Read This....and Stay Safe at an Open House or Showing Property!

By
Real Estate Broker/Owner with Don Sabinske, Sabinske & Associates Inc. 539MN

Most of us go about our business not worrying about being assaulted.  Women, sometimes, are victims of an unprovoked attack and can be completely surprised by someone they "thought they knew." 

Before this happens to you, please read the following and see if it is something that you could do in a life-threatening situation. 

It is important first of all to know that you can do it.  And then to practice it until it becomes something you can feel confident doing. 

First of all, you need to act immediately upon feeling threatened.  Better to get them before they get you.  So, if you have that "odd feeling", it is better to apologize later than to be a victim now. 

The majoritiy of people who attack are bullies, and they may just come at you for no apparent reason.  They will not expect you to strike back, and especially to know their pressure points.  You must act fast and without hesitation.  Otherwise, they will just be more aggressive. 

First jab your forefinger and middle finger into a point between the collar bones just under the Adam's apple (we are assuming this is a man, but it works on anyone).  Jab as hard as you possibly can, this causes extreme pain, shock and cuts off the air supply.  It will at least stop the attacker from coming any closer momentarily.

Then, after you have shocked him, kick him in the groin as hard as you can muster.  Don't worry about your dress, your appearance or anything else.  Get to that as quickly as possible before they have time to recover from the strike to the neck.

Now, that you have his attention, slap attacker's ears with both hands and do it as hard as you It will make them try to defend their head while the pain in the groin and the neck are still smarting. 

Now, jab the eyes. And go for the gusto.  See if you can push as hard to the back of the head as possible.  You could try another groin attack now.  But, if he is on his knees, run......to open up some space between you and the attacker so you can get away.

If you have the ability and sometimes, hit the emergency button on your cell phone...

You have one programmed into your phone, right?  That goes immediately to 911.

(I have actually hit this by mistake.) 

 

Good luck out there and stay safe.

Posted by

Moving in Excellence!

Don Sabinske, Broker, GRI

www.donsabinske.com

Sabinske & Associates Inc.

763-350-7960

Specializing in Sherburne, Wright, Anoka and Hennepin Counties...We can help you move!

 

Comments (9)

John McCormack, CRS
Albuquerque Homes Realty - Albuquerque, NM
Honesty, Integrity, Results, Experienced. HIRE Me!

Suggested.

Don this is a very important and timely post.  When John has a gut feeling that something is not right I ride along with him.  Sometimes I stay in the car, sometimes I go in with him.  We also take along precautions making sure to have protection on hand when the gut say's nope not right.  Follow your instincts.


Debbie ~

Jul 11, 2014 09:09 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Los Angeles Pasadena 818.516.4393

Hi Don -- as Debbie suggested -- go with you gut - instincts - "feelings".   Important for everyone.

Jul 11, 2014 10:26 AM
Debbie Laity
Cedaredge Land Company - Cedaredge, CO
Your Real Estate Resource for Delta County, CO

I often don't think about my own safety. I was at a bank owned property today...which was vacant. I heard some strange noises outside and got alarmed. It was the wind thank goodness. Thanks for the tips. Suggested. 

Jul 11, 2014 10:36 AM
Amanda S. Davidson
Amanda Davidson Real Estate Group Brokered By eXp Realty - Alexandria, VA
Alexandria Virginia Homes For Sale

Don, suggested. This post needs to be read by everyone. You just never know when something could happen. I've been in a situation where I had been out with the buyer multiple times and had no odd feelings or concerns and then he came at me. Knowing what to do and being prepared is a must!

Jul 11, 2014 11:50 PM
Don Sabinske
Don Sabinske, Sabinske & Associates Inc. - Zimmerman, MN
Sabinske & Associates Inc.

This has helped at least three agents of whom I am aware.  Just boxing the ears and hitting the groin works pretty effectively!

Jul 12, 2014 06:52 AM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, Keller Williams Fox Cities - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

Wow Don, that sounds like an effective way to take down and aggressor, best to make sure that they are really attacking before taking all of these steps or you may be the one serving time.

Jul 12, 2014 07:42 AM
Don Sabinske
Don Sabinske, Sabinske & Associates Inc. - Zimmerman, MN
Sabinske & Associates Inc.

I agree, Bob.  But, it is better to be prepared in case something goes awry when dealing with the public.

Jul 13, 2014 02:40 AM
Inna Ivchenko
Barcode Properties - Encino, CA
Realtor® • Green • GRI • HAFA • PSC Calabasas CA

I used to carry a cute pink battle of pepper spray. I think, I need to find it again.

It is so heart breaking to hear cases when a female Realtor was attacked...

Aug 17, 2014 05:42 PM
Robert Bob Gilbert
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Anderson Properties - Katy, TX
Your Katy TX ( West of Houston) Real Estate Expert

Don, 

Great advice and men can use your words of wisdom as much as women. There are weirdos who attack anyone. Thanks for the post. 

Aug 23, 2014 02:24 AM

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