How To Sleep, Eat, and Dress When You're a Working Mom

By
Mortgage and Lending with First Heritage Mortgage NMLS #: 938761

As a working mom, bringing some sort of order to my household is key to being able to focus when it's time to work.  If you're getting zero sleep, are stressed before you even leave the house, and come home to a mess in the evenings, your work life is bound to suffer.  Here are some of my favorite resources and tips when it comes to managing and simplifying home life:

 

1) Need Sleep?  Check out Moms on Call:  If you return to work after you have children, sleep will be your number one priority.  The resources at Moms on Call are provided by nurses who specialize in teaching moms how to understand their babies' sleep cycles so that they can help train their babies how to sleep through the night as soon as possible.  I know that topic is super controversial, but I truly believe that babies and toddler need to learn how to put themselves to sleep on their own and connect their sleep cycles in the middle of the night--there's not a magical sleep fairy that visits babies randomly.  Once they master that skill (for my daughter, it was four months old), everyone will be much much happier!  

 

2) Dinnertime Drama? If you are struggling to get dinner on the table in the evenings, there are so many great resources out there to help working moms.  Blue Apron is one of my favorites as it cuts out the planning and shopping--all of the items you need for meals arrive at your house on ice in a box once a week.  The meal preparation itself can be a little tedious, however, as the recipes can be complicated.  I use this service once or twice a month to change things up and give myself a weekend off of meal planning and grocery shopping.  

 

Another option is a grocery shopping service.  In Richmond, VA, we have Relay Foods.  You can shop for your groceries online and pick them up once a week at a location convenient to your house.  They sometimes have meal packages as well.  I have some great meal plans on my blog Loan Officer Lately if you need some ideas for week night meals.

 

And then, there's always take-out.  Not gonna lie--we probably go with this option more than we should! 

 

3) Design a Work UniformGetting out of the door in the mornings is probably the most difficult task of all for the Watson household.  For me, it was always a struggle to coordinate an outfit.  When I added a baby now toddler to the mix, I no longer had time to spend 30 minutes in my closet every morning.  

 

Thankfully, a great friend of mind who owns the boutique Wardrobe in Richmond, VA, helped me pick out a work uniform.  It consists of the Sloan pant from Banana Republic and loose-fitting blouses.  I have four pairs of the pants and 8-10 of the blouses, and that's my wardrobe.  I have a few dresses I occasionally throw in the mix, but I try my best to stick to this formula.  My morning have been exponentially easier since I adopted this practice.  You can read more and see link to the outfit at my blog Loan Officer Lately.

 

Do you have any tips or awesome resources that have helped you manage your home life more easily?  

Comments (39)

Kim Peasley-Parker
AgentOwned Realty, Heritage Group, Inc. - Sumter, SC

Great points about the work uniform.  I do that all ready.  Just need to get the dinner thing figured out.  

Aug 05, 2014 03:20 AM
Kat Palmiotti
406-270-3667, kat@thehousekat.com, Broker, eXp Realty - Kalispell, MT
The House Kat

Those are excellent tips for anyone who struggles with time management.  Thanks for sharing!

Aug 05, 2014 04:44 AM
Shannon Milligan, Richmond VA Real Estate Agent/Associate Broker
RVA Home Team - Richmond, VA
RVA Home Team - Winning with Integrity.

These are some great tips for working moms! Since you are one of my favorite Richmond VA mortgage lenders, I often get to see your work uniform and you always look different and fresh...Who knew they were variations of the same outfit?!

Aug 05, 2014 05:31 AM
Whitney Watson
First Heritage Mortgage - Henrico, VA

Debbie-It is quite the adjustment for new moms. Thank you for your comment!

Sybil-Thank you for stopping by!

Patricia-Thank you for your kind words. It took me a while to figure out the wardrobe trick and now it's a huge help!

Praful-I got the work uniform idea from seeing how quick my husband's routine is in the morning. 

Bill-I'm sure you could give me a few tips! 

 

Aug 05, 2014 05:47 AM
Robert Bob Gilbert
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Anderson Properties - Katy, TX
Your Katy TX ( West of Houston) Real Estate Expert

Whitney, Al of these are excellent suggestions/points for working Mom's of any age. We still suffer the age old question " What is for Dinner" and it drives my poor wife crazy ( she works - days off are during the week). A baby throws all kinds of stuff into the mix. We are past the baby stage. good luck and it seems you are doing very well with coping. It is not easy to say the least. 

Aug 05, 2014 05:59 AM
Whitney Watson
First Heritage Mortgage - Henrico, VA

Kathy-Thank you for your kind words!

Debbie-Anything that allows me to spend more time with my daughter is a win for me!

Stacy Ann-Sleep is essential to keep all the other parts going smoothly. I hope the tips were helpful!

Pamela-Relay Foods is such a neat option and they strive to offer healthy foods at competitve prices. 

Tom-I got my wardrobe trick from my husband. There's so many things we learn from each other! I'd say being able to turn off work mode when we're able to spend time with our kids is a great one for moms and dads. 

Inna-I'm not a coffee drinker but I know that works for most of my friends

Than-I know many who have that kind of help when they're home with a newborn. I cherished that time! 

Richie-Good advice! Thank you for stopping by. 

 

 

 

Aug 05, 2014 06:01 AM
Tammie White, Broker
Franklin Homes Realty LLC - Franklin, TN
Franklin TN Homes for Sale

Whitney, I am so impressed with your organization. You must be a kick-butt loan officer. This is great info for working moms.

Aug 05, 2014 06:32 AM
Whitney Watson
First Heritage Mortgage - Henrico, VA

Thanks Shannon Milligan, Richmond VA Real Estate Agent!  You always look great yourself! ;-

Aug 05, 2014 11:06 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
GreatWest Realty - Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Real Estate Agent

When I first became a Realtor, I had 3 kids at home.  Looking back, I don't know how I accomplished what I did!  I could have certainly used your tips and those resources back then!

Aug 05, 2014 11:26 AM
Barbara Altieri
Better Homes and Gardens RE Shore and Country Properties - Shelton, CT
REALTOR-Fairfield County CT Homes/Condos For Sale

Whitney -- BR Sloan pants?  Love them!  You have me beat. Think I only have three pairs but they are my go-to pants to get out the door quickly.

Aug 05, 2014 11:46 AM
Andrea Bedard
Thompson Company, REALTORS® 240.593.2860 - Silver Spring, MD
Fluent in German and Real Estate * M.A. ABR ASP

I'm a single mommy of 2 Whitney. It took some trial and error but I've found a winning formula. Preparing for the new day the night before including picking out your outfit for the next day (I agree and will have to look for Sloan pants at BR next time) and involving my kids and rewarding them for a job well done.

P.S. "Bubble please" is our code word for "the phone is ringing, we need to be quiet so mommy can focus on the call".

Aug 05, 2014 12:49 PM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

My son turned 27 in March.  I have no knowledge about this phase anymore, although I KNOW for a fact I lived through it.  LOL

Aug 05, 2014 02:10 PM
Bryan Robertson
Los Altos, CA

Great post!  You're really well organized.  I'll bet all this good thinking pays off for clients as well. 

Aug 06, 2014 12:57 AM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Whitney-Some great tips for working Mom's. I can' even imagine keeping myself and two kids organized. I have enough keeping myself and taking care of my elderly Mom full time plus coordinating an aide that comes in 3X a week. Sounds like you have a good handle on things

Aug 07, 2014 03:24 AM
Norma Toering Broker for Palos Verdes and Beach Cities
Charlemagne International Properties - Rancho Palos Verdes, CA
Palos Verdes Luxury Homes in L.A.

Those are great timeless tips for working women whether they have kids at home or their kids are long gone!  

Aug 10, 2014 01:07 AM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV, MD
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

Whitney, those are great ideas. Where were you when my boys were born? Oh wait, you were probably toddling then too. 8-) I'll pass this info on to my currently very pregnant daughter-in-law. I'm sure she'll appreciate it. 

Aug 10, 2014 03:21 AM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH Real Estate - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Hey, Whitney!  I included this post in today's Last Week's Favorites! 

Aug 10, 2014 05:26 AM
Joanna Cohlan
Fresh Eyes For Your Home - Chappaqua, NY
Designing, Decorating & Staging Westchester Homes

Great information for new moms and even experienced moms in your local area.  Glad I came over from Pat's picks.

Aug 10, 2014 09:43 AM
Kristin Johnston - REALTOR®
RE/MAX Realty Center - Waukesha, WI
Giving Back With Each Home Sold!

I saw this on a repost of Patricias summary for the week...glad I didn't miss it!

Aug 11, 2014 12:23 AM
Robert Vegas Bob Swetz
Las Vegas, NV

Hello Whitney ... great post and I almost missed this one! Love the comments and your post has been featured to the group:

SUCCESS AT ACTIVERAIN 

Aug 11, 2014 12:56 AM

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