I'd Like to Buy a Vowel Please…..

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Services for Real Estate Pros with Referral Group Incorporated

On the Wheel of Fortune it is possible to get help and solve the puzzle. In business it is not always that easy, but it is possible. Part of getting help is learning how to ask for it. In my experience, in life as in business it is sometimes harder to ask for what you need than to do without it. How sad that is. I have learned finally, that it is OK to buy a vowel and solve that puzzle.

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When you think about real estate, it is time to focus. I have helped people for close to thirty years in all areas, and made the process not only simple but enjoyable. Why should you go it alone or settle for less? Call me and find a partner to help, direct and get you where you want to be.

Sheila Anderson

The Real Estate Whisperer...... Consultant, Trainer, Facilitator 732-715-1133

 

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Brenda Mayette
Miranda Real Estate Group, Inc. - Glenville, NY
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Hi Sheila - I'm always left with positive energy after asking for help.... People DO step up and the collaboration is wonderful.

Jan 28, 2014 09:12 PM #3
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Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning friends and thank you for stopping by and leaving your comments and offering your support: I really appreciate it.

Hello Dorie. I think you are right and I am glad that I have reached a point in time when asking is easy. I like being asked by others and I have learned a lot. You have a great day.

Hi Barbara. I agree with you, I can't imagine not helping anyone who asks for my help. The best is possible and can be realized. Thank you.

Hello Brenda. You're right: collaboration is wonderful. I think I like working with people more than almost anything. Thank you so much for your support.

Have a great day my friends andd make a difference.

Sheila

Jan 28, 2014 09:39 PM #4
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Peter den Boer
Atlanta Communities - Woodstock, GA
MBA,GRI, Associate Broker, Realtor

Sheila - And what better place than the Rain to ask!

Jan 28, 2014 09:47 PM #5
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Raymond E. Camp
Howard Hanna Real Estate Services - Ontario, NY
Licensed Real Estate Salesperson Greater Rochester

Good morning Sheila,

That is why I like my office and the "Rain"; there is always a way to find an answer.

It is too bad some wait until it is to late to ask!

Make yourself a great day.

Jan 28, 2014 09:51 PM #6
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Kathy Streib
Room Service Home Staging - Delray Beach, FL
Home Stager - Palm Beach County,FL -561-914-6224

Sheila- so many are willing and want to help.  For the most part, it's in our nature.  At the same time, we've been taught to do it ourselves.  It's when you learn that it's ok to ask for help that you expand your life. 

Jan 28, 2014 09:56 PM #7
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Tom Arstingstall, General Contractor, Dry Rot, Water Damage Sacramento, El Dorado County - (916) 765-5366
Dry Rot and Water Damage www.tromlerconstruction.com Mobile - 916-765-5366 - Placerville, CA
General Contractor, Dry Rot and Water Damage

I'd like to buy a vowel Sheila. Can I have a "U" please?

I believe that you could help me.  :)

Jan 28, 2014 10:25 PM #8
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Joanna Cohlan
Fresh Eyes For Your Home - Chappaqua, NY
Designing, Decorating & Staging Westchester Homes

Great analogy Sheila - and I do love Tom's response.  As it is said,  u do not get what u do not ask for.

Jan 28, 2014 10:39 PM #9
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William Johnson
Retired - La Jolla, CA
Retired Real Estate Professional

Hi Sheila, Over the years your comments have always impressed me that they are coming from as a person of great abundance in life. You have always written the kindest and most caring comments and this says so much about you. What I love about people with abundance is that they know how to give and empower the receiver to seek their best. 

You are so right about seeking the " vowel" and solving the puzzle because you deserve it in spades. You are a very special person and I for one would be honored to provide you any vowel you ever needed.

Jan 28, 2014 10:47 PM #10
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Lisa Von Domek
Lisa Von Domek Team - Dallas, TX
....Experience Isn't Expensive.... It's Priceless!

Hello Sheila,

Great analogy - Seeking and/or asking for answers is one of the secrets to success.

Jan 28, 2014 11:30 PM #11
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Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hello Peter. Exactly. Thank you.

Hi Raymond. I agree. Thank you.

Hello Kathy and very very well said. Thank you.

Hi Tom. You're terrific and yes you can get the U.

Hello Joanna. I liked Tom's comment too. Asing is the way to go. 

Hi William. You have blown me away and I am deeply touched. I so admire you and maybe you know about my Olympus camera? Seriously I so appreciate your kindness and support. Thank you.

Hello Lisa. Thank you so very much.

Sheila

Jan 29, 2014 12:25 AM #12
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Monica Hill
RE/Max Associates - Wilmington, DE
the REALTOR to help you discover Delaware

Sheila, What a great way to say it. It amazes me that so many of us have that problem. We encourage others to ask for help (colleagues, children, friends) yet we are so reluctant to do that ourselves. Thanks for the reminder!

Jan 29, 2014 12:51 AM #13
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Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you very much Monica. Enjoy your day.     Sheila

Jan 29, 2014 12:59 AM #14
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Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
New Hampshire Home Stager

Not as easy lesson for most of us to learn!  On another note....my son-in-law was on Wheel of Fortune and won!  He won a trip to Mexico, and one to Africa, and won some money too.  It was beyond exciting!

Jan 29, 2014 02:00 AM #15
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Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hi Sharon. That's sooooo neat. Has it aired yet?    Sheila

Jan 29, 2014 02:07 AM #16
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Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi
NMLS #216987, IL Lic. 031.0006220, WI Licensed. APMC NMLS #175656 - New Lenox, IL
708.921.6331 - 40+ yrs experience

Sheila:  You confront perhaps the hardest part of obtaining the info ... getting people to understand the value in the art of questioning.  That's where it all has to start.  You provide great food for thought ...

Gene

Jan 29, 2014 05:21 AM #17
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Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hello Gene. You are very kind and I so appreciate your support and you. Thank you.  Sheila

Jan 29, 2014 06:22 AM #18
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Debbie Holmes
Gold Key Real Estate - Boise, ID
Gets the job done!

I know I ask for help all the time.  Part of being a good agent is to ask questions.

Jan 29, 2014 12:40 PM #19
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Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Exactly right Debbie. Thank you.    Sheila

Jan 29, 2014 08:45 PM #20
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Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
New Hampshire Home Stager

It was a couple yrs ago.  

Jan 30, 2014 09:05 AM #21
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Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Neat Sharon. TY.   Sheila

Jan 30, 2014 11:09 AM #22
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