Happy Birthday Grandmother, I hope you have cake in heaven

By
Real Estate Broker/Owner with Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 GREC# 169695

gmamaIt's my Grandmother's birthday, and I've thought about her a lot today.  I still miss her so much.  She had such a big impact on my life.  I miss visiting with her, but I'm thankful for a lot of memories.  I'm thankful that I had her as many years as I did and that my daughter got to grow up getting to know her great grandmother.

She was born in 1917.  I think about all the things that changed in her lifetime. Recently a site here in town that was her mom's house at one time and then her brother's bait and tackle shop in the 60s was torn down.  That made me a little sad too.

I have this photograph on my desk at work and I know she's with me every single day.  And you know it's funny, sometimes I look in the mirror and see my mom looking back at me and sometimes it's my grandmother I see looking back.  

My puppy had a sad today too.  Perhaps he could just sense my sadness and it rubbed off on him.  He didn't eat his dinner or his treat.  I was beginning to be really worried about him, but when I put him to bed he gobbled up his night night treat and I left his supper just in case and he ate all of that too.

Now I'm about to make myself put on one more load of laundry and set the dishwasher to run in the middle of the night.  I'm hopping tomorrow will be busy and I'll find myself being happy again.

 

Comments (9)

Captain Wayne - Rowlett Real Estate School
Rowlett Real Estate School - Panama City, FL
Rowlett Real Estate School / Owner and Instructor

Hi Tammy, what a nice blog.  I'm sure your grandmother was a wonderful lady.

Mar 23, 2014 02:17 PM
Sondra Meyer:
Colorado Springs, CO
See It. Experience It. Live It.

Tammy, this is a very nice tribute to your grandmother.   I'm sorry you and your puppy were sad yet I full understand why.  Just remember, she wants to look down on you and see you happy. 

That is a very nice picture of her. 

Grace and peace. 

Mar 23, 2014 03:10 PM
Laura Allen, Lake Tahoe - Truckee Real Estate for Sale TahoeLauraRealEstate.com
Coldwell Banker, Tahoe City, CA (530) 414-1260 - Tahoe City, CA
Tahoe Real Estate Agent Helping Buyers and Sellers

Tammy - So sorry you were sad today.  I can tell your loss is enormous.  Your Grandmother would want you to be happy, so smile and celebrate her legacy!

Mar 23, 2014 04:25 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Tammy. Some days just grab us this way, it's happens to me too. You were lucky to have had your grandmother for a long stretch: I never knew either of mine. Hope pup is better and that you have a brght day today.

Mar 23, 2014 10:11 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

She was Wayne

Sondra- she got to see me in a really happy place in this world before she left.  That helps

Laura- yes, huge.  Most days I celebrate... yesterday I just missed her a lot

Sheila- Glen seems to be fine.  Maybe he just knew I needed a distraction yesterday so he didn't eat and whimpered a little.  He certainly got my attention.  But this morning he seems great.  Gobbled up his breakfast too.  Currently sharing my lap with my laptop too

 

Mar 23, 2014 11:08 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate - St. George, UT
So Utah Residential, Referral & Relocation REALTOR

Tammy, You have her eyes and I believe she is still looking down at you as you go about your daily routines. It is okay to be sad when remembering loved ones because it means you truly miss them. Sending comforting thoughts in your direction!

Mar 24, 2014 02:12 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

I believe that too Wanda.  And at the end of her life she looked so much like her mom too.  I think I'm a blend of both my parents (I also look a lot like my dad's mom too)  And I was fortunate enough to have all my grands long enough to get to know them.  My daughter has been more fortunate.  She's going to be 26 soon and still has all of her grands.

Mar 24, 2014 03:53 AM
Marshall Enterprises
Marshall Enterprises - Saint Michael, MN
Antiques, Lawn Care, and Trashouts

I know that pain.  But, it is great to have the memories, and any conversation with my departed mother makes me feel better.  I always feel that she can hear me somehow.  

Bless you, Tammy.

Mar 25, 2014 03:10 AM
Dana Hollish Hill
Hollish Hill Group, JPAR Stellar Living - Bethesda, MD
REALTOR * Broker * Coach

I feel for you. It was just the 14th anniversary of my father's passing and it gets to me every year. It's on Good Friday, but we call it Bad Friday in my family. You are fortunate that your daughter got to know her. I hope your day is filled with great memories. 

Apr 23, 2014 02:13 PM

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