Be Aggressive - Diary of a New Realtor

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Real Estate Agent with BERKSHIRE HATHAWAY HomeServices, PINEHURST REALTY GROUP NC#280490

"Be agressive." be..be.. aggressive. That's some of the brilliant advice I've received as I've begun to navigate the world of Real Estate. But there's a problem; I'm not agressive. I'm not a salesperson. There is nothing wrong with being a salesperson, I quite envy the chap that can sell a screen-door to a submarine. That's just not me. I feel sorry for the submarine. I want to tell it it's sinking... 

"It's a cut-throat business. You have to be strong." Um. I might cry if you're mean to me. In my car. After you yell at me. I don't do cut-throat. "You've got to push. Push. Push Push." But I'm a hugger, not a pusher. 

Here's the thing, folks. I might be new at this but I have an old soul. I was serious when I took my oath to advocate for my customers and put their needs above mine. That's how I'm wired.

And this is why, I think, I'm going to kick ask and take name badges: Because I work hard. Because I have integrity. Because I will fight for my clients like a mother hen if anyone tries to nickel and dime them.

And then, hopefully, we'll all hug it out and sit down for a nice lunch at the "Olive Garden." Because when you're there, you're family. 

Luckily, I ended up in a firm with an incredible bunch of people who have gone out of their way to help me. I know I have a lot to learn. I'll do anything for anyone without stepping on toes or compromising my integrity. I'll leave the sales at the mall. Let's see how I'm doing in a few months. This should be fun!

Comments (95)

Anonymous
Julie Reyes, Realtor~Bronx, NY

Much success to you on your new and exciting career!!
Great post - stay true to your self, and prospect, prospect, prospect :-)

Aug 01, 2014 05:12 PM
#77
Inna Ivchenko
Barcode Properties - Encino, CA
Realtor® • GRI • HAFA • PSC Calabasas CA

Rachel,

look what you have done with your very first blog post;) Close to 100 comments and a gold star. Well done!

Aug 01, 2014 05:47 PM
Jim Miner
Miner Noh & Associates - Phoenix, AZ
Loan Modfication & Short Sale Specialist

As you move through the months, remember "you can't fix stupid", sometimes you just have to "push" it along.

Aug 02, 2014 03:23 AM
Kimo Jarrett
WikiWiki Realty - Huntington Beach, CA
Pro Lifestyle Solutions

When you simply help people get what they want, you're not a salesperson, you're an adviser. People who are sold usually sell themselves on the value of their purchase, so simply help people like you would want to be helped in their situation and you'll do well. Best of success to you and your business.

Aug 02, 2014 09:36 AM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH Real Estate - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Hey, Rachel!  I incuded this post in today's Last Week's Favorites. 

Aug 03, 2014 12:39 AM
Sandy Padula and Norm Padula, JD, GRI
HomeSmart Realty West & Lend Smart Mortgage, Llc. - Carlsbad, CA
Presence, Persistence & Perseverance

Rachel: You will encounter a great number of self-serving agents, perhaps even in your own office, as you really get to know them. My advice is to keep your potential deals close to your vest and do not share any information about your pipeline with ANYONE! I have been 'burned' on numerous occasions and will never again be taken for a ride by a peer.

Aug 03, 2014 12:52 AM
Mary Hutchison, SRES, ABR
Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate-Kansas City Homes - Kansas City, MO
Experienced Agent in Kansas City Metro area

It took me a couple of years but then I learned to stop listening to everyone who told me how to run my business--and then decided to do it 'my way' --which means in a way I am comfortable with.  I remember all the 'be agressive' advice in the beginning, make X number of cold calls...that isn't me.

Be true to yourself as you work hard and you will be successful!

Aug 03, 2014 01:13 AM
Jordon Wheeler
The Jordon Wheeler Group - Fairburn, GA
J W Group Real Estate Sales and Service

Hi Rachel,

Welcome to Active Rain!  Here you will find an awesome group of folks who are on top of the real estate industry and like to support each other.

Set goals and go for it!  And leverage your relationships to create good in someone elses life.

Best of GREAT success to you in 2014 and beyond!

Aug 03, 2014 03:27 AM
Rachel Hernandez
BERKSHIRE HATHAWAY HomeServices, PINEHURST REALTY GROUP - Pinehurst, NC

Thank you Jordon Wheeler ! Excited to be part of AR. Wishing you much success in Hotlanta!! Looking forward to hearing more about you! Do you work with your family? That's a whole other blog, isn't it?

I know what you mean Mary Hutchison, SRES, ABR  about trying to find our own groove. Glad you've found yours! Thanks for the encouragement!

Thanks Norman Padula for the smart advice. I am very trusting. I need to learn boundaries. I'm even reading a whole book about it! I wish you the best too!

Patricia Kennedy thanks for the love! How is DC? I moved from Annapolis area last March. Love and miss my peeps.

 

Aug 03, 2014 09:55 AM
Rachel Hernandez
BERKSHIRE HATHAWAY HomeServices, PINEHURST REALTY GROUP - Pinehurst, NC

Kimo Jarrett , a peice of my heart lives in Huntington Beach. My brother lived there for years and it was his happy place. There is something magical in the air there. You are blessed.

Jim Miner thanks for commenting! Hows AZ?

Sarah Oswald , well put! Thanks for reading my post!

Thanks Tammy Adams for stopping by and the follow. Please help keep me in line! My best to you too!

Marte Cliff , I like your vibe! Can't wait to read you posts!

 

Aug 03, 2014 09:56 AM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH Real Estate - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Rachel, DC is wonderful this week.  The weather has been perfect (unusual for this time of year).  And while I love the entire state of North Carolina, it must have been hard to leave Annapolis.

Oh!  And I think it's time for you to write another blog post!  As you can tell, a lot of us enjoyed reading what you have to say.

Aug 03, 2014 10:43 AM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Thanks Rachel - I like that line: "like your vibe." I like yours too! 

Aug 03, 2014 11:15 AM
Claude Labbe
Real Living | At Home - Washington, DC
Realty for Your Busy Life

So, Rachel's not a pushy saleswoman.

But I'm getting the vibe that she's a dedicated and professional real estate consultant.  Some people prefer that. 

Go, go work your craft. You certainly already have your personal policies defined.  Integrity included.

Aug 03, 2014 03:45 PM
Helena Bigler
Century 21 Arizona Foothills - Phoenix, AZ
GRI

I believed that if you would just be yourself you will invite buyers or sellers that is just a perfect match for you to help them in there journey of buying or selling properties. As you grow your business you will find out that some buyers/ sellers are not your cup of tea. But the best part is you keep movi'n on to the next one.

Aug 03, 2014 05:45 PM
John MacLennan
RE/MAX Grande Prairie - Grande Prairie, AB
"Not 9 to 5, I will help you Start To Finish"

Be Professional. In my region there is a dilution in that so REALTORs® that strive to be the "go to" person/resource while exhibiting true traits of professionalism will be more magnetically inclined to attract better clients and be referred to, thus closing more deals in a more fun and fulfilling manner.

Aug 04, 2014 05:34 AM
Whitney Watson
First Heritage Mortgage - Henrico, VA

Rachel, Welcome to the rain! I love your focus and energy and look forward to reading more of your posts.

Aug 06, 2014 05:52 AM
Brandi Brown
PorchLight Real Estate Group - Denver, CO

Really enjoyed this post.  I think being true to yourself and having integrity will get you much further in life and in this business.  People can see when you are not authentic and you will feel 'off' trying to be someone that you really are not.  The right kind of clients will come your way that appreciate your honesty and non-aggressive ways and will refer you more because of your approach.  Good luck and all the best!

 

Aug 21, 2014 02:26 AM
Eren Millam
Realty World Cosser & Associates, Inc. - Chehalis, WA
Certified Negotiation Expert

Your gameplan sounds similar to mine. It is starting to pay off a little bit in terms of $$$, but even more so receiving compliments from people I have never met before! 

Aug 24, 2014 10:13 AM
Inna Ivchenko
Barcode Properties - Encino, CA
Realtor® • GRI • HAFA • PSC Calabasas CA

There a lot of agents who think that being aggressive is good. I'm not always sharing this opinion, because there are different ways of being aggressive in this business.

Apr 03, 2015 04:58 PM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, EXP - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

In my experience, the non agressive sales people outsell the aggressive ones everytime!

Happy Easter!

Bob

Apr 04, 2015 04:35 PM