"It's Only Weird if it Doesn't Work"

By
Home Stager with Owner, The Refreshed Home White Plains NY

"It's Only Weird if it Doesn't Work". This has been the second NFL season this tag line has been reverberating through millions of homes.

Mis-matched socks, assorted rituals and talismans, and let's not forget the dreaded QUINOA BURGER.  And this summer "Fear the Beard" was the mantra as the wooly Boston Red Sox rolled on to win the 2013 World Series.

Sports superstitions-actions and practices born from back against the wall circumstances, fueled by fervent hope and anecdotal stories of success-makes total sense to the people practicing/believing them, "it's only weird if it doesn't work" is the perfect justification of the illogical, to non-believers.

DAMN>why didn't Home Stagers think of this line first??

Under reasonable circumstances, Real Estate is still a gamble; but the last few years...HA!

When The Refreshed Home first launched in 2007  Home Staging was largely a faraway concept in the Westchester County NY real estate  market; more entertainment, on cable. This market was hot, and the romance of fixer-uppers had not totally faded.

The  housing bubble burst shortly afterward, and the tide changed swiftly. The learning curve was steep, the naysayers were loud and cranky, and "weird" was one of their nicer characterizations... but it was a great time to listen and learn, meet people and define this new frontier of a business. 'It's only weird if it doesn't work' certainly was, and still is my attitude, just never put into so many words.

That was seven years ago. There are still skeptics out there...comments to a July 2012 NYT piece, Ruthless Came the Stager pretty much rang the dinner bell.  If you hadn't read the article first, you'd think animal sacrifices under the light of a full moon were one of the recommendations. And OHYES, I still delight in pointing out that not a single solitary dismissive or angry villager shared that they actually had ever worked with a Stager...yet every single  commentator who HAD worked with a professional Home Stager had something good to say. HA!

I will admit to owning Lucky Socks (literally, they say 'My Lucky Socks'-how could I resist?) but everything  I do (say, suggest, warn, or nudge someone on) is rooted in training, instinct, and experience; but most importantly, from seeing what works, what has put money in other sellers' and agents' pockets.

If you are thinking about selling your Westchester County house in 2014...or have had mixed or bad results with a listing already on the market, turn off  HGTV, and have a 10 minute conversation with me today about all the different ways your property can be bettered. I promise you, there will be no Quinoa burgers, and no animals will be harmed.

NEXT: The Refreshed Home: Numbers, and Reflections from 2013

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Our spaces affect us profoundly...and so many other parts in our life fall into place when our spaces and possessions serve us in the best way they can. But getting there is much more than a pursuit of pleasing aesthetics.

 

Decorating and Staging are different, but much of the skill sets overlap, and each creates unique solutions that considers the needs, goals, resources, expectations, hopes and dreams of each client.

Bettering Westchester, Putnam and lower Fairfield counties since 1981, The Refreshed Home works collaboratively, and brings a thoughtful approach to the creative process. Proud to make a difference, as well as make a living. Offering specialty services such as remote and buyer consults, listing photo/video styling, guided and accompanied shopping, and accessory rental. We get in, get out, and you get on with your life.  Talk to me TODAY about how we can better your space!

  

                    

 

Marie Graham ASP, IAHSP, IDS Your Stager With A Mission!

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Comments (9)

Belinda Spillman
Aspen Lane Real Estate Colorful Colorado - Aurora, CO
Colorado Living!

I have been hearing this line all year from my husband.  He has decided that if I don't bake a chocolate cake on game day, the Broncos will lose.  Now with a sugar high and extra padding on the backside, I am ready to bake another Bronco cake for tomorrow.  I have missed three.  Hmmmmm   they lost 3 games.  Darn!

Jan 11, 2014 03:38 AM
Marie Graham
Owner, The Refreshed Home White Plains NY - White Plains, NY
Westchester County Interior Decorator, Home Stager

Belinda-you will just have to decide, what is more important>your backside, or NFL domination :)

 

Jan 11, 2014 04:17 AM
Jimmy Faulkner
Florida. Homes Realty & Mortgage - Wantagh, NY
The Best Of St. Augustine

The saying that it is weird if it does not work has been happening through the centuries. People alwasy fought change, the world is round to so many other things. We  have to be oopen to the weird.

Jan 11, 2014 04:34 AM
marti garaughty
garaughty.com - Montreal, QC
a highly caffeinated creative type...

garaughty, abstract art, graphic design, WordPress consultant

Jan 11, 2014 07:27 AM
Donna Foerster
HomeSmart Realty Group - Parker, CO
Metro Denver Real Estate Assistant

Marie~ Staging is one of those things that folks think they can do on their own. They simply don't recognzie the value of working with a professional. 

Jan 12, 2014 07:24 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
New Hampshire Home Stager

I'm not a sports fan and my husband watches some teams but isn't a fanatic so we don't have many sports based superstitions here.  Love how you tied this into staging!

Jan 12, 2014 09:10 PM
Julia Maher
Nestings: Connecticut Home Staging and Model Homes - Fairfield, CT
Connecticut Home Stager

I believe most Home Stagers have made some "weird" suggestions - all based on experience and training.  Hmmmmm...funny how these suggestions WORK!

Jan 12, 2014 11:28 PM
Marie Graham
Owner, The Refreshed Home White Plains NY - White Plains, NY
Westchester County Interior Decorator, Home Stager

Marti-chocolate chip-you remembered!

DONNA! Once directed, they can do a lot more than they think they can...but they need to get past the 'it's weird' mentality!

Sharon-this one was fun to write, but I will be SO glad when those been ads stop running!

JULIA! YES, funny, isn't it??

Jan 15, 2014 03:57 AM
Michelle Finnamore
Toronto GTA, Alliston, Newmarket - Vaughan, ON
Preparing your property for sale

Great post Marie! I really like your story and examples.

 

Jan 19, 2014 07:54 AM

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