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Interactive Vietnam Veterans Memorial- Now Available Online

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Real Estate Agent with Chuck Willman 9334967-SA00



For those who've ever visited the Vietnam War Memorial, you already understand the sentiment.

It's an experience you may never forget.

I'm from a military family. My father spent more than a year there- it seemed much longer.

Growing up on a military base felt, at times, like living in a colony inhabited by women and children.

Moms were everywhere- at little league and meet the teacher night. Fathers were otherwise engaged.

It seemed that a month didn't pass without a fellow classmate's father or relative being reported as missing in action, being taken prisoner or falling in combat. I can recall the General's car visiting the neighbor's home- informing them of the new status... and the neighbors collapsing into each other's arms.

Such sacrifices were made... and seldom did one hear resentful utterances. The protests occurred off base.

On base, people maintained a dignified and stoic reserve. Privately we prayed for our loved one's safety- and for a speedy resolution to the conflict.

If you've ever wondered why veterans become misty-eyed at the sight of the flag or the sound of the national anthem- well, one can only assume that their reasons are personal... and based on experiences that most likely reside deep within- never to be fully articulated.

It took me more than two decades to finally visit the wall. I had assumed it would be too overwhelming. However, I finally made the pilgrimage. I felt I owed it to my neighbors and relatives. Their names are among just a few of the more than 58,000 servicemen and women who vanished or perished in Vietnam.

Though it doesn't have the same visceral impact, you're now able to look these names up online, where you can find an interactive VietnamVeterans Memorial website. This is the place to search the names and discover background information about each person.

http://go.footnote.com/thewall

I highly recommend it. Ā 

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Chuck Willman's father served in Vietnam while his sister served in Operation Desert Storm. He is a Utah real estate agent.

Comments(18)

Brian Block
RE/MAX Allegiance, Managing Broker/Branch Vice President - McLean, VA
Northern Virginia & D.C. Real Estate
Chuck, visiting the Vietnam Veterans Memorial is certainly among the more emotional experiences you can have in D.C.  Every time I've been there, I'm struck by the solemnity and silence of all the visitors.  The interactive online memorial makes it accessible to many more people who may not have had the chance to visit in person.
Mar 26, 2008 10:08 PM
Kent Simpson
Realty One Group Mountain Desert - Tucson, AZ
Real Estate Is About People
Now that is something special, Chuck.  I've got to share this with a bunch of people.
Mar 27, 2008 01:08 AM
JoEllen Stranger-Thorsen
Eustis, FL
Lake County, FL
Chuck, it's been several years since I visited this memorial. I too was amazed at the silence, the hushed voices. What moved me the most was the personal items that had been placed at the wall. The lives that are represented, the men and women who gave their lives for our country. Thank you for sharing the interactive memorial site.
Mar 27, 2008 01:09 AM
Chuck Willman
Chuck Willman - Alpine, UT
NewHouseUtah.com

Brian- I agree whole-heartedly.

Kent- Thank you- please do. 

Mar 27, 2008 02:58 AM
Chuck Willman
Chuck Willman - Alpine, UT
NewHouseUtah.com
JoEllen- I also was unaware at the wall was not of uniform height. That it's very short in places and taller in others. Details like these make one apply symbolism to the experience.
Mar 27, 2008 04:21 AM
Jo Olson
HOMEFRONT Realty - Kettle Falls, WA
Retired - HOMEFRONT Realty @ LAKE Roosevelt

Chuck, thank you for the information. Vietnam had an impact on my life. In 2003 I was able to visit "The Wall" and spent a large amount of time there - and as you have said "It's an experience you may never forget."

Mar 27, 2008 05:12 AM
Chuck Willman
Chuck Willman - Alpine, UT
NewHouseUtah.com
Jo- I also enjoyed the other memorials and didn't realize how affecting it is to take them all in together.
Mar 27, 2008 06:32 AM
Chuck Willman
Chuck Willman - Alpine, UT
NewHouseUtah.com
Note: for those who had trouble with the site yesterday... patience- they are experiencing overwhelming traffic, which is heartening to know that there are that many people interested in visiting.
Mar 28, 2008 04:41 AM
Liz Moras Migic
Chilliwack, BC
Chilliwack, British Columbia - Realtor

Wow -that was moving!  As a Canadian I sometimes feel like we take the 'observer' status an awful lot.......reading your blog I was touched again about how families with fathers/sons/daughters affected...........your talked about the General's car arriving and my heart started pounding - I've only seen that on tv..........and can only imagine how devastating that would be..........Thank you for sharing the interactive video.

I also wanted to thank you for responding to my 'million dollar blog'...........i'm amazed at how conservative many people are!  cool...........then I read your website - and liked your idea about 'searching' for hidden gems - ie. properties..........what a neat way of looking at it.............a Treasure Hunt.........thats what you do for work!  Now how cool is that?  lol.........Lizzie

Mar 29, 2008 05:24 AM
Chuck Willman
Chuck Willman - Alpine, UT
NewHouseUtah.com

Liz- Thanks for visiting. Of all the blogs I've written, this was the most difficult and personal- and, believe me, I've left out a great deal. Whether one is of a "military-solution" mindset or a complete pacifist there is one inescapable reality- Many people have put their lives on the line. We may never know their complete motivations nor might we understand the complexities of emotion or their individual frame of politics. We do know though that they've made the ultimate sacrifice in the name of service to their country and fellow citizens. I'm touched that so many people, servicemen and women and civilian alike, have the opportunity to go to a single place to somehow come to grips with the reality of the event that shaped the lives of millions of people. You can feel the reverence ... and somehow, it's as if you're on hallowed ground. I'm very very glad I finally made it there. 

Mar 29, 2008 06:25 AM
Stanton Homes
Stanton Homes - New Home Builder - Raleigh, NC
Design/Build Custom Home Builder in North Carolina
Chuck - Thank you for a very personal story.  We too often forget the families the soldiers leave behind while they are deployed.  Whether we agree with the conflicts or not, we need to support, and remember, the people that make that committment, and sometimes give all they have.   
Mar 30, 2008 07:56 AM
Chuck Willman
Chuck Willman - Alpine, UT
NewHouseUtah.com
Penny- I thank you for your visit to my post. This is one of those personal things that's difficult to share. I didn't want to underplay the sacrifice nor did I want to overwhelm with politics. I think the reason the "wall" resonates with people is because of its simplicity. I hope those who visit this blog will want to visit the memorial. 
Mar 30, 2008 09:35 AM
Cynthia Tilghman, RealtorĀ® Onslow County NC Home Specialist
Kingsbridge Realty, Inc - Hubert, NC
Hi Chuck,
Thank you for sharing such a very personal story, I could feel your pain in the words.  I have visited the wall and it is a very humbling and touching experience even though I am too young to remember the war.  Now that I work with military families, I have a much better understanding and appreciation of their dedication and sacrifices.  
Apr 01, 2008 12:37 AM
Chuck Willman
Chuck Willman - Alpine, UT
NewHouseUtah.com
Cynthia- Thanks for stopping by; your kind words are very welcome. I agree... while working with those who are in the military you quickly feel that there's is a duty that is quite admirable. I'm appreciative that we have people willing to do what they do.
Apr 01, 2008 05:46 AM
Bob Cumiskey
A1 Connection Realty, Inc. - Sun City Center, FL
US Army Retired, Your Sun City Center, Florida ~ Realtor
Chuck, thanks for a great post.  Having been a Vietnam vet, I took my kids with me to see the wall when stationed in the DC area.  I think it was the first time they ever saw me cry. It is by far one of the most moving tributes I have ever encountered.
Apr 07, 2008 07:21 AM
Chuck Willman
Chuck Willman - Alpine, UT
NewHouseUtah.com
Bob- Thanks for your comment... more importantly- thank you very much for serving this great country.
Apr 07, 2008 08:05 AM
Ross Quintana
Real E Smarter - Spokane, WA
Real E Smarter Real Estate Coach - 509-362-1966

Thank you for your service! Thank you for posting this, it's very touching and the message couldn't be more timley. And thank you to all of the service men and women who have served our country!

Apr 07, 2008 09:00 AM
Chuck Willman
Chuck Willman - Alpine, UT
NewHouseUtah.com
So glad you found the post Ross... also, thanks for your thoughtful comments.
Apr 07, 2008 09:04 AM