Thank You!

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408

I owe a big “thank you” to all of my friends on AR for your support. A very big Thank you, indeed.

Life is full of surprises. No surgery in the plans, but how little all our plans mean...

My cardiologist did not like the results of a recent stress test, said they needed to look inside and, probably, add another stent to my collection of 3.

So, I went for catheterization. They found multiple blockages, and did not put another stent. They told me I was getting a quadruple bypass. They tried to calm me down, but I had no fear and was not worrying. After all, we are afraid of pain and suffering, but I knew that I would be sleeping through the whole 4-hour open heart surgery.

White Flowers as symbol of life

I remember in 1973 back in the Soviet Union a high ranking friend of mine gave me a copy of beautiful magazine “America”. On the cover in the glasses of surgeon Michael DeBakey you could see the reflection of the heart of the President of the Soviet Academy of Sciences Mstyslav Keldysh. It was a coronary bypass surgery…

It was so rare, that only few could do it. Either the President of Academy of Science in 1973, or President of Russia Yeltsyn in 1996…

Now, at least in the United States, it became quite a standard procedure, performed by so many surgeons around the country. I believe at 200,000 a year, it is the most common surgery in the nation. And you don’t have to be a President, or a celebrity.

Times change…

So, here I am. Everything was fine, but a surgery weakened me, and I slept a lot. Yes, I walked next day, but then needed a rest…

I am getting better every day. Getting to bed and out of bed on my own is a big achievement. On a par with walking 2 miles on the beach, which was a bit overkill, as returning was a challenge, but I am learning my limitations, and there are fewer of them with time.

They let me home at hte end of the 4th day after the surgery. Next morning I was sitting in front of the computer in the social room of our condo, because we just moved, and did ot yet have Internet in the condo, and I was working the auction. I wanted to win this property badly. It became even symbolic to me, but no symbol would make me go crazy. We won. I knew I was back... Even though I was completely exhausted :)

And yet my heart hurts. Not from physical pain. For quite a few months we do not have any word about Karen Anne Stone, who underwent an open heart surgery, I believe she was geting a new valve, and, obviously, there were serious complications. Members were trying to contact Karen Anne, few managed, but the ties were severed by her daughter, and we do not know what is happening with Karen Anne. We can't support and comfort her, give her such needed love...

When I was writing about Karen Anne, I had no clue, that I would have an open heart surgery, and go through a healing process, but what I know is that a huge part of this healing process was the support from Active Rain community. I was too weak to respond, but I had tears in my eyes, and my gratitude was and is overwhelming.

Thank you

* Photo by Iryna Yeroshko via Flickr.com

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I am so very glad that you are getting better and know you will be back to full steam in no time!

 

Apr 17, 2014 11:45 AM #52
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Glad to hear you are on the road to recovery.  It is amazing that this procedure now is deemed "routine."  We really do have 9 lives these days.  Stay well.

Apr 17, 2014 11:50 AM #53
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Jon, so glad to hear that you're feeling good enough to blog. That's an improvement. I wish you the best my friend.

Apr 17, 2014 11:59 AM #54
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Thanks Jon - not only for the wonderful update about your own progress, but also as a reminder to continue to hold Karen Anne in our thoughts and prayers!  Rest well and easily - but I hope to be reading your wisdom again often ... and soon!

Apr 17, 2014 12:24 PM #55
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Jon, I'm glad that you are feeling better.  I am thrilled to hear about your progress!  I look forward to receiving your next progress report.

Apr 17, 2014 12:51 PM #56
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Jon, so glad you're back, and on the mend. I too miss Karen Anne and think of her often.  Congratulations on winning the auction, but please follow dr's orders and don't over do.

Apr 17, 2014 02:22 PM #57
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Welcome back, Jon - you showed your true-self in just one sentence....love it ---

"We won. I knew I was back.."

Apr 17, 2014 03:06 PM #58
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So glad to hear you are doing well, and welcome back. It is amazing the progress doctors have made.  Years ago, it was amazing to watch that movie about blue babies and first open heart surgery and it's amazing how far the medical profession has come.

I also think about Karen Anne Stone often and hope she is/will be doing okay.

Apr 17, 2014 09:09 PM #59
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Glad to hear you're well on your way to recovery. Keep working hard!

Apr 17, 2014 10:54 PM #60
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Jon, my Dad had this same surgery 2 1/2 years ago at 86 and he rallied back quite nicely. I am sure you will do the same. Glad to have you back!

Apr 17, 2014 11:00 PM #61
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Jon, you are going to win some more deals soon! Just take your time to recover fully. And hoping that Karen Anne will show up soon. Love & prayers...

Apr 17, 2014 11:07 PM #62
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Jon,  Wishing you the best.

Apr 17, 2014 11:24 PM #63
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Jon, I hope you have a "refuah shleimah"; a complete and speedy recovery. Thank G-d, between what medicine can offer us and the way the body is capable of healing we can overcome so much! May you find yourself having more strength every day. Karen Anne knows that the AR community doesn't "quit" on one of its members. You know that, too!

Apr 17, 2014 11:39 PM #64
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Nice to see you back, Jon.

 

Apr 18, 2014 12:49 AM #65
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Lyn Sims
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Speedy recovery & may your strength return soon. Glad to see you are back.

Apr 18, 2014 10:13 AM #66
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Wishing you a speedy recovery!

Apr 18, 2014 05:27 PM #67
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Jon, Saw your post on the daily email from AR and want to wish you all the best with your recovery.  May you grow strong along with the awakening plants and flowers of Spring!

All the best!
Gloria

Apr 19, 2014 07:15 AM #68
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Jon so pleased to hear you're doing as well as you are so far. I have no doubt that you'll be up and totally recovered in a shorter time than imagined.  Take it easy and listen to your care givers....they care!

Karen Anne has been on my mind a lot...and I too wish we could be able to support her.  Perhpaps there is another way...

Apr 19, 2014 12:57 PM #69
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I really have not met you before.  But I am glad you are doing well.

Apr 21, 2014 02:30 AM #70
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Jon - I wasn't here much when all this went down but am so very glad things are fine now for you.  There are a plethora of folks here that care about you and the above comments are just a small example of that.  Keep well, amigo.

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