The Soul of a Home - You can't see it, but it's there.

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with ViewHomes of Clark County - Nature As Neighbors

The Soul of a Home - You can't see it, but it's there.

HomeYou can sense it, or the lack of it, in homes. It’s a feeling, often a physical or emotional connection one seems to get in a certain house. I remember when we sold one of our own homes 7 years ago, the other Realtor told me the buyer dropped to her knees and cried when she walked through the door. “ This is it,” she said happily, “ I’m home.” 

While that might be an extreme example of the link one can feel to a specific property, it illustrates this phenomenon. It’s a powerful sales closing tool, and yet, we have absolutely no control over it. One person’s instant comfort and recognition of “home,” is often processed quite differently by another. 

In Search of the Right “Vibe”

HomeRight now, I’m working with buyers who not only fully grasp this concept, it’s how we’re finding their next home.  As baby boomers, the next property they purchase will be their last. They have a very finite set of requirements - two masters, two offices, a guest room, lots of natural light, a sense of privacy, a large kitchen with gas cook stove, and a certain vibe. 

The vibe they seek is one of warmth and relaxation, akin to a retreat. Not only do they thrive in that environment, but they want their guests to feel the same. They believe a home is far more than a structure, and if purchased with a pure and loving intent, can provide a foundation for profound success and contentment. 

The Process 

In the meantime, I’ve spent enough time with them to know when a listing has a certain set of criteria, beyond the obvious, to be a possible match. In order to spare them trips, they’ve entrusted me to visit a home first, to see if it’s worth their hour drive to see it in person. It’s an honor - and a lot of responsibility. 

Yesterday, we almost found it - the only caveat - a pool on the property. After much thought, they decided that the addition of that feature went beyond the scope of what they’re trying to accomplish. They even toyed with the idea of filling it in and using the space as a music room. Eventually, we concluded, the expense and energy wasn’t worth it. 

When we left the home ( after the third visit ) Mrs. Buyer thanked me for capturing the essence of what they’re looking for, and said, “You nailed it.” It takes a lot of extra thought and energy to find a home in this manner, but when you finally find it,  the sense of accomplishment is enormous. It’s going to bring me great joy to find a home with the right soul-match for these terrific people. 

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Re-Blogged 4 times:

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  1. Christine Pappas - REALTOR® 04/30/2014 09:06 PM
  2. Will Nesbitt 05/01/2014 12:46 AM
  3. Tammie White, Broker 05/03/2014 02:37 PM
  4. Winston Heverly 08/03/2014 03:39 PM
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Rene Fabre
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Debb... this a fabulous read and make so many excellent points! I love your sense of focus to what resonates to the person/people/family that would live there. What are their real needs, what kind of space simply makes them feel good, and what's within and outside their scope. Both SFD's I've own, I felt that personal resonance... Yes, this is the place! I see the possibilities. You say it well, "I want a place, a home, an environment I can thrive in! Well done! Homes do have souls and I want a mate!

Apr 29, 2014 10:35 AM #51
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Bette Gottwald
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Debb, Your post was very enjoyable to read. I can always tell when my Buyers start placing furniture and repainting, they have the "tingle" and found "the one."

Apr 29, 2014 11:19 AM #52
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Marte Cliff
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I truly believe that homes hold the energy of people who have come before - for good or for not so good. Strangely, over the years I've seen homes that were purchased multiple times - then sold due to divorce.

Apr 29, 2014 01:37 PM #53
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Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
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Great job of nailing it, Debb!  That's part of what we're supposed to do when we make our magic happen!  

Apr 29, 2014 02:12 PM #54
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Sharon Parisi
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Debb, I love homes that look and feel happy and loved.  Homes take on the feeling of the people who occupy them.

Apr 29, 2014 03:11 PM #55
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Inna Ivchenko
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I think for all of us recognizing the buyers expression '' this is the one''  and hearing '' you nailed it!'' are very joyful moments:)

Congratulations on finding a home for your clients!

Apr 29, 2014 05:31 PM #56
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Michael Jacobs
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Hi Debb - indeed some homes have "it"while others simply don't speak and it does vary from house to house.  Just like in real life...we often know "it" when we see "it"

Apr 29, 2014 05:42 PM #57
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Terrific story!  It makes me very happy to hear when realator's understand how big an emotional investment our buyers are making. It is never just a house or just a loan for them. This is a huge deal and the joy, and sometimes the tears, are testament to that. Great job for connecting with your buyers on such a basic level!  That is what keeps them coming back for more!

Apr 30, 2014 08:10 AM #58
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Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD
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I so appreciate reading all of your stories, thoughts and comments. I will spend my time responding on your blog posts. But want you to know I have read each of you comments and am enjoying them greatly.  For the few of you who don't believe a house has a soul - or character - that's okay. Different opinions make the world the go round, right?

Apr 30, 2014 08:18 AM #59
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Debb I'm so glad Will Nesbitt re-posted this I had almost missed you!  We were working with a first time buyer yesterday.  She was getting discouraged.  I told her don't worry when the right home comes along you will know.  She asked how?  My response you will just know.... it will speak to you and say I am your home.

Debbie ~

May 01, 2014 01:00 AM #60
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Q-man, thanks. I'll have to thank Will - and thanks for the re-visit.  ( Good advice to your new home buyer)

May 01, 2014 07:13 AM #61
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I love this post!  I am so glad that I didn't miss it.....HOpe you are having a soulful day!

May 04, 2014 12:00 AM #62
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Hi, Debb!  Just wanted to let you know that I included this post in today's Last Week's Favorites. 

May 04, 2014 12:45 AM #63
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Thanks Kristine. ;)

Hi there Pat - Thank YOU. I'm very appreciative.

May 04, 2014 01:16 AM #64
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Maureen Bray Portland OR Home Stager ~ Room Solutions Staging
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Debb ~ Love this post because it speaks of a very important, but not often discussed, aspect in house-hunting.  I can feel the "soul" in a home when I walk around in it .... some homes don't emit happy feelings, which are ones I'd rather leave quickly.  Homes and their surroundings play such a critical role in our lives, that it surprises me that more people don't pay attention to this detail.

May 04, 2014 02:37 AM #65
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Joan Whitebook
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This is so true.  I have folks that walk into a house and they definately get a sense of the "soul" of the home.  Some are "happy" houses and some are "sad" houses.. and some are "just right."

May 04, 2014 12:18 PM #66
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Debb... I think it's awesome that you preview the house to make sure it's for them before you have them drive out to see it... so few agents do that these day... good for you..

May 05, 2014 03:17 AM #67
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Thanks Maureen, Joan and Witt's, glad you are aware of this phenomenon - and not sure why some folks "don't get it."

May 05, 2014 03:25 AM #68
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Kris Painter
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That is so true! Sometimes our industry forgets this vital fact! As agents we need to bring out the soul of a home and share it's story. I would have been crying with your client, what a great experience!

May 05, 2014 11:12 AM #69
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Debb, it is somewhat amazing how when a buyer finds the right house, they most often immediately know it. The same often holds true for when a buyer finds a home they don't like, it's also most often an immediate recognition.

May 06, 2014 04:03 AM #70
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