If I could create my own planet, I would mandate megadoses of empathy

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Real Estate Agent with Bradfield Ramsey Group

If I could create my own planet, I would mandate mega doses of empathy 

This is a fun post that is tied to an Active rain contest regarding the planet and how we could save/change/better it. 

I believe that the basic ingredient that would have immediate and long term effects is empathy. It is the root of kindness. It is tough being kind if you cannot understand the other person's position and feelings about that position. 

Kind Doctor in my empathetic planetI believe that everyone's heart is good and that their mask the public sees may not be so hot. We all come out good. It is in there somewhere for everyone. 

We could test for empathy right along with other annual tests and checkups. If someone's empathy started dropping.... the vaccination or series of tablets would begin (as an empathetic doctor, s/he would know if someone might be afraid of needles).

Parents, all empathetic, would know when their child was having a decrease in empathy and reach out to get him/her help.

 

Bullies would be out of business... but then again, they would not be bullies because of their empathetic parents and friends.

Wars would be impossible..maybe all that money would be spent on food, housing, and some fabulous annual festivals!!

Teachers would be empathetic if the dog really DID eat the homework and students would be empathetic enough to not blow off their teacher.

Dog eating homework in an empathetic worldWords in our dictionary would be so little used,  we would vaguely remember them... lying, cheating, stealing, killing, raping, vandalizing, conning, bombing, strife, viciousness, arrogance, vengeance, genocide, hatred and a myriad of other terms in use now.

Poverty and hunger would be non existent. It would be impossible for us as a planet to allow it or ignore it.

Government spending would be radically redesigned because the military budget would no longer be needed. We could move forward without fear of attack or retaliation.

The difficulties could be interesting... instead of folks lining up for food, folks would line up to feed. Instead of wars, there could be major traffic jams with festivals...but then again, the drivers would be empathetic and so would their bosses if they were late to work as a result.

Who is in? My planet welcomes you!

 

If I could create my own planet, I would mandate megadoses of empathy 

 

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Our Colorado Mountain river communities: A Snapshot

 

Salida ColoradoSalida:  As quoted in the 2004 edition of Outside Magazine, Salida is “Sweetly unpretentious” as they ranked it as one of their “Dream Towns and Adventure Hideouts.” You might agree. Our community of 6,500 (9700 counting the surrounding homes) is surrounded by Forest Service and BLM lands, a haven for bicyclists, campers, folks who love to fish, hikers, skiers, nature photographers and hunters. It is a lovely natural setting with several converging mountain ranges  (We have15 peaks surrounding us that reach over 14,000 feet in elevation).

 We are known for being the Banana Belt of Colorado and this area is known as one of the Colorado River Towns. The Arkansas River winds its way through the Arkansas Valley, through downtown Salida and more; creating an invitation to rafters, kayakers, fishers, and “beach lovers” alike.

 Salida’s charming downtown area had the largest historical downtown district in Colorado. We have blocks and blocks of Victorian and other historic buildings. Because so many folks also come here to play, we have many of the advantages of a smaller resort town: great restaurants, 22 art galleries, fabulous boutiques, outdoor sportswear stores, and an array of shops for music, kitchen, sports, natural foods, children, books, knitters, and quilters.

 

 

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Poncha Springs COPoncha Springs: Poncha Springs is a small Salida “bedroom community” (population of 474 but a few thousand when you consider the outlying neighborhoods and ranches). Because it was surrounded  by hot springs (99 nearby) and had a strong early  influence of Spanish culture, the community became known as  Poncho (meaning cape and warmth) Springs. In 1924, the town officially became Poncha Springs.

 

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 Howard ColoradoHoward: Howard, part of what is known as Pleasant Valley, is nestled along the Arkansas River as it snakes its way from Salida to Canon City. Some of the early settlers in the area were prospectors (some still pan for gold in the tributaries of the Arkansas).  Besides gold and silver, rhyolite, travertine, and limestone were sought after. Just a bit north of Howard is a tiny community of Wellsville where the locals used to soak on their time off in the natural hot pools. The area became more populated when the Rio Grande Railroad came through. Today, Howard is a charming, quiet ranch community and “bedroom Community” for folks who work in Salida. Many avid fly fishing folks have 2nd homes here. I love this valley.

 

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Coaldale Colorado

 

Coaldale: Coaldale, a tiny community just SE of Howard opens up into a lovely, meadow-like area with many horse properties, ranches, and folks who like the open meadows and surrounding mountains. It got its name from being called Charcoal Valley. In the early days, the Pinon Pines were burnt in beehive kilns to turn them into coals used for the silver smelters in Leadville Co and Pueblo CO. Some of the early kilns can still be seen. Every valley in Coaldale has a creek in it and with just a few minutes drive to the west, you can be on national forest trails. Absolutely lovely community.

 

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This image can be found at http://www.colorado.com/CotopaxiCotopaxi: Cotopaxi, named after an Ecuadorian Volcano, grew from being a “whistle stop” for the Rio Grande railroad. Now it is known for world class white water rafting and fly fishing. Folks who live around here can commute for work to either Canon City, further east or back to Salida..it is almost midway between the two. Cotopaxi is a great location for vacation/second home or your primary residence if you don’t mind the commute or can work from home.

 

 

 

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This image can be found at http://www.sunset.com/travel/rockies/ways-to-warm-up-in-salidaNathrop:  Nathrop, a quiet community north of Salida has always been known as the access point to Mount Princeton Hot Springs. To this day, folks come to soak in the restorative waters. It is my personal favorite in hot springs because the 104-degree water not only comes into the soaking and lap pools but comes out in Chalk Creek, running alongside the pools. I can spend all day there with a book, adjusting the rocks so that the water is neither hot nor cold. Lovely. Many folks choose to live in the area because of access to the hot springs and national forest.

 

 

 

 

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This image can be found at http://www.rockies.com/colorado/city-guides/buena-vista-colorado.htmlBuena Vista: Buena Vista was named after it’s stunning 360-degree views. Folks originally settled here because of the gold mining. Later, families began farming and ranching as they discovered the good soil in the area. The stagecoach and subsequent railroad brought more families to the area. With a population of about 2500 people, the town remains quiet and gracious. It is known as the best kept secret place to stay for folks skiing at the premier resorts near Denver and Aspen…because the town is so friendly and hotel rates are inexpensive. It is a few miles from Cottonwood Creek Hot Springs and Mt. Princeton.

 

Real Estate in Buena Vista Colorado

 

Crestone...beginning of the sunsetCrestone: Unique, magical and beautiful are words that tumble out of my mouth when I think of Crestone. The tiny town proper is 150 and the surrounding area is no more than 1500 when everyone is home. The magic of Crestone however, is its history. Early on, a rancher was instructed to bequeath parcels of his ranch to spiritual groups around the world which he did. It is now known for having the most diverse spiritual community in the world. Spiritual seekers in North America eventually hear about Crestone. And, it generally takes knowing a local or more than one visit for the fullness of the area to emerge…the 5 creeks heading up into the Sangre de Cristos, the temples hidden in the trees, the lovely residents and the “happening”. The local newspaper, the Crestone Eagle, has calendars of event for local happenings that rival a town 10 times its size. If you want a sanctuary, Crestone offers just that.

 

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Comments (21)

John G. Johnston
John G. Johnston & Associates, LLC - Westcliffe, CO
An Exclusive Buyer's Agent ~ Westcliffe, CO

Paula  Ditto on joining Rotary!  Empathy, huh...I'll think about it!  Loved this one and thanks for sharing.

Apr 06, 2014 03:18 AM
Belinda Spillman
Aspen Lane Real Estate Colorful Colorado - Aurora, CO
Colorado Living!

Paula,  a little empathy for our fellow humans and animals can go a long way. Everyone has a good heart as you said.  Great post. 

Apr 06, 2014 04:29 AM
Paula Bradfield
Bradfield Ramsey Group - Salida, CO
Your Salida Colorado area Realtor Team

Waye ad Jean and John.... hmmmmm. I think i need to join Rotary!!

 

Belinda, soooo true. Towards animals and humans. Thanks.

Apr 06, 2014 06:37 AM
Anne Hensel
South Beaches Real Estate Professionals - Saint Petersburg, FL
Realtor - Broker - St. Pete Beach, Treasure Island

I am moving to your planet!!  You have some great points! Thanks!

Apr 06, 2014 09:10 AM
Sondra Meyer:
Colorado Springs, CO
See It. Experience It. Live It.

Paula, it would be a wonderful place in your world with megadoses of empathy! 

Apr 06, 2014 09:36 AM
Paula Bradfield
Bradfield Ramsey Group - Salida, CO
Your Salida Colorado area Realtor Team

Anne, Come on over. we have plenty of room and really nice folks.

Sondra, so true right?

Apr 06, 2014 10:08 PM
Karen Mathers - REALTOR®
Keller Williams Vero Beach - Vero Beach, FL
When it Matters, Choose Mathers! 772-532-3221

I have witnessed individuals that lack empathy and it is very sad.  What a wonderful world you envision - can you even imagine the different careers that would bloom and/or disappear as a result!

Apr 07, 2014 01:01 AM
Paula Bradfield
Bradfield Ramsey Group - Salida, CO
Your Salida Colorado area Realtor Team

Karen, careers! I dd not even think of that! Yep. Some pretty cool new careers would ensue,right?

Apr 07, 2014 01:03 AM
Evelyn Kennedy
Alain Pinel Realtors - Alameda, CA
Alameda, Real Estate, Alameda, CA

Paula:  I want to live on your planet.  What a great idea if we could no longer use the works you mention and get rid of bullies.  Nice post.

Apr 07, 2014 05:09 AM
Paula Bradfield
Bradfield Ramsey Group - Salida, CO
Your Salida Colorado area Realtor Team

Evelyn, Thanks! Yes, our kids would not even get what a bully was since they never experienced it. 

Apr 07, 2014 10:10 PM
ReadySetLoan Condo Approval Team
ReadySetLoan Condo Team LLC - South Windsor, CT
The FHA/VA Condo Project Approval Specialists

Paula - it's amazing how much change can be brought about by one simple little word.  Thank you for posting :)

Apr 07, 2014 10:35 PM
Tammy Emineth
Personal SEO - Website SEO and Real Estate Marketing - Marysville, WA
Content Marketer, SEO Teacher, Website Fixer

oh  man, that would be amazing.. I'm trying to think of other disadvantages and I think you did a great job.. Wow, what a wonderful world!

Apr 08, 2014 03:21 AM
Paula Bradfield
Bradfield Ramsey Group - Salida, CO
Your Salida Colorado area Realtor Team

Eric, thanks for stopping by. Truly. One word would change it all!

Tammy, yep pretty cool place to live, right?

Apr 08, 2014 10:04 PM
Suzanne McLaughlin
Sabinske & Associates, Inc. (Albertville, St. Michael) - Saint Michael, MN
Sabinske & Associates, Realtor

I am rereading Wuthering Heights....oh, yes, empathy is long underrated.

Apr 09, 2014 10:43 AM
Paula Bradfield
Bradfield Ramsey Group - Salida, CO
Your Salida Colorado area Realtor Team

Suzanne, i loved that book. Is it a second read for you? Thanks for stopping by!

Apr 09, 2014 10:47 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Save me a space on your perfect planet!

Apr 11, 2014 08:29 AM
Ed Silva
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

Paula, there's a lot of good that can be accomplished when it comes from a caring heart. You have a nice planet

Apr 14, 2014 11:57 PM
Paula Bradfield
Bradfield Ramsey Group - Salida, CO
Your Salida Colorado area Realtor Team

Margaret, you have a guaranteed space, my dear!

 

Ed, yes. A caring heart is what it is all about. Thanks for stopping by

Apr 15, 2014 12:31 PM
1~Judi Barrett
Integrity Real Estate Services 118 SE AVE N, Idabel, OK 74745 - Idabel, OK
BS Ed, Integrity Real Estate Services -IDABEL OK

Empathy goes a loooooong way toward getting along with others!  Save me a spot please.

Apr 19, 2014 07:24 AM
Paula Bradfield
Bradfield Ramsey Group - Salida, CO
Your Salida Colorado area Realtor Team

Judi, soooo true. You have a guaranteed spot on this planet!

Apr 29, 2014 10:07 PM

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