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Guiding Your Clients - the Favorit-est Tips!

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If you follow my blog, you know that from time to time we do a "Favorit-est Tips" post where I share the feedback I got from a recent Sell with Soul teleseminar. This installment is from the show we did earlier this week called "Guiding Your Clients to the Right Decisions" where we discussed various strategies for helping clients, well, make good decisions in a real estate transaction! 

Are you asking if it's really our job to assist in the decision-making process? Aren't we just supposed to give them three options and let them decide? And advise them to contact their attorney if they have questions? Or conversely, aren't WE the experts so shouldn't WE just tell them what to do? 

In my opinion, no. Part of the job description of a professional real estate agent is to help our clients understand their options and respectfully guide them to the right decision for THEM. NOT the "right" decision for us and our paycheck, but to truly be looking out for their best interests, even if that means a delay in our own payday (hey, I didn't make the rules, but that's how it works in our business). 

Anyway, at the end of the show, we polled the audience for their favorite tip or tips of the day and here's what they told us:

Favorit-est Tip #1 (by far): When talking with clients, always use "we," "our," "us" and "let's." This put you on the same side as your client, both in your mind and in theirs. Try it, it's incredibly powerful.

Favorit-test Tip #2: Give your client a back door. Always give your client an "out" when discussing their options. The bigger the "out" the better. Reassure them that they can say no, walk away or do nothing. The less pressure a client feels from you, the more open they will be to suggestions and the less likely they are to actually use the back door!

Favorit-est Tip #3: Don't try to "bust" a buyer's objections. If a buyer is complaining about features of a home, it's actually a sign they are interested in it. Don't argue with them about their objections; in fact, agree with them! "Yes, the closets are a little small, aren't they?" Your buyers aren't stupid - they know no home is perfect and need to work through their objections without being argued with. 

Other tips from the show:

  • Use reverse psychology so clients don't feel pressured or coerced by you
  • Offer alternatives to a price reduction (e.g. staging, cleaning or making improvements to the home)
  • Offer to "try that price for two weekends" when a seller wants to price higher than your recommendation
  • Be mad with your client when the other side annoys them - help them blow off steam

If you'd like to hear the whole thing, the recording is available in the SWS Bookstore for purchase or you can join Club SWS and get access to all SWS teleseminar shows since 2010!

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Comments(37)

John Wiley
Fort Myers, FL
Lee County, FL, ECO Broker, GRI, SRES,GREEN,PSA

Thanks for the Tips. Bonding=siding with the client is a great approach.

We are there to help the client not badger them. Thanks.

Jan 25, 2014 10:34 PM
Jeff Fisher
PureWest Real Estate - Whitefish, MT
PUREWEST REAL ESTATE/Christies

Very effective and useful. I use these often and feel they work wonders.

Jan 25, 2014 10:36 PM
Sharon Parisi
United Real Estate Dallas - Dallas, TX
Dallas Homes

Thanks for providing these valuable tips!  I love the term "favorit-est."

Jan 25, 2014 11:17 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

yes to making it fun and informative with these tips...good job in sharing

Jan 25, 2014 11:40 PM
Cathy Wolters
Wolters Realty & Property Management Company - Cocoa, FL
Your Brevard County Property Management Expert

Lot's of great information.  I really like the part about not trying to "bust" the objections. That makes a lot of sense. 

Jan 25, 2014 11:57 PM
John Anello, Stamford Area Electrician
Safe and Sound Electric LLC - Greenwich, CT
Call Safe and Sound Electric at 203-536-0021

I like the suggestion of using "we, our, let's, etc. I had not heard that before.  "We" should try that.

Jan 26, 2014 04:37 AM
Graziella Bruner
NCS Premier Real Estate - Detroit, MI
Associate Broker - Serving Wayne & Oakland County

I enjoyed reading your great tips, and Tip 1 -that's how I always talk with my clients, we, us, and let's, it does assure the client that you are on their side.

Thanks for sharing these great tips.

Jan 26, 2014 05:45 AM
Steven Nickens
Hawaii Life Real Estate Brokers - Wailea, HI
R(S)GRI ABR, Maui Real Estate Hawaii

Very wise, something to think about

Jan 26, 2014 10:14 AM
Jennifer Allan-Hagedorn
Sell with Soul - Pensacola Beach, FL
Author of Sell with Soul

Thank you for all the comments! 

One of the key points we brought out in the teleseminar was that if your intentions are truly "pure" - that is - if you ARE looking out for your clients' best interests (not just wanting to appear to be), implementing these strategies will come naturally. One of the biggest factors will be if you can take your paycheck out of the equation, which can be hard to do in practice, but necessary if your client is going to trust you and your advice. 

Jan 26, 2014 08:43 PM
Christopher Pagli
William Raveis Legends Realty Group - Tarrytown, NY
"I Stay Open Until You Close"

Great info, I love tip number 1 and swear by it!

Jan 26, 2014 09:27 PM
Fábio Emerenciano
Remax

Very nice, Jennifer!

Jan 26, 2014 10:58 PM
John Fauth
Coldwell Banker King Thompson - Grove City, OH
Turning your dreams into an address!

Good useful tips here. Going to put them into action.

Jan 27, 2014 12:06 AM
Liane Thomas, Top Listing Agent
Professional Realty Services® - Corona, CA
Bringing you Home!

All good suggestions. It is also helpful to gently guide your client to the solution you are looking for and then congratulate them for their great idea!

Jan 27, 2014 01:10 AM
Christie Lane Craven
Blackwell Real Estate - Odenton, MD
Your Anne Arundel County Agent

I don't know that I am 100% in agreement with this one-

Be mad with your client when the other side annoys them - help them blow off steam 

While I agree you should listen to your clients and understand when they are upset by something the "other side" has done, I think it is our job to stay more clear headed vs. emotional.  Acknowledge why they are upset, but don't add fuel to the fire.  You are being paid to be a sounding board, but also the voice of reason :) I've seen way too many agents take things personally and become angry and unprofessional during negotiations.  

Jan 27, 2014 02:15 AM
Evelyn Kennedy
Alain Pinel Realtors - Alameda, CA
Alameda, Real Estate, Alameda, CA

Jennifer:  I never use the pronouns ours, we and us, because I feel that they need to be reponsible for your actions.  I do give them advice and make suggestions.  However, I will try it on my next transaction to see if it works.  Thanks for the advice.

Jan 27, 2014 10:45 AM
Gene Riemenschneider
Home Point Real Estate - Brentwood, CA
Turning Houses into Homes

Good tips and great post.  People sell themselves if they like a house the over come their own objections.

Jan 28, 2014 03:09 AM
Jack O'Neal
HomeSmart Elite Group - Gilbert, AZ

Great tips Jennifer!  It's always important to make your clients feel like you are on their side by using those key words: "we, our, us, and let's."  I also agree with your tip to always give your clients an "out" so they don't feel pressured to buy.

Jan 31, 2014 08:42 AM
Donna Foerster
HomeSmart Realty Group - Parker, CO
Metro Denver Real Estate Assistant

Hi Jennifer~ Always enjoying reading the favorite tips from your teleseminars! Thanks for sharing with us, once again!

Feb 14, 2014 01:45 AM
Collette Deschamps
Windermere Missoula Real Estate - Missoula, MT

Jennifer. I recently discovered your site and as a newbie to the business, I really appreciate your insight and help. Your tips are immensly helpful and I know your The SWS Mega-Toolkit which I'll get soon will be a great help as well. :)

Jun 26, 2014 01:53 AM
Rachel Hernandez
BERKSHIRE HATHAWAY HomeServices, PINEHURST REALTY GROUP - Pinehurst, NC

I can't wait to read your book. I was just referred to your page! Great tips!

Jul 31, 2014 12:30 AM