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ActiveRain Memorial Luncheon For Lee Rome-Friends, Food, Fortunate!

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ActiveRain Memorial Luncheon For Lee Rome-Friends, Food, Fortunate!

 

Today we held a special ActiveRain Meetup in memory of Lee Rome, and in support of Margaret Rome.

 

When Lee passed away 2 months ago, there was an outpouring of love for Margaret.  There were folks that wanted to support her but were unable to attend the service.   There were folks that found out much too late to attend.  Several spoke to me about getting together the local ActiveRain friends support.  At the time, though incredibly touched, Margaret was not ready. 

 

About a week ago, we talked about it again and Margaret said, "I think I am ready".   I put out the call, and 11 beautiful souls showed up to celebrate Lee, mourn with and support Margaret in her time of need and many more were with us in spirit.  There were 11 of us at the table in addition to Margaret, and one collective group who were sending love from near and far.  The way I see it, that makes 13. In Judaism, 13 is considered "spiritually significant", a perfect number of guests to celebrate the love that Margaret and Lee shared.

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There truly was such a lovely feel about the luncheon at Kelsey's today.  Our waitress could not have been more attentive, the food could not have been better, and the sharing of spirit truly made me feel fortunate to be part of this forum. 

There were hugs.  There were tears.  There was laughter.  Most of all there was a connection that is so special among those who were able to make it, and shared by those that weren't.  As always, Margaret shared herself with everyone.   She told several stories about Lee that had us all laughing.  She shared her pain, she comforted one who is going through her own pain. 

My daughter Sydney has been working on a song and got up the courage to sing it for Margaret, Ann, Alan and me, after everyone else left.   The song was truly a perfect reflection of the connection that Lee and Margaret shared and will continue to share...

Near, far, wherever you are
I believe that the heart does go on
Once more you open the door
And you're here in my heart
And my heart will go on and on

 

As long as Margaret has a voice to share and a heart that beats, Lee will not be gone, her heart will go on and on.  In my heart I know that Lee is smiling down on Margaret and all whom  she loves.

 

Hopefully Sydney will not mind me sharing a sample version we were fooling around with this weekend. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Warm Regards,

Bridget McGee  Maryland Mortgage Mama  NMLS# 196068  SWBC Mortgage.   410-960-2061 EHO   bridget.mcgee@swbc.com or www.marylandmortgagemama.com

 

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Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

What a lovely photograph and it's very difficult to find balance, I'm so glad Margaret has her support and love . . . we are family!

Jul 18, 2014 02:36 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Bridget, this shows the bond between you and Margaret. And yes, I do have sweet memories of Lee.

Jul 18, 2014 03:23 PM
Kathy Smiley
Rodeo Realty ~ Fine Estates Westlake Village - Newbury Park, CA
"Real Estate results that make YOU smile!"

Bridget - a beautiful outpouring of love! 

Jul 18, 2014 04:37 PM
Jon Quist
REALTY EXECUTIVES ARIZONA TERRITORY - Tucson, AZ
Tucson's BUYERS ONLY Realtor since 1996

Very thoughtful and touching post about Lee and Margaret Rome.

Jul 18, 2014 05:32 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

What a beautiful way to support Margaret.  I'm happy it went so well!

 

Jul 18, 2014 09:18 PM
Richard Iarossi
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - Crofton, MD
Crofton MD Real Estate, Annapolis MD Real Estate

Bridget,

I'm so glad you called to remind me. I would have been really disappointed to miss this.

Rich

Jul 18, 2014 09:34 PM
Joe Pryor
The Virtual Real Estate Team - Oklahoma City, OK
REALTOR® - Oklahoma Investment Properties

From personal experience having cancer I found that the REALTOR® community as well as the other folks in the industry are to a great extent a compassionate group that are incredibly supportive of anone "when the chips are down". I know we see rants here and elsewhere on social media about bad actors in our business, but when I see something like this it reminds me just how good people are.

Jul 18, 2014 10:01 PM
Amanda Christiansen
Christiansen Group Realty (260)704-0843 - Fort Wayne, IN
Christiansen Group Realty

This is beautiful to read.  This is a great example of the Active Rain community as a whole.  We're always there for each other.  Thank you for sharing.  

Jul 18, 2014 10:39 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

We pass each other on the street...

on our way to who knows where,

but shouldn't we stop and look around...

and lo and behold a friend will be found...

When we share and care and take the time to invest...

we find out that friends are like all the rest....

A pal, buddy and always a chum, you find that life is better when you have one

Jul 18, 2014 11:11 PM
Brian Schulman
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage, Lancaster PA - Lancaster, PA
Lancaster County PA RealEstate Expert 717-951-5552

Bridget, your daughter Sydney has a lovely spirit.  Thanks for sharing her video.

Jul 18, 2014 11:59 PM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

Bridget, that was a wonderful opportunity. Thank you for being a great friend to Margaret. I'm sure she needed the boost. 

Jul 19, 2014 01:24 AM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Wonderful testiment to power of friendship in the Rain. I didn't know about Lee and I'm sending lots of love Margaret's way. By the way, bravo to Sydney. Very sweet.

Jul 19, 2014 01:54 AM
Sharon Paxson
Sharon Paxson, Realtor® EQTY Forbes Global Properties - Newport Beach, CA
Newport Beach Real Estate

That is wonderful that you had this luncheon and there was so much support. We really do have some amazing friendships as a result of the rain.

Jul 19, 2014 07:29 AM
Norma Toering Broker for Palos Verdes and Beach Cities
Charlemagne International Properties - Rancho Palos Verdes, CA
Palos Verdes Luxury Homes in L.A.

That's what friends are for, and Margaret is a friend to so many.

Jul 19, 2014 07:41 AM
Lana Robbins Realtor ® Licensed Real Estate Broker
Aloha Kai Real Estate - Clearwater, FL
Licensed in Florida, Washington, and Hawai'i

Hi Bridget. I can only imagine how challenging it's been for Margaret. Nice to know so many people care.

Jul 19, 2014 11:11 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

I think it is so special that the ActiveRain community has those who met in memorial and support in this way.  It's truly what community is about.

Jul 19, 2014 11:13 AM
Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375
Atlanta Homes ODAT Realty - Love our Great City - Love our Clients! Buckhead - Midtown - Westside - Atlanta, GA
Concierge Service for Our Atlanta Sellers & Buyers

Dear Bridget and Sydney,
Reading this is all the more special since I had the chance to meet both of you. Your plan was a significant experience for Margaret and I am sure for everyone who attended and everyone who commented.
Sincerely,
Lynn

Jul 19, 2014 11:58 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

As I said earlier, so good to see this done the right way. :

Jul 19, 2014 03:49 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Bridget... this was a very special post and very heartfelt. I know Margaret got much comfort from your support.

Jul 19, 2014 09:07 PM
Elizabeth Weintraub Sacramento Broker
Elizabeth Anne Weintraub, Broker - Sacramento, CA
Put 40 years of experience to work for you

Your daughter has a lovely voice. I did not recognize the lyrics and thought at first she had written them.

What a nice thing to do for Margaret, and for all of you as well. Whenever we give of ourselves, we always tend to get something surprising back in return. You're very fortunate people, and Margaret is very special.

Jul 20, 2014 02:42 AM