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How long will it take for my home to sell? Showing Anxiety Syndrome

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Real Estate Agent with Keller Williams First Coast Realty - The Marro Team

As part of being a Jacksonville Realtor and home stager, my job is to set appropriate expectations for my sellers. when we sit down at the table to discuss listing their home, we discuss important aspects like price, neighborhood comps, condition, and staging recommendations. One of the biggest questions I'm asked is, "How long will it take to sell my home?" 

Breaking down the comps, we can always see a trend. While there will always be homes that sit for an extended period of time, a market trend for their neighborhood will emerge. I've found, however, that no matter how you break this down the vast majority of sellers will end up with what I call SAS, or Showing Anxiety Syndrome. 

What is Showing Anxiety Syndrome? 

Let's say that the comps show that your neighborhood's average days on market is 30 days. We let the seller know that professional staging and photography along with proper pricing should help them beat the market comps, but that they should expect the time from listed to offer will probably take 2 or 3 weeks. 

Suddenly after about 2 or 3 showings, probably by the end of the first week, the seller inevidably will come back asking us, "Why haven't we received an offer yet?" and "How much longer?"

You see, SAS always comes down to the fact that sellers never think that they'll be on par with market comps. It's much the same way that they feel that their home is worth more than any other home in the neighborhood. 

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Creating appropriate seller expectations

Going back to that moment at the listing table, when they begin asking the question, "How long will it take me to sell my home?" I take a few moments to set appropriate expectations. I not only tell them what the market says, I tell them about Showing Anxiety Syndrome. 

"Just to let you know, no matter how many days I tell you the average is, you'll ignore it. Every seller feels the same way. After each showing, you'll anxiously await the feedback from the buyer's agent. I can tell you that it will take 30 days to sell, but after only a few showings you'll begin to wonder what you need to do to make the home sell. Why hasn't it sold yet?"

By acknowledging SAS upfront, at the listing table, it gives me more room later into the listing period... and when I say later, I really mean a week or two from list date... to remind the seller that this will take time and that we are doing everything we can to create a beautiful, welcoming home for potential buyers. 

I remind them of the steps that we've taken, doing all of the preparation prior to listing, including professional staging and photography. I remind them that we are priced correctly and reassert how long the market says it will take. 

When the offer comes.... 

The beautiful thing is that when we do everything that we were supposed to do to get the home ready prior to listing, about 98% of the time we statistically beat the market. When the offer finally does come, the seller has been told that they will have to wait x number of days and now we are significantly less than that. I call this the Scotty effect. 

In Star Trek (that's right, I'm a trekkie and not afraid to admit it), Scotty always told Jim that it would take significantly longer than it was really going to take. This created the sense that he was a miracle worker when he managed to accomplish the task ahead of schedule. (Which is great because in Star Trek the time he quoted means that either the ship, or the universe would meet with dire consequences.) 

Managing expectations up front always reduces Seller SAS, creating a much smoother transaction, and ultimately a glowing review of your services.

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 Author Bio: Melissa Marro, Home Staging Industry leader, Realtor, and entrepreneur offers a unique perspective on New Home Construction, Resale Residential Real Estate, and Home Staging

For more information on buying or selling in the Fleming Island, Orange Park, or Jacksonville, area, visit StageListSellNEFL.com or call Melissa Marro (marro.melissa at gmail.com), Keller Williams First Coast Realty, for more information (904-466-2093).

 

Comments(58)

Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

Seller's Anxiety is a very common ailment but it still only takes the right buyer to relieve all that stress. Unless of course it's the first buyer on the first day then a different stress takes over.

May 23, 2014 06:03 AM
Kathy Booth, Setting the Stage
Setting the Stage - Newmarket, ON
Home Staging and ReDesign Professional

Love that term SAS! 

May 23, 2014 06:21 AM
Mary Hutchison, SRES, ABR
Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate-Kansas City Homes - Kansas City, MO
Experienced Agent in Kansas City Metro area

I tell my sellers: when your home is on the market for a week, to you it will feel like it's been on the market a month.  Enjoyed this post very much

May 23, 2014 06:24 AM
Nora Sims
Northern Shadows Realty, Inc. - Sedona, AZ
helping folks like you since 1978!

Thank you for the post.

May 23, 2014 06:55 AM
John DL Arendsen
CREST "BACKYARD' HOMES, ON THE LEVEL General & Manufactured Home Contractor, TAG Real Estate Sales & Investments - Leucadia, CA
Crest Backyard Homes "ADU" dealer & RE Developer

Other than an accurate Crystal Ball, Timing and Positioning is the key ingredient to an expedient RE transaction.

May 23, 2014 07:35 AM
Melissa Brown
Helen Adams Realty - Charlotte, NC
Realtor - South Charlotte NC Homes for Sale

Melissa, what an excellent and engaging post!  You had me laughing with the SAS and the Scottie effect.  I totally get it, and experience both here in Charlotte.  The main thing to remember is that sellers should do all the work BEFORE the home goes on the market - and 9 times out of 10 their hard work will be rewarded with a good offer!

May 23, 2014 08:22 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

My previous home sold two years ago....I still get butterflies in my stomach when the phone rings now because every time the phone rang while the house was listed my husband would yell "Marion!!!"  (our realtor's name)  in hope that is was an offer!

May 23, 2014 10:36 AM
Roseanne Campagna
John L. Scott RE Maple Valley, WA - Maple Valley, WA
Kent/DesMoines/Blk Diamond/Renton/Maple Valley, WA

Good listing presentation strategy... the flip side is if the offer is too quick they sometimes wonder if they should have listed higher! ;o)

May 23, 2014 01:37 PM
Laura Andersen
Keller Williams Realty Partners ~ 678.462.1191 agentandersen@gmail.com - Woodstock, GA
A HomeSOLD Name (678)462-1191 Woodstock, Georgia

Melissa, I'm assuming that the photo is from one of your listings that you have staged.  If so, your staging is very impressive!  Any seller can count on a quick sale with this staging. 

May 23, 2014 01:46 PM
Virginia Youngblood
DO-STAGE! LLC - an ASPM® Home Staging Company - Charlotte, NC
DO-STAGE! LLC - Home Stager - ASPM®

Great, helpful blog post, Melissa.  Thanks for sharing this . . . and great points from other's comments!

May 23, 2014 02:33 PM
Joan Gale Frank
Big Mouth Communications, LLC - Lake Oswego, OR

Your blog post reminds me of the book I authored which discusses the syndrome called "HSB" or Home Seller's Blues. It is true -- home sellers do get SAS and HSB because they have so much emotionally, financially and logistically riding upon a sale. Many people consider their home a personal statement about themselves, so when their house doesn't sell quickly, they take it personally. I talk about an assortment of remedies for HSB and SAS in the book, "Home Seller's Blues", which is available on the Kindle or as a paperback. This book can be a Realtors' or home sellers best friend!

May 24, 2014 03:20 PM
Dan Derito
Success! Real Estate - Brockton, MA

I like the perspective Melissa. SAS will now be part of the listing presentation for me.  Thank you for the post.

May 24, 2014 09:31 PM
Dee Toohey
Innovative Realty Solutions Group - Longwood, FL
Broker, ABR, AHWD, CIPS, FMS, ePro

I listed a property $10K higher than I wanted to recently and they got three showings the first two days.  They wanted to raise the price!  I said no, showings are not offers.  On day 16, I suggested a reduction.  They would only reduce $5,000 yesterday.  They wanted to know when it would sell, of course.  I have tried managing their SAS but they are divorcing and not on the same page.  It's like pulling teeth!  We'll get there.....

May 24, 2014 11:02 PM
American Brokers Realty Group
American Brokers Realty Group, Inc - Cape Coral, FL

This is very interesting info, I will have to keep this in mind for the future.  Looking forward to more from you.

May 25, 2014 12:31 AM
Sylvia Jonathan
Coldwell Banker Platinum Properties - Irvine, CA
Broker Associate, SFR

When the reason your house does not sell is a combination of traffic noise from a nearby boulevard AND needing $ 8000 worth of new windows, it simply comes down to price. That's the hardest pill to swallow for the seller.

 

May 25, 2014 10:48 AM
Les & Sarah Oswald
Realty One Group - Eastvale, CA
Broker, Realtor and Investor

Hi Melissa,

Your recommendations are noted. Always looking for ways to reduce SAS for sure. Setting your clients expectations too hight to start out with sets everyone up for a failed process.

May 25, 2014 11:56 AM
Nancy Middleton
Counselor Realty, Inc. - Excelsior, MN
Nancy Middleton, Counselor Realty, Minnetonka, MN

Great post, Melissa. Talking about it all upfront honestly and sharing experiences that others have had and why their properties sold slowly or quickly often helps. It does depend on  the price, condition, style, etc. as well as the particular neighborhood, community, city, state, and what  is happening in the market, It is difficutlt for the buyers to understand when they have tales of experiences their friends have had in other areas and different times. Staying in regular contact is one of the best ways to ease their concerns so they know you care and can tell them what is going on and answer their many questions.

Jun 09, 2014 10:07 AM
Dana Hollish Hill
Hollish Hill Group, JPAR Stellar Living - Bethesda, MD
REALTOR * Broker * Coach

Well, I know my childhood dog was the best dog that ever lived so I can see how some people might think their home is better than everything else in the neighborhood. Setting expectations upfront helps in some cases, but I imagine some personalities are more prone to SAS than others. 

Oct 03, 2014 04:28 AM
James Vasquez
James Vasquez, REALTOR | Real Estate Agent - San Antonio, TX

No doubt that selling a house, is an extremely difficult process.  However, I can't agree with you more about setting expectations upfrontwi th the seller.  I always do this when buying houses from sellers in my market (San Antonio, TX).  This way, the seller is expecting a call from you "should" problems arise in the closing process.

Mar 04, 2015 07:05 AM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Melissa Marro, This was a great blog. I started my real estate career with Watson Realty Corp in Fernandina Beach!

Jun 23, 2016 12:09 AM