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The separation of church and real estate.

By
Real Estate Broker/Owner with Richard Weisser Realty

Holiday Tree on The Newnan GA Courthouse SquareWell, it’s that time of year again, and it is inevitable that the topic of religion will come up in the conversation.

Recognition of the observance of Christmas is a complicated dilemma for many in a business that respects the beliefs of all of it customers and clients.

Christmas is BOTH a religious and a secular holiday. You can have one without the other, and everyone is free to ignore it altogether.

But in fact, it IS a designated national holiday. The mail does not run. Federal offices are closed. It is a real day with a real name that cannot be removed from the lexicon without generating a good deal of confusion.

I don’t celebrate Columbus Day. That doesn’t mean that it doesn’t exist. I am also not offended if anyone else chooses to participate in Columbus Day celebrations in any way that they see fit.

My religious beliefs are personal. I will keep them to myself.

But the twenty-fifth day of December is Christmas.

 

It says so on the Calendar.

Richard Weisser
Richard Weisser Realty - Newnan, GA
Richard Weisser Retired Real Estate Professional

We keep Christmas in our own way. As far as the retailers go, they are not getting much benefit from us because we don't purchase any more stuff than usual.

But I like to decorate, and the TV specials, and of course, the music!

Dec 09, 2013 10:33 PM
Nick T Pappas
Assoc. Broker ABR, CRS, SFR, e-Pro, @Homes Realty Group, Broker/Providence Property Mgmnt, LLC Huntsville AL - Huntsville, AL
Madison & Huntsville Alabama Real Estate Resource

Richard, right on target with this post.  Unfortunately there are too many people that are more than willing to subjugate others to their own beliefs.  Too many closed or narrow minded people that have little or no tolerance for points of view different from their own.

Dec 09, 2013 10:44 PM
Jeanne Gregory
RE/MAX Southwest - Sugar Land, TX
The most important home I sell is YOURS!

The county I live and work in, Fort Bend County, TX, was just named the most diverse county in the nation.  This fact has definitely not stopped the shopping frenzy!  During the year it's common to pass by a business and see a Happy Diwali or happy Ed el Fitr (sp) sign during the year.  We all have our holidays and traditions.   Mine is Christmas.  However, I'm pretty happy to live in an environment where my grandkids can learn of other's celebrations and traditions.

Dec 09, 2013 11:08 PM
Catherine Ulrey
Keller Williams Capital City - Salem, OR
Equestrian and Acreage Property Specialist

Merry Christmas!

Dec 09, 2013 11:10 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Religion has but one purpose and that is to lead you to "something" greater. It is a tool (like trillions of other tools) designed for journeying until you can finally travel via Spirit & Truth. Instead, it has become more famous than THAT something...This was never meant to be. There is no religion in the beyond world. Just Truth which is the glue of the Universe that binds us all...thank you for a most decent posting

Dec 09, 2013 11:15 PM
Suzanne Otto
Six Twenty Designs - Lansdale, PA
Your Montgomery County PA home stager

Richard, my brother and I joke because we're not religious, but have a couple family members who are. So instead of Christmas Eve, we say Jesus' birthday Eve. It's all in good fun :)

Dec 09, 2013 11:28 PM
Bill Reddington
Re/max By The Sea - Destin, FL
Destin Florida Real Estate

Guess I am Tired of being Politically Correct. I am just going to say Merry Christmas!

Dec 10, 2013 12:12 AM
Helen and Larry Prier- Re-Max Gateway - Residential Real Estate
RE-MAX Gateway- Residential Real Estate Sales - Anacortes, WA
Anacortes & surrounding Skagit & Island Counties

Richard, It is Merry Christmas for us but when I send out cards to clients it is "Happy Holidays" that covers all religions and beliefs I think.

Dec 10, 2013 12:41 AM
Connie Harvey
Pilkerton Realtors - Brentwood, TN
Realtor - Nashville TN Real Estate

Richard, I don't know why every year people have to argue over the separation of Religion and the rest of life. Christmas is Christmas. Ignore it if you do't like it.

Dec 10, 2013 01:41 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

That's so true - it says on the calendar it's Christmas, so that's that!  I say to people at times, Happy Sunday, Happy Friday, Happy 4th of July and Merry Christmas.   It's all good.

Dec 10, 2013 03:06 AM
Curt Hess
ExecuHome Realty - Annapolis, MD
Luxury Home Consultant, Team Leader & CEO

Mostly off limits...except a few years back when the owner of a church turned it into a bunch of CONDOs. As you'd expect, they could care less which religion you might practice, all they wanted was the almighty greenback. 

And Happy-whatever-you-want-to-call-any-day to you all. And to all a goodnight!

 

Dec 10, 2013 04:55 AM
David Alan Baker | Laveen & South Phoenix Realtor
Keller Williams Realty Phoenix - Laveen, AZ
Your local Expert

I agree.  Don't know how or when things had to become so PC.

Dec 10, 2013 05:12 AM
Kevin A. Guttman-Author, ReverseMortgageSpecialist
NMLS #384936 - Colorado Springs, CO
877-251-9709

Richard!

I hope you have a great holiday season!

Kevin

Dec 10, 2013 06:35 AM
Sheree Holsey
Sold Buy the Sea Realty - Hampstead, NC
I am Happy to Help You Find your Way Home!

I found some cards I like, and sent them out... I know know every one of them seperates Church and Real Estate... so much of how I run my Biz..is me at heart. I won't change how I celebrate, to make a sale.

Dec 10, 2013 09:21 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

Gotta love the really creative title line, Richard!  I'm in agreement with you about Christmas being both religious and secular!  I worked several years at an International softwared development company with folks all over the globe.  When I read their Facebook pages today, my Hindu friend of East Indian descent, who was born and raised in Australia, just put up her Christmas tree!  Ditto for another, who is Sikh.

Dec 10, 2013 09:23 AM
Charles Stallions
Charles Stallions Real Estate Services - Pensacola, FL
850-476-4494 - Pensacola, Pace or Gulf Breeze, Fl.

We have all but erased history from our lives, just shows over time fools will believe anything they hear. The bible is the oldest book in the world and there has to be truth in the history of it somewhat. But hey most kids nowadays don't know that Washington crossed the Delaware let alone why and I heard a middle schooler ask last 9-11 why were they reading the names of the people that died on 9-11 when I tried to explain he said that all that happened was not real and that his history teacher said it was a hoax. Go Figure. 

Between Holywood and Schools most will believe anything. JMHO

Dec 10, 2013 11:08 AM
Charles Stallions
Charles Stallions Real Estate Services - Pensacola, FL
850-476-4494 - Pensacola, Pace or Gulf Breeze, Fl.

Oh BTW I am a Christian and although I don;t push it, I damn sure ain't going to hide it and if the folks don't like it then I really don't need the money that bad. BTW I do ask that we pray at every closing but that is me. I have never lost a deal or had anyone object including 27 closings over 17 years with folks from India 3 which are investors of mine and own a national hotel chain can you guess which one?

Dec 10, 2013 11:12 AM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

It goes both ways, there are those that are not Christian and respect goes both ways. 

Dec 10, 2013 11:55 AM
William Johnson
Retired - La Jolla, CA
Retired

Hi Richard, I think you said this so well. It is clear and not filled any angst at all. I wish everyone could accept this holiday for why it exists but a smile and a Merry Christmas is and should be accepted everywhere by anyone.

Dec 10, 2013 12:04 PM
Gabrielle Kamahele Rhind
KGC Properties LLC, Tucson Property Management & Real Estate - Tucson, AZ
Broker/Owner

GOOD MORNING RICHARD ... enough said!

Dec 22, 2013 06:39 PM