to be "thrown in" like a backyard fence, underground water sprinkler system, an attic storeroom finished off with sealed walls to keep the critters out, plus a few other miscellaneous items).
We did everything she asked us to do and more and dedicated our time and provided the necessary expenses to achieve her goal in the time frame she set. She was served with the highest level of professionalism and service. BUT, we did not have a signed Exclusive Buyer's Representation Agreement.
Never . . . never . . . ever again!