Hey, Mom and Dad, I'm running with scissors!

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Cornerstone Business Group Inc 0225086119
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When you're 12 to your 20s, you have a view of what it means to be an adult that is formed by watching your parents. My parents were typical in most ways. We lived in an average house, in an average neighborhood and in an average community.

I always thought we were poor until I left for college and had to travel through a state where the greatest poverty I had ever seen was on display on both sides of the highway. The first call I made when I reached my destination was to my parents. I apologized for ever thinking we were poor. No, we were very average, and middle class, my entire life. That's not to say that my view of adulthood wasn't a bit skewed.

When I finally moved out on my own I had a number of things I wanted to call my parents and say, such as:

  • Hey, Mom and Dad, I am running with scissors! I never actually did, but I though about it.
  • Hey, Mom and Dad, I am standing in front of the refrigerator with the door wide open, and I don't want a thing. 
  • Hey, Mom and Dad, I have the heat on 80 and the front door is open. Yes, I am heating the outside. And, yes, I really believe I was born in a barn, but only you would know that for sure.
  • Hey, Mom and Dad, I just buried 50 cents. I plan to harvest my money tree in about 8 weeks, and I'll share.
  • Hey, Mom and Dad, I have all of the lights in the house on. It sure is bright in here. I'm also wearing sunglasses inside.
  • Hey, Mom and Dad, I just ate a bunch of watermelon seeds. If I have a harvest, I'll let you know.
  • Hey, Mom and Dad, I'm standing a foot away from the TV. It sure is fuzzy at this distance.
  • Hey, Mom and Dad, I'm staring into the microwave. Is something supposed to happen?
  • Hey, Mom and Dad, I'm shipping my broccoli to China. What was that address again?

Our parents said a lot of things when we were kids. Somethings were meant to steer us in the right direction, and some were just passed on from previous generations, but all of them were said by parents who wanted the best for their kids, and today, we parents pass many of those one-liners on like an oral history.

It's all done because we love our kids and want them to be safe and successful. So, when you're kid calls home and says, "Hey, Mom and Dad, I'm running with scissors," don't worry. They aren't, but that's their way of saying I love you, and I appreciate what you taught me.

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Sarah, John Rummage
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Cute. All parents must read the same book at some point. These all sound so familiar. 

Feb 24, 2014 09:20 PM #16
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Kimo Jarrett
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Amazing how much children remember about their parents after moving away from home and finally taking 100% responsibility for their actions. Unfortunately, many choose to forget what their parents tried to teach them and wander throughout their journey of life in a dream world. Great post.

Feb 24, 2014 09:35 PM #17
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Jill Sackler
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What a great title for this post. I remember reading the book when it came out. A staff psychologist at my former workplace commented, "isn't it horrible how some people grow up?" I remember thinking, "really, that's what you got out of it? I was thinking how wonderful it is that someone can become a success story from such painful beginnings."

Feb 24, 2014 09:47 PM #18
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Hi Mike...Thanks for the great comments to Mom and Dad.  I think I heard each and everyone of them.  Of course they were all directed towards my brothers and sisters!!

Feb 24, 2014 10:14 PM #19
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Kunni Biener
First Class Title, Inc. - Rockville, MD

as long as they aren't the GOOD scissors! (anyone who works with fabric will understand).

Feb 24, 2014 11:35 PM #20
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Jack O'Neal
HomeSmart Elite Group - Gilbert, AZ

Cute post Mike!  I've certainly called my parents back when I was in college saying things similiar to this!  Just shows we love them and they love us!

Feb 25, 2014 12:22 PM #21
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John Jonas
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hahaha I suddenly had a flash back of my childhood there. Staring at the fridge is my favorite, just because that's the one I keep telling my kids today.

Feb 25, 2014 12:53 PM #22
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Myrl Jeffcoat
GreatWest Realty - Sacramento, CA
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My favorite thing as a kid was to sleep with my electric blanket on, while the ceiling fan was circulating overhead.  Heck, it still is one of my favorite things.

Feb 25, 2014 04:51 PM #23
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Inna Ivchenko
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I was not very restricted when I was a child. My parents thought I'll learn on my mistakes. They were busy working...It is kind of the same way now: I work, but my kids work twice harder. They learned early to be responsible.

Feb 25, 2014 04:54 PM #24
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Well off... it is not flashing imitation Rolexes replacing Mickeys, leased Lotus's instead of Yugo's park in the driveway. Inside wealth and happiness, gratitude, joy. That is what parents build to detonate, glow, warm for life in the whipper snapper, young grasshopper. So running with scissors when you have to chop chop does not mean hand me the eye patch. Poking an eye out. Just being careful.

Frugal is not cheap. It's good business. Saving money so you could buy something but after research, impulse control decide naw, no thanks. I have all I need. But could and don't always have to buy buy buy.

Feb 25, 2014 08:58 PM #26
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Shannon Milligan, Richmond VA Real Estate Agent/Associate Broker
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Funny how we actually become our parents. I am always yelling at my husband to stop heating the outside, lol!

Feb 25, 2014 09:14 PM #27
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Marc McMaster
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It's amazing the things you realize once you become an adult yourself, isn't it? 

Feb 25, 2014 09:17 PM #28
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Michael Setunsky
Woodbridge, VA
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Mike, one thing we learned as we became an adult. Our parents were right and always looked after our welfare. I hope we can pass along those values to our children.

Feb 25, 2014 09:50 PM #29
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Tina Parker
Keller Williams Select Realty - Bedford, NS
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Thanks for the laugh. I've been subjected to ALL on your list and find myself repeating the very sayings onto my children.

Feb 25, 2014 10:05 PM #30
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Ed Silva
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Eat your vegetables, those little kids in Biafra would be so upset to see you try and throw them away. It's amazing how smart are parents seemed to have been once we have to be adults as well.

Feb 25, 2014 11:19 PM #31
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Tom White
Franklin Homes Realty LLC (615) 495-0752 or www.FranklinHomesRealty.com - Franklin, TN
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We all pass those little nuggets on like an "oral history". In a way, that's a pretty cool thought. I think in many cases the more we try to be different from our parents, the more like them we become.

Feb 26, 2014 01:23 AM #32
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Brandon Vukelich
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Funny...now that I'm a parent, the biggest pet peeve I can relate to above is the point about the lights.  Drives me crazy to come home and see lights on in every room but nobody is around.  I keep making empty threats to my kids that I'm going to take money out of their piggy banks to pay the electric bill. 

Feb 26, 2014 01:35 AM #33
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Tammie White, Broker
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When my sister was about three, she was running down the hallway with a fork. You guessed it. She tripped on a rug and the fork went through her cheek. That was just one of the times, my mother was forced to take us to the emergency room. I made sure my kids never repeated that accident. They will make mistakes. Hopefully, not so painful that they don't recover.

Feb 26, 2014 01:55 AM #34
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and I've never poked anyone's eye out, either.

Feb 26, 2014 03:07 AM #35
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Ric Mills
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It is amazing how smart our parents get each year.  Must be the water and veggies they eat!!!!!!!!!!!!

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