What it Takes to Be a Successful Agent--"Take Dead Aim"

By
Real Estate Agent with Franklin Homes Realty LLC (615) 495-0752 or www.FranklinHomesRealty.com TN License #326261

golf hazardRight off the top, I can't take credit for that quote. It's from Harvey Pennick, a very famous teacher of the game of golf. It has incredible application to life in general and specifically to achieving your real estate goals, whatever they may be. 

A number of years ago I was in a golf league that conducted an end of the year tournament called "The Horse Race". It was called that because members of the league would place bets on who might win. I'm sure the local police would have frowned on this part of the event, but I gotta say it was great fun!

One year I was playing well and was asked to be one of the ten golfers chosen to play in this event. On each of the nine holes we played, the player with the worst score would be eliminated until after nine holes the last remaining player was the winner. The whole league (over 100 players) would come out and watch this event...on golf carts if you can imagine. The sound after every shot reminded me of the start of the Indianapolis 500!

There was a lot of pressure on those unaccustomed to an audience. My knees were knocking. That day, unlike many others, it was an easy game. I advanced on every hole. Finally, only two of us remained. 

The final hole was a short par three over water with sand bunkers on both sides of the green. If you've ever seen the outstanding movie, "The Greatest Game Ever Played", you know what I mean when I say all I could see in front of me was the sand and a pond the size of Lake Michigan! The green was a tiny speck in the distance even though it was only 135 yards away. 

I swung the club and miraculously the ball landed on the green. All I needed was two putts to win as my opponent had some difficulty off the tee. As I stood over the first putt, then the second putt, and unfortunately, the third putt, my mind fixed itself on all the things that could, and then did, go wrong. I lost my focus on that hole. I lost the match on the next one.  

It's interesting that some of the greatest lessons one can learn about how to be successful, come from those times when we weren't. 

We work with many buyers who have negative thoughts swirling through their heads such as: "Am I paying too much?", "Will the repairs be done on time?", "Will it appraise?" and a lot of other concerns. So many bad things can and occasionally do, happen along that road. Clients rely on us to "keep our heads in the game" and not get distracted by the minor setbacks along the way.

As professionals we need to remain focused, tick off the boxes and keep our eyes on the prize. Take Dead Aim.

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Tom White, REALTOR®
Franklin Homes Realty LLC
(615) 870-8169
 

 

 
 
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Comments (17)

Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Tom,

Great advice, so many "out" of real estate world practices impact real estate and everything else.When we had our firm,  Ron used to take the guys out every Friday morning for a golf game (9) holes, and then I would meet them for breakfast at the club house, and every week, they would have a realization about the game and real estate...The funny one was, "be the ball", and that went on for weeks...LOL A

May 23, 2014 07:52 AM
Anna Banana Kruchten CRS, CRB, Phoenix Broker
HomeSmart Real Estate BR030809000 - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Tom - Score! I've often said people show up on the golf course as they show up in life. And it is staying FOCUSED with a clear intention of where you (or the ball is going to land). Excellent Post!

 

Featured in BananaTude

 

May 23, 2014 08:40 AM
Melissa Zavala
Broadpoint Properties - Escondido, CA
Broker, Escondido Real Estate, San Diego County

Hi Tom. I agree with Anna, that this is a great post. I love how you related a non-indsutry example to real estate, and the story is such a great example. Thanks for your participation in the contest!

May 23, 2014 09:06 AM
Tammie White, Broker
Franklin Homes Realty LLC - Franklin, TN
Franklin TN Homes for Sale

Since I don't know the first thing about golf. Where's that leave me?

May 23, 2014 09:34 AM
Evelyn Johnston
Friends & Neighbors Real Estate - Elkhart, IN
The People You Know, Like and Trust!

A most excellent post Tom, and a moral to the story.  Take Dead Aim and your Eye on the Prize. Suggested

May 23, 2014 11:11 AM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi
NMLS #216987, IL Lic. 031.0006220, WI Licensed. APMC NMLS #175656 - New Lenox, IL
708.921.6331 - 40+ yrs experience

Tom:  Excellent advice.  Fears can become reality, no doubt about it.  I keep telling my wife that my playing golf is a valuable learning experience.  Your story proves it ... 

Gene

May 23, 2014 11:53 AM
Tom White
Franklin Homes Realty LLC (615) 495-0752 or www.FranklinHomesRealty.com - Franklin, TN
Franklin Homes Realty LLC, Franklin TN

Alexandra--Too funny, but there are a great many life lessons to learn from the game.

Anna--Thanks so much for the feature! Staying focused isn't always easy...

Melissa--Your idea for this contest was really thought provoking. I loved it and thanks for the inspiration.

Tammie--It leaves you where you usually are--focused on doing the right thing!

Evelyn--Thank you. I just love that quote by Harvey Pennick. 

Gene--LOL. I've been doing the same thing!

May 23, 2014 01:17 PM
Joe Petrowsky
Mortgage Consultant, Right Trac Financial Group, Inc. NMLS # 2709 - Manchester, CT
Your Mortgage Consultant for Life

Good morning Tom. Thank you for sharing this personal story and the message for all all of us. These are life lessons no to be forgotten.

Make it a great weekend!

May 23, 2014 07:55 PM
Belinda Spillman
Aspen Lane Real Estate Colorful Colorado - Aurora, CO
Colorado Living!

Tom,  Darn - I was hoping you were going to win that round!  Getting to the final two is winning in my book though.  Great job. 

Yes we have to keep our "Eye on the Ball" at all times to be successful. 

Suggested!

May 24, 2014 02:59 AM
Tom White
Franklin Homes Realty LLC (615) 495-0752 or www.FranklinHomesRealty.com - Franklin, TN
Franklin Homes Realty LLC, Franklin TN

Joe--Life lessons have a way of creeping up on you don't they!

Belinda--It's funny the things that make an impact. This took place probably ten years ago and I remember things about that event like it was yesterday. If I'd won, I probably would have forgotten about it. Hmmm.

May 24, 2014 03:12 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate

Tom, we create what we focus on. The mind does not care if it is positive or negative ... fear of missing, or sinking it.  There are huge lessons there!

May 24, 2014 08:37 AM
Tom White
Franklin Homes Realty LLC (615) 495-0752 or www.FranklinHomesRealty.com - Franklin, TN
Franklin Homes Realty LLC, Franklin TN

Kathleen--That is so true. When we focus on those negatives...what a surprise, bad things happen.

May 24, 2014 01:18 PM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, EXP - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

excellent advice Tom, Keep your eye on that goal!

May 24, 2014 03:18 PM
Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD
ViewHomes of Clark County - Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
REALTORS® in Clark County, WA

I'm not much of a golfer, but can sure appreciate the sentiment in this post, Tom. You are so right - focus - keep your eye on the prize and focus on the positive.  Happy Memorial Day weekend to you and Tammie.

May 25, 2014 01:06 AM
Charles Stallions Property Manager
Charles Stallions Real Estate Services - Pace, FL
Pensacola, Pace & Gulf Breeze Property Management

Good breakdown and quite a leap from golf to real estate I hope you have very nice Memorial Day

May 25, 2014 01:03 PM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

Tom, Our fears can be paralyzing. It is good to know we all go through it and get through it.

May 27, 2014 11:11 PM
Tom White
Franklin Homes Realty LLC (615) 495-0752 or www.FranklinHomesRealty.com - Franklin, TN
Franklin Homes Realty LLC, Franklin TN

Bob--Thanks

Debb--We talk often about not getting overwhelmed with the minutae!

Michelle--I'd actually like to tie them a little for closely, LOL. Golf properties perhaps?

Debbie--Yep, we have to keep things in perspective even if we hit a rocky patch!

May 28, 2014 02:51 AM

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